To empty the tank or not

[CheekieMonkey]

Probably a newbie question. In order to maximize performance, do you prefer to “empty the tank” before seeing an SP (ex a day or a few hours before) or to save your seeds for a few days?

I’ve seen contradicting opinions on this. Asking for a friend that can be prone to performance anxiety

 

[twenty4seven]

Probably a newbie question. In order to maximize performance, do you prefer to “empty the tank” before seeing an SP (ex a day or a few hours before) or to save your seeds for a few days?

I’ve seen contradicting opinions on this. Asking for a friend that can be prone to performance anxiety

Performance anxiety as in premature ejaculation or staying hard during your session? For cumming quick, yeah rub one out beforehand doesn't hurt to make you last longer. For the other, you probably want to me nice and frustratingly horny, so maybe saving it up is better. At the end of the day it's your body, so you might have to do some trial and error if you don't already know what works for you (sorry, 'your friend').

 

[bodick7]

Hum..this tends to flattened with age and experience.
From my POV, I stay quiet for at least 2 days but I’m an old fart.
Instead of “performing”, simply cast yourself away into pleasure and let go.
If you had chosen the right SP, repeat as needed. As @twenty4seven told you, trials will dictate your explosion paiste.
Just relax and enjoy the moment. Don’t be hard on yourself if it’s too short.
Even members on this board doesn’t have an orgasm each time. Worst, some have none…
Tell yourself it’s way better too fast than nothing.
…It happened to me once 2 years ago to get a fast explosion.
Surprisingly, my favorite at that time told me: “That was almost faster than my BF!!!” Ha!Ha!

 

[tockson]

From my personal experience, i've stopped been PE the moment i realized that i was way too much focus on how good it felt. To last longer, i needed to focus more on what was happening and not the pleasure itself.... if that make sense....

But nonetheless, it happened from time to time that i explode after 5min cause im way too horny, but most of the time, it can take me 30min to 2h depending of the girl

 

[Johnny test]

Depends a lot of on the issue you're trying to solve, for example with age, i tend to be more sensitive but don't really have premature ejaculation. So "emptying the tank" as you say isn't a good idea in my case.
If you're not too senstive or don't have any erection issue it can be an option.
That being said, in your friend's case , coming too soon isn't an issue in itself, it is the result of anxiety. So it's anxiety that should be tackled.
What i mean is that there are probably other ways to solve this kind of anxiety than masturbation.

 

[IamNY]

If I’m in town to sport fuck this usually isn’t a concern. After you get that first one out of your system it’s all good going forward. But, if you’re only having one encounter it wouldn’t be the worst idea to rub one out the day before. Even then, sometimes the girl is just so hot or talented that it’s almost impossible not to nut before the hour is up.

 

[LeDodo]

Some reading for OP: do-you-ever-save-up-your-nut-for-your-favorite-sp

Even members on this board doesn’t have an orgasm each time.

That would be me but I still don't know why

It happened to me once 2 years ago to get a fast explosion.

This happened also but still don't know why lol

 

[bodick7]

That would be me but I still don't know why

It happened sometimes to me too but not with my favorites. Not the end of the world.

 

[ElPadrino]

If I empty the tank before a session, I lose all interest in my appointment. At that point I’d rather do something else with my time and money; the post nut clarity is real. LOL Not to mention sensation second time around is nowhere near as enjoyable.

Let it build up, I want to be ultra craving by the time I schedule an appointment. The I take all the time I want on foreplay, alternating acts and positions. Filling the hour with pleasure (both giving and receiving) is never an issue.

 

[Johnny test]

Some reading for OP: do-you-ever-save-up-your-nut-for-your-favorite-sp

That would be me but I still don't know why


This happened also but still don't know why lol

For some reason it seems (some) people think that female orgasm is complex and male's isn't. Both have a mechanical and psychological aspect so sometimes Men don't come and also men can ejaculate and not have an orgasm.
Lot of different reasons for that, that can also vary depending on people.
For me chemistry has a lot of effect on that, also intimate knowledge of your partner, stress etc.
And of course it takes two to tango so a lot can depend on your partner who can have a bad day.
But i digress

 

[TheJames101]

If I empty the tank before a session, I lose all interest in my appointment. At that point I’d rather do something else with my time and money; the post nut clarity is real. LOL