How likely are you to report a bad hobbying experience?

[LeDodo]

I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

 

[mtlspacial]

I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.

Social media is a big culprit here. The algorithm will literally feed you only videos and pictures of stunning models. You end up expecting that's the standard. AI made it even worse. A stunning model (real) doesn't compare to a perfect fake AI girl in the looks department IMO.

 

[Wildstar]

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

I read an article recently that put forth the same thesis, namely: the rise of social media, instagram and filters have flattened the concept of beauty. So many people are chasing the same beauty standards (Karadshian/Jenner, Emily Ratajkowski, Olivia Rodrigo, etc.), and getting the same cosmetic procedures, and therefore converging on a similar look as the standard. It also claimed that it had distorted the dating market, in that guys in small town Iowa are not the only ones competing for the hometown beauty queen; she's getting offers to be flown out by, for example, Miami influencers. Like most 'just so' stories, it's overdetermined, but was interesting nonetheless. Here's an article from a few years ago discussing the converging beauty standards theory: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/beauty-features-same-face-instagram-b2534111.html

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Interesting to note as well than men are increasingly and substantially affected by these exagerrated beauty standards, whether it has to do with hair loss, shape of the jaw line, biceps, etc.

 

[madmonkey82]

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

I think the filtered, botox injected dolls are actually ugly AF IMHO. I much prefer natural looking women in general.
It feels so wrong and broken to have everyone have this asthetic and often zero personality.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I read an article recently that put forth the same thesis, namely: the rise of social media, instagram and filters have flattened the concept of beauty. So many people are chasing the same beauty standards (Karadshian/Jenner, Emily Ratajkowski, Olivia Rodrigo, etc.), and getting the same cosmetic procedures, and therefore converging on a similar look as the standard. It also claimed that it had distorted the dating market, in that guys in small town Iowa are not the only ones competing for the hometown beauty queen; she's getting offers to be flown out by, for example, Miami influencers. Like most 'just so' stories, it's overdetermined, but was interesting nonetheless. Here's an article from a few years ago discussing the converging beauty standards theory: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/beauty-features-same-face-instagram-b2534111.html

"Are we all going to end up with the same face?"

So many girls look exactly the same now, it's horrifying.

I (personally) don't think I am beautiful, or rather I never felt like I fit the typical beauty mold, yet I don't try to meet those high standards. I don't even wear make-up! I look like myself, "a normal-looking person" (to quote @Hmmm…), and that's where I am the most confident.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I had to look up what was an "hickey" and ...yikes ! Lol

I would prefer this to not happen to me. I bruise easily and it takes forever to go.

To answer OP as long as its done politely/constructively and is not gratuitous bashing, i think a negative review is just as fine as a positive one. The service/attitude part is what is the most important in my opinion.

I seen look being mentioned. Thats the part i sometimes feel a little uneased with when clients are harsh with an SP on that side. Unless pictures are clearly done in a deceiving way, i don't think its an important factor to bring too much on. And if it is, i think it can be mentioned in a respectful matter.

 

[Lans]

"I would have appreciated an inch or more in depth of insertion of the tongue, and a twirling motion that is a bit faster in order to satisfy my need for DFK"

#joke

Yea exactly. I agree with your sarcastic comment. Unexperienced provider who see comment that her BJ aren't the best may be tempted to get her skill to another level. By either learning from other, asking clients tips or what they like or not, watching porn to learn ect. The negative comment can be the start to improve. The provider who give the best BJ were not always that good. They learn somewhere.

I learn more how to cunnilingus from girl who told me how bad I was then from girl who faked an orgasm and then ghosted me.

Be thankful when you see negative comment. Of course there is a way to say it without being a jerk.

 

[Hmmm…]

I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.

It’s a fantasy of the unobtainable. There are racetracks where you can rent out a Ferrari for a few laps and there are rentals in Miami you can rent out a Lambo for an hour to show off in front of the club. You are right that no one is expecting a Victoria Secret model with hair and makeup done unless you are like a $1k+/hr.

I think at least for me, we all know in high school or university the popular pretty girl would never even look at you or roll their eyes when you try to talk to them. Now with all the egirls and girls doing lewd cosplays that started with Belle Delphine and all the AI digital creators, I don’t think anyone can help not being influenced by that. Of course stuff like that would require 30min - 1h just for makeup and hair. So it’s not necessarily pro model but cute and pretty. Also, it’s clear that people do not like substance abuse or trafficking or any signs of coercion. It seems even cigarettes are a big turn off now.