Continuos SP Cancellations and Your Time

[Vegeta1]

Personally my only issue is that there is no "equivalence" in this business.

If you are a client and cancel : You are the bad guy or/and you lose deposits. Hey i agree with that... Its how it should be.

But if you are the SP and cancel : Oh well tough luck budy ... better chance next time...

I know there is some gymnastic saying "its our business, while you do that for fun" wich ok... i can at least understand the reasoning. But if a client goes out of his way to book you, like pay travel, pay hotel, reserve his time... is it ok to just be like "im sorry bud... can we reschedule".

I dunno... for me it kinda feel "not right". Should a discount the equivalent of a deposit be applied next time he schedule and it work?

Je sais que ca peux sembler un peu "bébé" de dire ca ... mais imaginez ... vous etes un parents et votre enfant se leve le jour de Noel... mais ya pas de cadeau en dessous de l'arbre... Et la vous dites a votre enfant "bin dsl le pere noel y pouvais pas passer... y'avais mal au ventre". Moi c'est un peu de meme je me sens quand ya une cancellation surtout 3/4 du temps c'est tellement des excuses bizarres qui cache autre chose. Je sais que bin des clients sont des ... hum je peux pas dire le mot parce que ...rules... lol, mais je suis pas eux. Moi je book, je show up... Meme si j'ai une jambe peter je vais quand meme show up !! (la demoiselle devra juste travailler une tite affaire plus lol). Bref ... juste mon sentiment.

Bingo! Blame others, take zero accountability, and expect folks here to agree + acknowledge + support your one-way reasoning. I wonder what this thread would look like if the dialogue was flipped (customer cancelling on SP).

That being said, thankfully, not all SPs are like the ones chiming in to this thread. Some actually acknowledge the inconvenience caused by last minute cancellations and make it up to customers at their discretion (new appointment, discount, etc.).

 

[Halloween Mike]

I wonder what this thread would look like if the dialogue was flipped (customer cancelling on SP).

That being said, thankfully, not all SPs are like the ones chiming in to this thread.

Sadly there is a lot of customers that do tough. And very few SPs that actively engage on the board (outside of ads). So its not a good reflection but basically what im trying to say is i put a lot of blame on clients who cancel too. They screw up the business not only of the SPs (making them lose revenues, time etc) but us the legit clients as it lead to many different "counter measures" taken by the SPs wich are not "ideal" even if you are 100% genuine in your bookings.

Try to not be too harsh on the SPs that DO participate here. I am personally happy they do. I may not always agree with them, even sometimes hard disagree, but i think conversation, exchanges, knowledge, can only be benefit for everybody. Its true that we (clients) can't have a 100% knowledge of what happen behind the scene, even if we been partially at that place (because we known SPs more personally, or even booked in some case). And even another SP is only 100% knowledgable of her own situation. The situation of a different provider can be totally different as well.

There is an escort subreddit where they don't allow clients to post, but they allow us to "lurk", and i been reading a lot on various situations and i noticed providers "bickering" among themselves is happening often. They don't all have the same situations, same bookings, same clients base etc. I do have to say i had to bite my tongue more than once to refrain from posting on stuff that i really disagreed hard (lol) but for the most part its a good read and it bring a lot of good infos.

 

[Dvsone]

There is an escort subreddit where they don't allow clients to post, but they allow us to "lurk", and i been reading a lot on various situations and i noticed providers "bickering" among themselves is happening often. They don't all have the same situations, same bookings, same clients base etc. I do have to say i had to bite my tongue more than once to refrain from posting on stuff that i really disagreed hard (lol) but for the most part its a good read and it bring a lot of good infos.

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

 

[Enjoying life]

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

700 an hour do not think so

 

[Halloween Mike]

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

Its mostly American tough so i can understand the style is different over there. But yeah sometimes i read pretty much what you say, or super entitled opinions, and then i just have to bite my tongue as im not allowed to post since im not an SP myself.

 

[CaptRenault]

There is always a chance of a last minute cancellation or time change with any call girl, whether she works for an agency or is a so-called independent.

I have had a few bad experiences with last minute changes with both agency girls and indies. But one great thing about dealing with an agency is that I have always been able to book another girl for the same day or night, and sometime the substitute girl turns out to be a pleasant surprise.

A couple times I have had an agency offer me a small discount as compensation for an appointment cancelled at the last minute. When an indy girl cancels, she generally won't offer anything except the chance to reschedule for another day, and that does me no good when I am in town for only a few days.

 

[Stroker7]

I've seen a lot in 20+ years of hobbying. I've canceled only 3 times in at least 500+ apps and I will only do it if it's completely necessary...agency girls cancel a LOT..I remember Shelley from XO/Euphoria..upwards of a 75% cancellation rate which is ridiculous..on average over the years..the cancel rate is a solid 25-30% on average so if ANY independent/agency girl/ sugar baby...wants a deposit..the answer is no from me. I don't ask for one so I don't expect to pay a cancellation fee either. Many girls simply cancel cause they only get less than a few bookings..some will cancel simply if they're not "fully booked" and I've heard a lot of excuses and I know most aren't true. My time is valuable as well. At one point or another somebody is gonna get screwed..and it sucks, but it's just the way it goes..especially its a vacation to another place far away and it requires transportation, hotel ect..those will really sting if it gets canceled either way

 

[Odin27]

I've seen a lot in 20+ years of hobbying. I've canceled only 3 times in at least 500+ apps and I will only do it if it's completely necessary...agency girls cancel a LOT..I remember Shelley from XO/Euphoria..upwards of a 75% cancellation rate which is ridiculous..on average over the years..the cancel rate is a solid 25-30% on average so if ANY independent/agency girl/ sugar baby...wants a deposit..the answer is no from me. I don't ask for one so I don't expect to pay a cancellation fee either. Many girls simply cancel cause they only get less than a few bookings..some will cancel simply if they're not "fully booked" and I've heard a lot of excuses and I know most aren't true. My time is valuable as well. At one point or another somebody is gonna get screwed..and it sucks, but it's just the way it goes..especially its a vacation to another place far away and it requires transportation, hotel ect..those will really sting if it gets canceled either way

Speaking of cancelations. I've been canceled by Callie ( Forever) 3 times in a row. Its insane. If any one here got some tips and tricks to secure the booking without getting canceled the day before or on the present day that would be awesome. Hahaha

Cheers

 

[LeDodo]

Speaking of cancelations. I've been canceled by Callie ( Forever) 3 times in a row. Its insane. If any one here got some tips and tricks to secure the booking without getting canceled the day before or on the present day that would be awesome. Hahaha

Cheers

If it's just her among lot of SP I would say it's bad luck. If your mainly seeing her and she cancels often, I would ask myself questions lol

 

[Odin27]

If it's just her among lot of SP I would say it's bad luck. If your mainly seeing her and she cancels often, I would ask myself questions lol

No I booked 15 times with forever in one month

On the 6 cancelations. Callie was 3 of them

I usually book 1h. I tought maybe she doesn't like 1h appointments. I dont know hahaha

 

[Odin27]

Like Stroker 7 said above. Based on my booking stats with Forever. I got the 30% cancelation mark like he mentionned

 

[boredmotorcycle]

No I booked 15 times with forever in one month

On the 6 cancelations. Callie was 3 of them

Six times is crazy bad luck I'm pretty sure I made almost as many bookings in the last month, too, but never got cancelled. I didn’t book Callie, though.

 

[newguy39]

Not often in Montreal, my last time this spring 2 nights in row I've been cancelled... went with plan B late in night so was not with a lady as nice as I was expecting and booked previously and carefully in advance... very disappointing indeed .

 

[hob12]

I got canceled by 3 different girls on the same day recently. First time it happened to me.

 

[LeDodo]

I got canceled by 3 different girls on the same day recently. First time it happened to me.

Same agency? You were seeing all of them in one day or different days and they cancelled on the same day?

 

[Odin27]

No I booked 15 times with forever in one month

On the 6 cancelations. Callie was 3 of them

I usually book 1h. I tought maybe she doesn't like 1h appointments. I dont know hahaha

Update: just got my 7th Cancelation by Forever today haha

 

[hob12]

Update: just got my 7th Cancelation by Forever today haha

Who are you trying to book by curiosity? You can dm if you want.

 

[hob12]

Same agency? You were seeing all of them in one day or different days and they cancelled on the same day?

Same agency, same day. Booked the first one in advance. The others were plan B and C.

 

[ForeverEscorts]

Since we are involved in this matter, we will comment.

It is easy to understand that a cancellation can create significant inconvenience for the person who made the booking.. but also for the booker that manages the schedule and unhappy client.. and we do not believe this requires further explanation. Pretty straightforward: it sucks for everyone.

However, if a lady needs to cancel due to an emergency, health-related reasons (period, flu, etc) or other unplanned circumstances, we must respect her decision. We do not force anyone to work under any circumstances. When possible, we may offer an alternative appointment on the same day, but beyond that, there is only so much we can do. We always work our best to find a solution while respecting the well-being of the individuals involved.

We also offer the possibility of booking several days in advance, which is an advantage compared to many others in the industry. However, we have noticed an increasing number of clients who make bookings and then repeatedly request changes to their appointments. We do not make an issue out of it and always do our best to accommodate such requests respectfully, as flexibility is part of the business. Nevertheless, frequent changes can make scheduling more challenging for everyone involved, especially the booker.

 

[ihooo]

However, if a lady needs to cancel due to an emergency, health-related reasons (period, flu, etc) or other unplanned circumstances, we must respect her decision. We do not force anyone to work under any circumstances.

THIS THIS THIS!!!! Thank you for doing this and I hope every agency maintains this standard at minimum. This at the end of the day is a leisurely activity and ultimately it takes two to tango.