The Bitching thread
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IDK, it would be hard to be homophobic and do that, but it ain't gay AF either. You're fucking a woman who's explicitly getting railed by other dudes. It's turbo-hetero IMO, esp if the dudes crowd-fucking her are staying hard DESPITE rubbing up to each other.
Or maybe who tf cares? I'll let Creed Bratton give you the benefit of the doubt:
I think it's kinda funny that so much of your "average" hardcore porn features double penetration, MMF and gang bangs yet I've never heard anybody call this gay until recently. A sign of the times.
I think it's otherwise interesting to question what we commonly see in mainstream porn.
I make a point to get in their way, forcing them to seriously slow down!
I always believe that in order to be able to participate in those type of activities, you definately need some kind of gay attraction or curiosity. Not judging anyone for this, I couldnt care less.
A lot of rituals that aren't considered as such probably do have a homoerotic aspect to them.
I just think it's interesting that people get turned on by certain scenarios just because they are common in porn.. but it does make sense because media creates fantasies.
I just think it's interesting that people get turned on by certain scenarios just because they are common in porn.. but it does make sense because media creates fantasies.
It doesn't seem pleasant for anybody involved but I'm sure some here will disagree lol
I singled out double anal intercourse, you won 't find that in "mainstream" porno but in:"extreme" porno. Threesomes and gangbangs are in a separate category as there's no male contact, the act I specified is rare as it would cause a non-negligible amount of discomfort to both the female (physical) and male (psychological) participants. Unless we're dealing with a "hotdog down the hallway" situation which makes such a scene less painful and it stands to reason that's usually the case so as to avoid risks of injury on-set.
LOL can't locate the exact video right now but my mind jumped to a Charles Manson interview about how during the 60's, when they'd have a lot of those orgies, Charles wouldn't fixate on if he'd zero in on a woman or a man and just "went with the flow". Makes you wonder if him and Creed ran in the same circles at some crossroads.
Are women automatic lesbians if they have a threesome with a man and their boobs or pussy happen to touch each other?
Being indifferent to something isn't the same as being aroused by it, for one... And I don't think there's anything gay about 2 men fucking a woman
I think the "psychological damage" you're referring to is just you projecting your own feelings regarding your own masculinity. It might be weak enough to feel threatened by the fact there's another penis in proximity. But some very heterosexual, very comfortable in their masculinity men don't give a fuck about this and their focus is entirely on the woman they're fucking.
One could argue that even thinking about the other man's dick while you're fucking a woman is a little bit gay too lol where do we draw the line?
Being indifferent to something isn't the same as being aroused by it, for one... And I don't think there's anything gay about 2 men fucking a woman
I think the "psychological damage" you're referring to is just you projecting your own feelings regarding your own masculinity. It might be weak enough to feel threatened by the fact there's another penis in proximity. But some very heterosexual, very comfortable in their masculinity men don't give a fuck about this and their focus is entirely on the woman they're fucking.
One could argue that even thinking about the other man's dick while you're fucking a woman is a little bit gay too lol where do we draw the line?
I said discomfort, not damage. Nuance worth noting, whether we're talking psychologic or physical.Are women automatic lesbians if they have a threesome with a man and their boobs or pussy happen to touch each other?
Being indifferent to something isn't the same as being aroused by it, for one... And I don't think there's anything gay about 2 men fucking a woman
I think the "psychological damage" you're referring to is just you projecting your own feelings regarding your own masculinity. It might be weak enough to feel threatened by the fact there's another penis in proximity. But some very heterosexual, very comfortable in their masculinity men don't give a fuck about this and their focus is entirely on the woman they're fucking.
One could argue that even thinking about the other man's dick while you're fucking a woman is a little bit gay too lol where do we draw the line?
Again it's not the proximity. It's the friction.
"Are women automatic lesbians if they have a threesome with a man and their boobs or pussy happen to touch each other?"
Potentially. The sexual organs rubbing against each other is the litmus, test, I'd say. As a man, I wouldn't mind, depends on them how comfortable they'd be with each other to allow contact of that sort.
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No! Attraction is the test. Not incidental friction lol. You're projecting your own lack of confidence in your masculinity onto other people. Don't do that. Lots of people are comfortable enough to know that they're attracted to women and not feel threatened because of incidental friction during a threesome where the focus is on a woman. You can't redefine how attraction and sexual orientation work... You need to be attracted to the same gender to be gay. It's the entire point of sexual orientation. Are you not attracted to women? If not, what makes you think you're hetero?
LOL you specify "incidental" friction. Except that in the sex act being discussed, it's anything but incidental, it's prolonged. Maybe you haven't seen double anal, in which case you really aren't missing much. But suffice it to say, if I feel an attraction to women's breasts, I'm rubbing my penis against them insistently. If I feel an attraction to women's buttocks, I'm rubbing my penis against them insistently. If I'm rubbing my penis against another man's penis insistently inside an enclosed space...perhaps I need to reevaluate my worldview?
Then again, it could likely be categorized as one of those obscure sex acts that the lion's share of straight men don't have on their bucket list, let alone most women who might even be open to group sex. If we're to take what Nikki Benz says at face value, something like three-quarters of male actors are bisexual, which would explain some things. The number seems inflated but hey, she's the insider.
Something can be incidental and prolonged. Incidental does not mean accidental.
Honestly I think sexuality can be pretty fluid and while a lot of people are very scared to be gay to the point where they won't wash their ass or constantly feel the need to say they're not gay, many others have been curious and simply have not acted on it, or they experimented and decided they are more interested in the opposite gender, etc. Apparently gay porn actors aren't even gay. "Gay for pay" is a thing.
I feel like dp is one of those weird sex fantasies popularized by hardcore porn that some people put on their bucket list because it's "so scandalous". Kinda like gang bangs. I've seen many threads here with people saying they'd like to participate in one but I bet none of these people are seriously attracted to men they just like how taboo it is. And perhaps there's an element of domination in it.
I feel like dp is one of those weird sex fantasies popularized by hardcore porn that some people put on their bucket list because it's "so scandalous". Kinda like gang bangs. I've seen many threads here with people saying they'd like to participate in one but I bet none of these people are seriously attracted to men they just like how taboo it is. And perhaps there's an element of domination in it.
Big OOF moment right there.
Let's just put it this way...I am very conscientious about my rectal hygiene, I make a point of being squeaky-clean "down there". Because I can't imagine anything more revolting than to spend all day sitting in my own filth. A little bit of a paradox, I am extremely fond of women's butts to the point where I will eat them but I harbor a violent aversion to what comes out of everyone's butt. Maybe that's why I appreciate a clean ass to such an extent, I view it as a sign of high personal standards and consideration for one's partner.Maybe a portion of them are really hard up for money. The pornographic industry pays male actors peanuts in the context of how much the female actors receive, but gay actors get a notably higher paycheque.
