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For the rest of your days
It's our problem-free philosophy
Hakuna Matata!
Hope this helps!
I knowIt means no worries
For the rest of your days
It's our problem-free philosophy
Hakuna Matata!
Hope this helps!
About 20 years ago i met a SP who happened to walk into my bar. She was, and still is stunning to this day. We hit it off and would talk for hours, she was fun to hang out with. She was secretive about her job, telling me her car was her office, her 2 cell phone was a business phone, blah blah. I was new to the hobbie world and recognized her body and clothes from her site. I didn't say anything to her about it, but she wouldn't stop saying id never guess what she did. One day she had too much to drink so i offered to drive her home, which she accepted. Once there she invited me in , she was tipsy and i didn't want to take advantage so i told her another time, lets go for dinner one night and enjoy it. She accepted and came back a week later. I could not leave the bar the day she came back so we went to get takeout and brought it back, we ate and laughed as usual. Then she started again about her work , i couldn't take it anymore and i said i know what you do, i recognize you from your site . She never came back and ghosted me since, I ve reached out to her to set up a date and she has never responded. Its been 20 years and still think about her. what am i supposed to do? How did i insult her? I don't care what you do, for Christ sake i was a bar owner, cant get worse then that(lol). Should i keep trying? Should i have someone else go on a date and talk about me? I really would love to see her, and dont care what the cost is. Any ideas, and i dont want to come off as a stalker or creep.
Dang, that's tough. I know it's not what you want to hear, but if you have reached out a few times and she isn't replying, then you have your answer. I wouldn't send a friend to talk to her; that will not go well. 20 years is a long time; you have to move on. I have a bad habit of overthinking things and obsessing over it. A trick I learned was that every time I started thinking about something or someone I wanted to forget, I just tell myself, "Who cares?" After a while, I stop thinking about what was bothering me
And I know it's an old cliché, but there really is plenty of fish in the sea! Go for someone who wants you as much as you want them back, and don't waste your time/energy on anything less!
You worry about LE in the US?
That's crazy. I think there's just a lot of fearmongering... cops don't give a damn.
I was literally in an in-call raid once in the middle of a session when LE busted down the door. They only do that if there are drugs or minors. As long as you're not going to places like that... you're fine.
They busted the place I was at because they started dealing a ton of drugs and the DEA came. They didn't take anyone, they didn't care about the hobby, only came for the drugs, let everyone just walk out.
I've been hobbying in the US as much as I have in MTL and never had any issue. The only reason I hobby in Canada more now is because US is all latinas with BBLs and that's just not my thing.
Since XOC got shut down (also no girls/clients got in trouble though). And other agencies that have college girls are still around, but their prices all tripled in the past couple years.
When you set up a meeting with an agency, do you ask the booker what is offered, or wait until the meeting and talk to the girl directly? Or both? And is it acceptable etiquette to hold onto the envelope while you discuss what's offered before deciding to hand it over?
Holding onto the envelope is not acceptable
You book for the basic service. Any extras you want and she offers, can be talked about.
If there is a certain activity that is a must have, then discuss with booker before hand.
You're not wrong at all, and I do worry too, for sure. But after seeing so many people on this site openly talk and even rate encounters with details about what's going on, and seeing them as members for years and years, I worry less and less.
You also have to weigh your personal risk/reward. For me, I'm single, my family doesn't care, and my career is known for lots of people doing it, so they don't care. So really, I'm not hurting anyone if I get caught but myself and at my age, I'm ok with that. I just hope I get to have a lot of fun before I go down!
It wouldn't necessarily be jail. I'm not a lawyer, so take this with a grain of salt, but the law is time and/or a fine ... and the fine goes up after the first offence. If you don't have any previous criminal history and you plead guilty, you will probably just get a fine for the first offence. Again, not legal advice! lol
I have to agree on that one; they dont control their schedul. Once a week they share their availability ; and on the day they are supposed to work they receive their lineup last minute. They can have small breaks in between but the time is still maximized in order to allow at least a full shift after for another model. Long breaks would mean the loft is taken for more than half the day and would only allow a partial shift for the other girl after, which would not be fair.
Doesnt mean that they do stressful chain work whatsoever. Maybe they have long and chill appointments with clients that respect their 10-15 min breaks and leave on time - making them less stressed; maybe they have shorter appointments but also give shorter availabilities to the agency in advance . Who knows ? As long as they respect their own limits, are confortable and offer a great service
Doesnt mean that they do stressful chain work whatsoever. Maybe they have long and chill appointments with clients that respect their 10-15 min breaks and leave on time - making them less stressed; maybe they have shorter appointments but also give shorter availabilities to the agency in advance . Who knows ? As long as they respect their own limits, are confortable and offer a great service
For me short answer is, it doesn't.
Long answer, I want more than I get. It saves my partner, when I have one, from being required to perform more than he can handle.
It's a benifit that I can release that energy out on visits, and then come home to still want more attention, affection, and intimacy after.
I gage that someone communicates similarly to me in the booking process. I don't really communicate if I am expected to ask questions. It's not that I don't care. It's the questions just don't come to mind. I am not the right communicator for many people because of this.
Most people I see it's communication derived from volunteered information. I'm happy to answer questions but I don't really ask them. I like people to feel comfortable and say or interject with their own personal points without needing to specifically be requested to contribute.
The nice part about meeting so many different men is, there is no general. Everyone is viewed as an individual.
I can't see the lonely, very loving, soft tempered, neurodivergent, sweety, who is regularly teased even in adulthood, lumped in as the same as the people I won't even accept the option of a visit with.
There are quite a few gentlemen I see that I can't lump into the terms when thinking about men as a general. So for me it's at least proven a benifit. But I deny so many possible appointments, that the general term often still stands when I refer to men as a whole.
That makes a little more sense to me. I was thinking you're at work all day, and when you get home, the last thing you want to do is what you were doing all day at work... but I guess when you love what you do, you never work a day in your life lol.
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