Continuos SP Cancellations and Your Time

Fradi said:

It was no big deal and I am glad she is comfortable enough with me to just ask me and tell me the truth.

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It's one thing when it's a regular, if it's someone you just saw once such honesty would be quite rare (see talking head post). With some very high end HDH ladies, it's always a case of the highest bidder.

I usually found out from the "booker" that was used by these indies, rather than the ladies themselves, that I had gotten outbid.

Rebaynia said:

I can't imagine why so many would cancel like that on you.

I know there are some clients who set up the appointment, then last minute start trowing in curveballs asking for things that are not to the providers taste, that will get them canceled because it makes the provider uncertain and feeling unsafe to see the client. Some will make up excuses, others will tell them straight out when asked why they have been canceled.

Lol... but my guess is if your getting that many cancelations, your finding them on LL. Reputable providers will try not to cancel if they can avoid it.

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I'm sorry but whenever this comes up the SP sisterhood always seem to circle the wagons and try to excuse the excuses. You presume too much Rebaynia. These appointments were 1st time with well-known SPs who advertise on the first page of MERB. The only time I booked from LL was after doing research and she, in fact, was reliable. Cut the holier-than-thou attitude and tryng to blame the victim., it sucks.

anatomy said:

I'm sorry but whenever this comes up the SP sisterhood always seem to circle the wagons and try to excuse the excuses. You presume too much Rebaynia. These appointments were 1st time with well-known SPs who advertise on the first page of MERB. The only time I booked from LL was after doing research and she, in fact, was reliable. Cut the holier-than-thou attitude and tryng to blame the victim., it sucks.

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It is not victim blaming. An appointment not working out does not make you a victim. Being scammed out of a deposit does, but not getting to meet someone you were looking to meet does not a victim make.

And was the reason I canceled on 2 people, the very day I wrote that. It isn't an excuse when in my situation that day, it was the reason.

Also i only stated a reason why some might, I didn't say that was your situation either. I might have responded to your message, but your also not the only one on this forum, and was a point out for others who might be reading and wondering why they are being canceled on. And to learn from others errors.

Only part that had any assumption directly to you, was that they likely came from LL. Which on this forum often seems to be the case. I will take my holier-than-thou attitude and eat it for that part, but the rest was not directed to you specifically. This is a public forum and comments are given out to the masses not you alone.

But yes we all have lives, and there are 1,000,000 reasons and excuses why plans don't happen. Often just means, didn't work out, move on, and pick someone else next time.

I was using LL as an ecuse on your part why they would cancel on you, rather than assuming what I was going threw that day, was what was happening to you.