Completely agree with first paragraph, but not the second. That’s where the "attitude" part of the reviews applies. We could just add a "personality" rating as well. But again, this will all vary from person to person. Just because I found her personality great, it doesn’t mean that you would. That’s where chemistry comes in. And it has as much to do with the client as it does with the provider. Same with sex. It takes two to tango!It's a bit of a crap shoot the first time people meet, because the guys will choose largely on whether they are attracted or not, since they have very little else to base their decision on, other than possibly services offered and price. After the first time, however, for many of the gentlemen persoanlity becomes not just an important factor but the defining factor as to whether they will choose to repeat or not. I think maybe some of the ladies here are underestimating that pull for guys and overestimating how superficial they are. Of course there are mysoginists and the superficial guys, but I don't think they constitute the largest group. Many if not most men will choose someone who is less attractive but with whom they have greater rapport over someone who may be more conventionally beautiful because they will have more fun in that person's company and that defines the entire experience. One of the benefits of MERB is that it offers guys an actual opportunity to look through the window and into the personality of some of the ladies who make their presence known here. It's a double edged sword, but ultimately the familiarity and that insight into a provider's personality may help sway some clients to make a decision to see people who have a presence here, whch of course is why they present themselves here in the first place. It may also push them the other way. The personal interactions make a difference, is what I'm saying.
That's part of the reason, coming back to the point of the thread, why these star ratings are so useless. There's no accounting for the personalities of the people involved. A good review can also give you some insight into the provider you're considering going to see. Some familiarity with the poster and their tastes may in some way help you decide how well aligned your mutual tastes are and whether the SP in question may be a good fit for you too. The nuance is what makes the review good. Star rating systems ( the number templates that some places like to use) wipe that all away.
However, some people have a certain quality that makes it easy for them to create rapport almost instantly with others. The best providers have that quality. And I believe that that does transpire in the reviews.
Ok back to reading reviews. Will read the rest of this long ass thread later. lol