What are you gonna do about it? Control every single freak who divulge information about your tattoos? You know there are people you have no control over so it is up to you to take proper steps if you want to do that kind of work and be as safe as possible. I would go as far as removing a tattoo if it is imperative for me not to be recognized with ink.
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Unfortunately for us most times that lady with exceptional service for $250h becomes so popular and so much in demand that it doesn’t take her long to raise her rates to $600h.
The service hasn’t changed it was great before and now also and she deserves to have earned the popularity and to be able to have a rate that high.
We would want the same in our jobs and careers as we gain experience and are acknowledged for what we are worth it is natural to want to be paid at the highest rate that you are able to get.
Some of us are lucky and were able to see her when she was still much more affordable and some are even more lucky and can still afford her.
We either adjust to what our wallet will bear or go broke.
The service hasn’t changed it was great before and now also and she deserves to have earned the popularity and to be able to have a rate that high.
We would want the same in our jobs and careers as we gain experience and are acknowledged for what we are worth it is natural to want to be paid at the highest rate that you are able to get.
Some of us are lucky and were able to see her when she was still much more affordable and some are even more lucky and can still afford her.
We either adjust to what our wallet will bear or go broke.
I literally post my tattoos in my ads, this isn't about me. But when you meet a girl who removes hers in her pictures it should be common sense to not describe them in details. It's unnecessary and risky. You can say someone has tattoos without being super specific about it.
This is rapidly becoming the stupidest, most disjointed and incoherent thread I've ever seen.
Common sense from horny men?
Love your optimism.
That's really kind of you to do that, but I've seen a lot of really inappropriate posts and reviews that have not been removed. Not everyone is that nice.
I agree that we have to be extremely careful with private info, but a lot of clients end up finding that information anyways. A lot of people gossip. There's also certain type of info that isn't necessarily ''personal'' but that could still lead to the SP being in danger, such as revealing where their incall is, etc.
Agreed 100% with everything you said. The board is literally financed by us.
No offense to anyone but these threads are really annoying and sometimes I feel like they are meant for us SP's to see and feel bad.
I think that's a completely different topic tho. Of course you have the right not to respond to lurkers.
The SPs constantly bringing up that the “board is financed by us”… Lolllll. As if they’re paying an arm and a leg for this. Like seriously, it’s just the cloud hosting cost, the UI is free, and the Mods volunteer. It’s not like you’re buying a Super Bowl commercial.
So, no, stop acting as if the johns owe you whatever you consider you’re owed. SMH. If clients weren’t here, and weren’t around paying for hours, the whole thing would be moot.
Back to the topic of privacy - all said, of course, I’m not advocating for the creeps and weirdos who out SPs. It’s a whole ecosystem - all of us should be discreet and respect each other’s privacy. It’s a 2-way street. And yes, we should self-police and protect each other.
But there are small bits here and there that SPs let slip that they don’t think carefully about, and later come to regret. The john didn’t manipulate the conversation to mine for that information. It just came up. Those are the things SPs need to nip in the bud. Just be conscious of what’s coming out.
I’m usually not one of for debutantes - but occasionally, I’ve met a new girl, and she’s let slip sensitive information. And I’ve told her, “Hey, you should probably keep that to yourself in the future. Or wait until you know someone better.” In the same way, if a girl doesn’t check in with her booker, or leaves her wallet unattended while in the bathroom. Just good habits / hygiene. Sometimes we need to remind each other.
90% of the time, it doesn’t matter. But SPs, and all of us, need to watch out for those 10% delinquents who don’t know how to behave in public. Because we all know there are plenty of idiots like that in this hobby.
So, no, stop acting as if the johns owe you whatever you consider you’re owed. SMH. If clients weren’t here, and weren’t around paying for hours, the whole thing would be moot.
Back to the topic of privacy - all said, of course, I’m not advocating for the creeps and weirdos who out SPs. It’s a whole ecosystem - all of us should be discreet and respect each other’s privacy. It’s a 2-way street. And yes, we should self-police and protect each other.
But there are small bits here and there that SPs let slip that they don’t think carefully about, and later come to regret. The john didn’t manipulate the conversation to mine for that information. It just came up. Those are the things SPs need to nip in the bud. Just be conscious of what’s coming out.
I’m usually not one of for debutantes - but occasionally, I’ve met a new girl, and she’s let slip sensitive information. And I’ve told her, “Hey, you should probably keep that to yourself in the future. Or wait until you know someone better.” In the same way, if a girl doesn’t check in with her booker, or leaves her wallet unattended while in the bathroom. Just good habits / hygiene. Sometimes we need to remind each other.
90% of the time, it doesn’t matter. But SPs, and all of us, need to watch out for those 10% delinquents who don’t know how to behave in public. Because we all know there are plenty of idiots like that in this hobby.
Last point on tats. Yeah, if they’re unique and identifiable, then maybe you SHOULD consider tearing them off your body. 
I think tats are stupid anyways - but if you’re an SP coming into this business, and you actually care deeply about anonymity, maybe don’t have such a tat. Lolll. Otherwise, get over your need for anonymity. You made that choice and you have to live with it. You don’t get to have it both ways.
Some idiot will describe it in enough detail - be that “it covered her left arm and had scales” to even more specific “I am a princess and only bitches work for a living” written in Serif font in blue near her shoulder, etc. - some idiot will describe it enough that it’ll connect. If you have such a unique tat and that possibility horrifies you, maybe don’t be an SP.
I think tats are stupid anyways - but if you’re an SP coming into this business, and you actually care deeply about anonymity, maybe don’t have such a tat. Lolll. Otherwise, get over your need for anonymity. You made that choice and you have to live with it. You don’t get to have it both ways.
Some idiot will describe it in enough detail - be that “it covered her left arm and had scales” to even more specific “I am a princess and only bitches work for a living” written in Serif font in blue near her shoulder, etc. - some idiot will describe it enough that it’ll connect. If you have such a unique tat and that possibility horrifies you, maybe don’t be an SP.
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I thought the previous post was cute. This DM is even cuter.
Like seriously, Mr. Sensitive. That’s all it takes to trigger you? Roflmao. Must be a Gen Z / Millennial snowflake. Can’t possibly be Gen X or older who gets into their feelings like this. Can it???? Good lord.
OK, OK, my bad, you’re a great great super informative reviewer. A gold star for you!
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Sensitivity merb? Get outta here ! Dont believe it.I thought the previous post was cute. This DM is even cuter.
Like seriously, Mr. Sensitive. That’s all it takes to trigger you? Roflmao. Must be a Gen Z / Millennial snowflake. Can’t possibly be Gen X or older who gets into their feelings like this. Can it???? Good lord.
OK, OK, my bad, you’re a great great super informative reviewer. A gold star for you!
In reality its actually easy to spot the sensitivity everywhere. Reviews reveal alot lol .
While I am not a fan of tats I have gotten used to it and it doesn’t bother me, actually on one of the ladies I have seen for a long time now I could maybe remember only a couple of the ones that she has. She is an amazing young lady with or without tats that is not what defines her, at least not for me.
The other lady I see has not tats no piercings ( except for ear) and is 100% natural.
Having said that I agree that if you have identifiable tats and decide to be an SP, then you have opened the door to be recognized somewhere down the line, there were always crazies and always will be and people who are clueless and do it without any malice. Same goes with sensitive information if that information gets out it originated from you. We are at risk on both sides, clients also. every time you leave your wallet unattended, every time you use your personal phone and every time you use your own home as an outcall.
As said before yes we should all use common sense and try to protect each other’s privacy but that always starts with you, how much risk you are willing to take and how much you trust the person you are seeing.
Agreed, the same way women want men over 6 foot and this is universal all over the world. Short men are ignored by women and they are brutal about it.
It's true that men never body shame or say nothing negative about women bodies
Actually, just so you sound less angry about it. It's actually something that is inherited in women DNA.
Just like men who like 36-24-36- it's because it's the perfect ratio for child bearing.
Also inherited in our DNA.
I'm 6-4
women love itI am 64 and women still love it.It's true that men never body shame or say nothing negative about women bodies
Actually, just so you sound less angry about it. It's actually something that is inherited in women DNA.
Just like men who like 36-24-36- it's because it's the perfect ratio for child bearing.
Also inherited in our DNA.
I'm 6-4
It's 113$ to advertise each month, at least. That's over 1200$ per SP every year. It's still a lot of money, and it's an advertising platform for us. Many clients won't see a SP if she doesn't advertise here or view this forum as a more reliable way to find out if somebody is legit or not, so that's why we advertise on the board. I'm pretty sure if someone does false advertising, they will be called out on it pretty fast.
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Back on topic or the thread gets locked. And no needless bickering. PLEASE
Thanks for your collaboration
Back on topic or the thread gets locked. And no needless bickering. PLEASE
Thanks for your collaboration
You are right that it is not all that cheap.
I spend around $1500-$2000 a month on SP so that isn’t cheap either.
Guess both SP and clients do their part and are both reasons to have Merb.
Hopefully it benefits and keeps all of us safe which is what it is all about.
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