I guess that depends on the fetish. I personally do not enjoy being an urinal, so maybe that could be a reason why there is a price discrepancy.
Thank you for telling me to do my homework however, we are still waiting for your first review.
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I guess that depends on the fetish. I personally do not enjoy being an urinal, so maybe that could be a reason why there is a price discrepancy.
Thank you for telling me to do my homework however, we are still waiting for your first review.
The SPs constantly bringing up that the “board is financed by us”… Lolllll. As if they’re paying an arm and a leg for this. Like seriously, it’s just the cloud hosting cost, the UI is free, and the Mods volunteer. It’s not like you’re buying a Super Bowl commercial.
So, no, stop acting as if the johns owe you whatever you consider you’re owed. SMH. If clients weren’t here, and weren’t around paying for hours, the whole thing would be moot.
Back to the topic of privacy - all said, of course, I’m not advocating for the creeps and weirdos who out SPs. It’s a whole ecosystem - all of us should be discreet and respect each other’s privacy. It’s a 2-way street. And yes, we should self-police and protect each other.
But there are small bits here and there that SPs let slip that they don’t think carefully about, and later come to regret. The john didn’t manipulate the conversation to mine for that information. It just came up. Those are the things SPs need to nip in the bud. Just be conscious of what’s coming out.
I’m usually not one of for debutantes - but occasionally, I’ve met a new girl, and she’s let slip sensitive information. And I’ve told her, “Hey, you should probably keep that to yourself in the future. Or wait until you know someone better.” In the same way, if a girl doesn’t check in with her booker, or leaves her wallet unattended while in the bathroom. Just good habits / hygiene. Sometimes we need to remind each other.
90% of the time, it doesn’t matter. But SPs, and all of us, need to watch out for those 10% delinquents who don’t know how to behave in public. Because we all know there are plenty of idiots like that in this hobby.
So, no, stop acting as if the johns owe you whatever you consider you’re owed. SMH. If clients weren’t here, and weren’t around paying for hours, the whole thing would be moot.
Back to the topic of privacy - all said, of course, I’m not advocating for the creeps and weirdos who out SPs. It’s a whole ecosystem - all of us should be discreet and respect each other’s privacy. It’s a 2-way street. And yes, we should self-police and protect each other.
But there are small bits here and there that SPs let slip that they don’t think carefully about, and later come to regret. The john didn’t manipulate the conversation to mine for that information. It just came up. Those are the things SPs need to nip in the bud. Just be conscious of what’s coming out.
I’m usually not one of for debutantes - but occasionally, I’ve met a new girl, and she’s let slip sensitive information. And I’ve told her, “Hey, you should probably keep that to yourself in the future. Or wait until you know someone better.” In the same way, if a girl doesn’t check in with her booker, or leaves her wallet unattended while in the bathroom. Just good habits / hygiene. Sometimes we need to remind each other.
90% of the time, it doesn’t matter. But SPs, and all of us, need to watch out for those 10% delinquents who don’t know how to behave in public. Because we all know there are plenty of idiots like that in this hobby.
Last point on tats. Yeah, if they’re unique and identifiable, then maybe you SHOULD consider tearing them off your body. 
I think tats are stupid anyways - but if you’re an SP coming into this business, and you actually care deeply about anonymity, maybe don’t have such a tat. Lolll. Otherwise, get over your need for anonymity. You made that choice and you have to live with it. You don’t get to have it both ways.
Some idiot will describe it in enough detail - be that “it covered her left arm and had scales” to even more specific “I am a princess and only bitches work for a living” written in Serif font in blue near her shoulder, etc. - some idiot will describe it enough that it’ll connect. If you have such a unique tat and that possibility horrifies you, maybe don’t be an SP.
I think tats are stupid anyways - but if you’re an SP coming into this business, and you actually care deeply about anonymity, maybe don’t have such a tat. Lolll. Otherwise, get over your need for anonymity. You made that choice and you have to live with it. You don’t get to have it both ways.
Some idiot will describe it in enough detail - be that “it covered her left arm and had scales” to even more specific “I am a princess and only bitches work for a living” written in Serif font in blue near her shoulder, etc. - some idiot will describe it enough that it’ll connect. If you have such a unique tat and that possibility horrifies you, maybe don’t be an SP.
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I thought the previous post was cute. This DM is even cuter.
Like seriously, Mr. Sensitive. That’s all it takes to trigger you? Roflmao. Must be a Gen Z / Millennial snowflake. Can’t possibly be Gen X or older who gets into their feelings like this. Can it???? Good lord.
OK, OK, my bad, you’re a great great super informative reviewer. A gold star for you!
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Sensitivity merb? Get outta here ! Dont believe it.I thought the previous post was cute. This DM is even cuter.
Like seriously, Mr. Sensitive. That’s all it takes to trigger you? Roflmao. Must be a Gen Z / Millennial snowflake. Can’t possibly be Gen X or older who gets into their feelings like this. Can it???? Good lord.
OK, OK, my bad, you’re a great great super informative reviewer. A gold star for you!
In reality its actually easy to spot the sensitivity everywhere. Reviews reveal alot lol .
While I am not a fan of tats I have gotten used to it and it doesn’t bother me, actually on one of the ladies I have seen for a long time now I could maybe remember only a couple of the ones that she has. She is an amazing young lady with or without tats that is not what defines her, at least not for me.
The other lady I see has not tats no piercings ( except for ear) and is 100% natural.
Having said that I agree that if you have identifiable tats and decide to be an SP, then you have opened the door to be recognized somewhere down the line, there were always crazies and always will be and people who are clueless and do it without any malice. Same goes with sensitive information if that information gets out it originated from you. We are at risk on both sides, clients also. every time you leave your wallet unattended, every time you use your personal phone and every time you use your own home as an outcall.
As said before yes we should all use common sense and try to protect each other’s privacy but that always starts with you, how much risk you are willing to take and how much you trust the person you are seeing.
Agreed, the same way women want men over 6 foot and this is universal all over the world. Short men are ignored by women and they are brutal about it.
It's true that men never body shame or say nothing negative about women bodies
Actually, just so you sound less angry about it. It's actually something that is inherited in women DNA.
Just like men who like 36-24-36- it's because it's the perfect ratio for child bearing.
Also inherited in our DNA.
I'm 6-4
women love itI am 64 and women still love it.It's true that men never body shame or say nothing negative about women bodies
Actually, just so you sound less angry about it. It's actually something that is inherited in women DNA.
Just like men who like 36-24-36- it's because it's the perfect ratio for child bearing.
Also inherited in our DNA.
I'm 6-4
It's 113$ to advertise each month, at least. That's over 1200$ per SP every year. It's still a lot of money, and it's an advertising platform for us. Many clients won't see a SP if she doesn't advertise here or view this forum as a more reliable way to find out if somebody is legit or not, so that's why we advertise on the board. I'm pretty sure if someone does false advertising, they will be called out on it pretty fast.
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Back on topic or the thread gets locked. And no needless bickering. PLEASE
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Back on topic or the thread gets locked. And no needless bickering. PLEASE
Thanks for your collaboration
You are right that it is not all that cheap.
I spend around $1500-$2000 a month on SP so that isn’t cheap either.
Guess both SP and clients do their part and are both reasons to have Merb.
Hopefully it benefits and keeps all of us safe which is what it is all about.
I wouldn’t say that I think many professional photo shoots are enhanced to make the lady look better than reality.
I don’t blame them I would certainly want the photographer to show the best look when they are being paid a nice amount.
Just like food , fruit, clothing everything else the reason for a professional photograph is to show the best possible view and sell the product, nothing wrong with the ladies doing the same.
With selfies yes sometimes reality is nicer than the selfies ladies take as they are not professionally done or photoshopped.
I guess once the fun starts their beauty does start to magnify though.
Of course spending money on SP's is expensive, I didn't deny that, but it doesn't benefit the forum itself. What I meant is that as SP's we have to pay to participate in this forum, but clients don't. I agree with your comment the point is to keep people safe.
I think it is kind of a package deal. Yes we don’t pay to be on Merb although I believe in the past a few did and they had a red coloured symbol against their name as contributing members, never really knew why or if there was any advantage to that, maybe EB could explain I think he was one way back if I remember right.
Just like reviews benefit clients by making it easier for them to choose and SP for being able to advertise, same thing goes if clients weren’t booking and spending money on the SP that advertise here then it would all fall apart.
You would not advertise on a sight that is devoid of customers.
Members value add to the board by writing reviews or engage in discussion. This increases traffic to the website which generates views on paid ads. It’s an ecosystem after all. If the page was purely funded by ads with no reviews or board component it would be no different than Tyrst or other pages. So while clients don’t contribute through monetization they are still generating views and thus allowing Merb to charge a relatively high fee for ad placements.
EDIT: I am actually not sure if SPs have to pay to participate on the board? I thought it’s only for advertising. If you just want to be a contributing member without placing ads are you allowed to do so? Can someone confirm?
SP's do NOT have to be Supporting Members to comment in the threads. There are multiple examples that support this in other threads.
Funny i was about to post pretty much the same thing
On one hand we have the audience:
-Active users who post (reviews, comments..)
-Active users who don't post (lurkers)
-Inactive users
All active users build the ecosystem @Sylar mentioned to provide the trafic bought by advertisers to finance the board
Sometimes we love to argue for the sake of argument but it's just basic web marketing, it's not us and them (or it could be if you listen to Pink Floyd while reading this
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