The SPs constantly bringing up that the “board is financed by us”… Lolllll. As if they’re paying an arm and a leg for this. Like seriously, it’s just the cloud hosting cost, the UI is free, and the Mods volunteer. It’s not like you’re buying a Super Bowl commercial.
So, no, stop acting as if the johns owe you whatever you consider you’re owed. SMH. If clients weren’t here, and weren’t around paying for hours, the whole thing would be moot.
Back to the topic of privacy - all said, of course, I’m not advocating for the creeps and weirdos who out SPs. It’s a whole ecosystem - all of us should be discreet and respect each other’s privacy. It’s a 2-way street. And yes, we should self-police and protect each other.
But there are small bits here and there that SPs let slip that they don’t think carefully about, and later come to regret. The john didn’t manipulate the conversation to mine for that information. It just came up. Those are the things SPs need to nip in the bud. Just be conscious of what’s coming out.
I’m usually not one of for debutantes - but occasionally, I’ve met a new girl, and she’s let slip sensitive information. And I’ve told her, “Hey, you should probably keep that to yourself in the future. Or wait until you know someone better.” In the same way, if a girl doesn’t check in with her booker, or leaves her wallet unattended while in the bathroom. Just good habits / hygiene. Sometimes we need to remind each other.
90% of the time, it doesn’t matter. But SPs, and all of us, need to watch out for those 10% delinquents who don’t know how to behave in public. Because we all know there are plenty of idiots like that in this hobby.