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Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

Lunaseraphim

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I don't think it's a hobby, just a way some guys look at it to explain it to themselves.

I have started due to being with a relatively great partner but sexless long term relationship. I heard it being defined as less than 10 times per year and lost it. Can I fix it? Do I want to? So anyhow here I am. I won't try and speak for others but yeah, I do have an opinion.
Yeah I think this subject is extremely complicated.. we're not here to judge.
 

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The definition of a hobby is an activity done regulary during ones free time.. but i kind of agree its a bit weird to call it like that but it can fit the definition..
Yeah it's true but I think thats kinda beyond the point we were trying to make.. I do think it's a question of semantics in some cases and guys don't want to be called "johns" or "tricks" which is derogatory and doesn't allow ppl to view the complexity of a relationship between an escort and her client and how they can be really beneficial in some cases :)
 

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Yeah it's true but I think thats kinda beyond the point we were trying to make.. I do think it's a question of semantics in some cases and guys don't want to be called "johns" or "tricks" which is derogatory and doesn't allow ppl to view the complexity of a relationship between an escort and her client and how they can be really beneficial in some cases :)
What is so derogatory about calling it a hobby? Some people just want to have a quick fling, some want more human contacts and affection like you said.
 

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What is so derogatory about calling it a hobby? Some people just want to have a quick fling, some want more human contacts and affection like you said.
I don't think it's necessarily derogatory, it's just the way some people view seeing escorts, what they think about us, how they treat us. Otherwise it's not that big of a deal I agree it's just a word
 

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I'm not here to "look pretty and rob men".. I am actually really glad that seeing sex workers has been healing for you and that's what we're here for. :)
Thanks, I appreciate it. Sorry, perhaps that seemed accusatory. I didn't mean it that way. It did perturb me, but that's on me. It was something I saw on a SW's instagram, and I decided not to meet with her after seeing it. I think she has a more dominatrix angle which is fine. I'm not judging. Just not my thing.
 
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Thanks, I appreciate it. Sorry, perhaps that seemed accusatory. I didn't mean it that way. It did perturb me, but that's on me. It was something I saw on a SW's instagram, and I decided not to meet with her after seeing it. I think she has a more dominatrix angle which is fine. I'm not judging. Just not my thing.
If she has a dominatrix angle, it's branding for her. Some men are actually into this type of thing.. Like I said earlier today SW'rs are not a monolith, we all have our way of interacting with clients. I speak my mind but I am not a mean person. Anyone who has met me in person can confirm that I'm very kind and welcoming. It's important for me.
 

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That is quite a share, but so eloquently worded. We all have our pasts, but it is the growth, and learning to accept ourselves that can be the hardest part, but ever so rewarding.

Everyone is deserving of love. And I believe there is so many people in the world with so many different things, there is likely someone. Being open to accept it and trying to believe it is real can be a challenge, especially when coming from believing who you are isn't someone worth anyone loving. (Self reflection, not projection).
Thanks! I appreciate your kind words. I wish you well too :)
 

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If she has a dominatrix angle, it's branding for her. Some men are actually into this type of thing.. Like I said earlier today SW'rs are not a monolith, we all have our way of interacting with clients. I speak my mind but I am not a mean person. Anyone who has met me in person can confirm that I'm very kind and welcoming. It's important for me.
Right, creating a brand is important for business. In order to survive, most people develop useful personas that are helpful in life. Might as well make money with one. Dominatrixes can also be very healing for some people. It turned me off, but that's just me. I'm glad you're very kind and welcoming. Thanks :)
 

Lunaseraphim

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Right, creating a brand is important for business. In order to survive, most people develop useful personas that are helpful in life. Might as well make money with one. Dominatrixes can also be very healing for some people. It turned me off, but that's just me. I'm glad you're very kind and welcoming. Thanks :)
Yeah that's exactly what I'm saying! Personally I'm interested in eventually creating a dominatrix persona, but I wouldn't write ''I'm here to be pretty and rob men'' lol. But I feel like the provider who wrote this is just being bratty and teasing.. She's probably not serious. :) But maybe she is not the provider for you.
 

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Random thought: need someone to rub oil on me before we fuck
It would have been a question in the ask us anything thread: is it something people would ask to do before? Would you like it?
 

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Personally I find it pretty easy to identify the red flags, I'm more talking about for you as a client, how can you tell that someone is a honest lover of escorts and someone who is a slobbyist.. because it makes a difference in who you can trust for info. We know clients DM each other and there are probably a lot of lies and rumors that naive guys believe, from malicious clients.. Or personal details that should remain private are shared, and it's dangerous.

Same thing with reviews. How do you know who you can trust? You saw how for instance some guy completely made up a story about me saying my professional photos are unedited. (what I actually told him is that my photographer didn't hide my tattoos and i wanted clients to know i had them) This is nothing compared to some horrible shit I see all the time in the review section.. Some clients have ''notoriety'' because they have been around for a while and post a lot of reviews, but there's no way of knowing if they are really trustworthy.
The sex and communication is way better than a Girlfriend I find and respect is all there so not a hobby in any way for me
 

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The sex and communication is way better than a Girlfriend I find and respect is all there so not a hobby in any way for me
You just need a better girlfriend lol.
Sorry but a girlfriend that you are in love with will trump any escort every time, she is there because she wants to be and not because you are paying her.
 

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You just need a better girlfriend lol.
Sorry but a girlfriend that you are in love with will trump any escort every time, she is there because she wants to be and not because you are paying her.
Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting
 

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Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting
I think you are glorifying SP lol.
Married men go with SP because they are cheating scum bags period. Yeah the truth is always hard to face.
 
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I think you are glorifying SP lol.
Married men go with SP because they are cheating scum bags period. Yeah the truth is always hard to face. I would not know that but maybe there wives cannot satisfy them like an sp can! People get bored