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The sex and communication is way better than a Girlfriend I find and respect is all there so not a hobby in any way for me
You just need a better girlfriend lol.
Sorry but a girlfriend that you are in love with will trump any escort every time, she is there because she wants to be and not because you are paying her.
 
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You just need a better girlfriend lol.
Sorry but a girlfriend that you are in love with will trump any escort every time, she is there because she wants to be and not because you are paying her.
Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting
 

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Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting
I think you are glorifying SP lol.
Married men go with SP because they are cheating scum bags period. Yeah the truth is always hard to face.
 

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I think you are glorifying SP lol.
Married men go with SP because they are cheating scum bags period. Yeah the truth is always hard to face.
Pretty sure you're a little heated there and don't really mean that. Personally I've never cheated on a partner before. I'm not married but was once before and have been with my current partner for 8 years. We have a one year old. But we have sex a handful of times per year. Pretty sure I don't love her anymore as she's toxic af. Just used to her. So what am I to do? I don't have the time to ACTUALLY cheat and get a side gf. I don't want to kick her out as I would end up with the kid and I've already single dad raised one (he's off in police college now). I've only been with one SW so far but I see this as a need being filled. Do I tell my gf what I'm up to? Do I want to get stabbed in my sleep? I really don't feel bad about this at all, but that doesn't mean I'm scum. Just human.
 

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Pretty sure you're a little heated there and don't really mean that. Personally I've never cheated on a partner before. I'm not married but was once before and have been with my current partner for 8 years. We have a one year old. But we have sex a handful of times per year. Pretty sure I don't love her anymore as she's toxic af. Just used to her. So what am I to do? I don't have the time to ACTUALLY cheat and get a side gf. I don't want to kick her out as I would end up with the kid and I've already single dad raised one (he's off in police college now). I've only been with one SW so far but I see this as a need being filled. Do I tell my gf what I'm up to? Do I want to get stabbed in my sleep? I really don't feel bad about this at all, but that doesn't mean I'm scum. Just human.
It is your life you do what ever makes you happy and comfortable.
You are the one that has to live with your decisions nobody else.
That however does not change what I said.
 

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Pretty sure you're a little heated there and don't really mean that. Personally I've never cheated on a partner before. I'm not married but was once before and have been with my current partner for 8 years. We have a one year old. But we have sex a handful of times per year. Pretty sure I don't love her anymore as she's toxic af. Just used to her. So what am I to do? I don't have the time to ACTUALLY cheat and get a side gf. I don't want to kick her out as I would end up with the kid and I've already single dad raised one (he's off in police college now). I've only been with one SW so far but I see this as a need being filled. Do I tell my gf what I'm up to? Do I want to get stabbed in my sleep? I really don't feel bad about this at all, but that doesn't mean I'm scum. Just human.
Exactly ! Many people are stuck with something that does not do it for them anymore! You need that feeling that’s calling you!
 
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You feel what you feel and see what the difference is
I know what the difference is. Do you?. Did you ever?
Comparing an SP with someone you love you share your life with, your dreams with, you have children with and you build a life with is ridiculous.
You are paying someone for a fantasy nothing more, yes they are great at sex but it is an act perhaps sometimes worthy of an academy award.

At best you are thought of as being kind and respectful and most often you are an ATM.
Reality does suck sometimes lol.
 
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I know what the difference is. Do you?. Did you ever?
Comparing an SP with someone you love you share your life with, your dreams with, you have children with and you build a life with is ridiculous.
You are paying someone for a fantasy nothing more, yes they are great at sex but it is an act perhaps sometimes worthy of an academy award.

At best you are thought of as being kind and respectful and most often you are an ATM.
Reality does suck sometimes lol.
Really how many men are atms and are involved as I know many! Lol many men are stupid and get nothing from being married and they pay out daily
 

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Remember you are here as well if it sucks sometimes
I am not married or have a girlfriend, nor do I intend to have one because they will never live up to the one I had, so why waste their time and mine.
Even with SP I actually genuinely like them and they are friends and I have been seeing them for over 7 years.
So for me it is not about the thrill or the hunt, I am lucky to have these ladies in my life as they make it easier a bit as they are not only gorgeous but kind and nice to be with, but do they replace or even come close to someone you love, not in the slightest.
 

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Really what world are u from ? Yes many men do not leave marriages because their wives are tied to their money or don’t want be taken to court!
So money is the excuse lol.
No some men would rather have 2 jobs or 3 than stay in a loveless marriage or tolerate a wife who refuses sex.
These are the same men that have no guts to be honest and end up treating SP the same as they did their girlfriends and wonder why their life is a total mess.
I am from the world of where you make your own luck in life and your word means more than money.
 

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So money is the excuse lol.
No some men would rather have 2 jobs or 3 than stay in a loveless marriage or tolerate a wife who refuses sex.
These are the same men that have no guts to be honest and end up treating SP the same as they did their girlfriends and wonder why their life is a total mess.
I am from the world of where you make your own luck in life and your word means more than money.
Well then you are seeing SPS cause you made your choice!
 

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Of course, lol
You are the captain of your ship of destiny, nobody else.
Exactly! Just saying it’s mind blowing when you find the right sp! I have a friend who is having an awful time with his gf with no sex and cannot find anyone else yet he is stubborn and does not want to go with an sp! I would not want to be in that situation!
 
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