The definition of a hobby is an activity done regulary during ones free time.. but i kind of agree its a bit weird to call it like that but it can fit the definition..
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Yeah it's true but I think thats kinda beyond the point we were trying to make.. I do think it's a question of semantics in some cases and guys don't want to be called "johns" or "tricks" which is derogatory and doesn't allow ppl to view the complexity of a relationship between an escort and her client and how they can be really beneficial in some cases
What is so derogatory about calling it a hobby? Some people just want to have a quick fling, some want more human contacts and affection like you said.Yeah it's true but I think thats kinda beyond the point we were trying to make.. I do think it's a question of semantics in some cases and guys don't want to be called "johns" or "tricks" which is derogatory and doesn't allow ppl to view the complexity of a relationship between an escort and her client and how they can be really beneficial in some cases
I don't think it's necessarily derogatory, it's just the way some people view seeing escorts, what they think about us, how they treat us. Otherwise it's not that big of a deal I agree it's just a word
Thanks, I appreciate it. Sorry, perhaps that seemed accusatory. I didn't mean it that way. It did perturb me, but that's on me. It was something I saw on a SW's instagram, and I decided not to meet with her after seeing it. I think she has a more dominatrix angle which is fine. I'm not judging. Just not my thing.I'm not here to "look pretty and rob men".. I am actually really glad that seeing sex workers has been healing for you and that's what we're here for.
If she has a dominatrix angle, it's branding for her. Some men are actually into this type of thing.. Like I said earlier today SW'rs are not a monolith, we all have our way of interacting with clients. I speak my mind but I am not a mean person. Anyone who has met me in person can confirm that I'm very kind and welcoming. It's important for me.
Thanks! I appreciate your kind words. I wish you well too
Right, creating a brand is important for business. In order to survive, most people develop useful personas that are helpful in life. Might as well make money with one. Dominatrixes can also be very healing for some people. It turned me off, but that's just me. I'm glad you're very kind and welcoming. Thanks
Yeah that's exactly what I'm saying! Personally I'm interested in eventually creating a dominatrix persona, but I wouldn't write ''I'm here to be pretty and rob men'' lol. But I feel like the provider who wrote this is just being bratty and teasing.. She's probably not serious.Right, creating a brand is important for business. In order to survive, most people develop useful personas that are helpful in life. Might as well make money with one. Dominatrixes can also be very healing for some people. It turned me off, but that's just me. I'm glad you're very kind and welcoming. Thanks
But maybe she is not the provider for you.
It would have been a question in the ask us anything thread: is it something people would ask to do before? Would you like it?
The sex and communication is way better than a Girlfriend I find and respect is all there so not a hobby in any way for me
You just need a better girlfriend lol.
Sorry but a girlfriend that you are in love with will trump any escort every time, she is there because she wants to be and not because you are paying her.
Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting
I think you are glorifying SP lol.
Married men go with SP because they are cheating scum bags period. Yeah the truth is always hard to face.
Well I've been some people's girlfriend before just saying hehe
Pretty sure you're a little heated there and don't really mean that. Personally I've never cheated on a partner before. I'm not married but was once before and have been with my current partner for 8 years. We have a one year old. But we have sex a handful of times per year. Pretty sure I don't love her anymore as she's toxic af. Just used to her. So what am I to do? I don't have the time to ACTUALLY cheat and get a side gf. I don't want to kick her out as I would end up with the kid and I've already single dad raised one (he's off in police college now). I've only been with one SW so far but I see this as a need being filled. Do I tell my gf what I'm up to? Do I want to get stabbed in my sleep? I really don't feel bad about this at all, but that doesn't mean I'm scum. Just human.
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