It depends on funds really. Some guys probably get aroused just by "showing off" they are with that hot girl. Sometimes it may be about breaking the solitude, or creating a fantasy close to what you would like in real life. I personally can't afford more than 1h meeting at a time and of course its gonna be for sex, but if i won the loto you bet i would held parties and would pay girls to be there all night.
Also some providers are actually not making everything up. Depend really on the type of provider you see but some will actually talk about real things from their life and won't make up stories. Real chemistry is possible. There is even instance where a relation can evolve pass business if the factors are there (client beingc charismatic, good looking, and having the moolah)
Now to answer the thread. Personally i don't frequent the places the SPs/instagram models go in general. I can't help but laugh when i see their meal on insta where there is like a tiny square of food in a big plate and it probably cost 50$ or more. Im not going only in fast food or such but i mean i don't really go in fancy restaurants. Same for hotels, usually i pick a small cheaper hotels to save on cost. I assume you are more prone to cross path with an escort at Sheraton or some big fancy hotels. That said once i had a room at the Lord Beri and i did saw someone who looked really like she was on the job (alone, going to a room, dress the part and hot) but obviously no idea if she was one or not. Beside that i once cross path with 1 SP in a metro station, she didn't saw/recognized me (we only ever had met in a GT) and i didn't do anything to initiate contact as i know they rather let their personal life be personal.
No not really, it doesn't depend on funds at all It has nothing to do with it.
It has to do with principles and the way you are and the way you think at least for me it does.
I have no problem taking someone to lunch or dinner if they are hungry or even taking an SP that I have seen many times and don’t care which restaurant or how much the dinner will cost but paying for their time for having dinner with me will never happen.
Same thing goes for a vacation if I like them enough and know them for a long time I don’t have a problem taking them on a vacation with or without sex . The vacation is on me wherever they want to go but additional funds for their time NO.
For me there is a huge difference between buying sex and buying friends, I will not buy friends, I have plenty that I can have dinner with and I can take my children and grandchildren on vacations.
I am not into show and tell either, having a gorgeous woman sitting across the dinner table from me is not a turn on for me at all unless she wants to be there . I couldn’t care less about what other people think I am comfortable with who I am and don’t need other people’s approval.