Yeah that means she has auto deposit enabled! More girls should know that auto deposit allows clients to see our legal name. I would never use auto deposit for this reason.
The ticklish subject of sending e-transfers to SPs
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Yeah that means she has auto deposit enabled! More girls should know that auto deposit allows clients to see our legal name. I would never use auto deposit for this reason.
For a while, I was reluctant to do e-transfers, so I was seeing mainly agency SPs. I got somewhat fed up with agencies, mostly with the BS involved in booking the popular ladies, less personalized experience, agency taking weeks to fix shower issues, booking an SP that sees 5-6 guys per day (difficult to repeat and build chemistry), etc.
So lately I saw a couple of Indy’s and did e-transfers. You know what, it’s no big deal!!
So what that they know my real name. If they’re on sites like Tryst or Merb, nothing to worry about. And after meeting them, I have no concerns whatsoever! I should have done it sooner.
But again, to each their own.
So lately I saw a couple of Indy’s and did e-transfers. You know what, it’s no big deal!!
So what that they know my real name. If they’re on sites like Tryst or Merb, nothing to worry about. And after meeting them, I have no concerns whatsoever! I should have done it sooner.
But again, to each their own.
Both agencies and indies have their own pros and cons. With an agency things usually book fast and without any headache, but the experience is less "personalized" if i can say (in general). Also depending on agencies, you may be more prone to cancellations. With indies, you can ask more question and get a better grip right away of whats offered (altough not all SPs are willing to disclose the type of services they will offer), but booking process may be more laborious.
I didn't yet reply to this thread but its not the first time this subject is brough up. Personally i have no problem sending 50$ deposit to a reputed indy (i wouldn't send half tough) in term of money. I don't see why an SP that has a reputation would do shananigans over 50$. Its not logical. But she must accept gift cards. That way i can just take a picture of the code and send it to her by email or something. I don't want my full name to be visible.
I understand we got into a digital age and younger SPs grew up with internet as we know it today (or almost, i mean they could had been 10 years old when twitter and facebook started being a thing, otherwise they were on Myspace lol) but the whole "screening+deposit" really only started to exist a few years back... Peoples were doing "escorts stuff" before and it worked fine.
I guess ultimately it only depend if you really want to see someone "that bad" to be willing to do stuff out of your comfort zone. In my case VERY few SPs would push "my limit" in that direction but a few could.
I didn't yet reply to this thread but its not the first time this subject is brough up. Personally i have no problem sending 50$ deposit to a reputed indy (i wouldn't send half tough) in term of money. I don't see why an SP that has a reputation would do shananigans over 50$. Its not logical. But she must accept gift cards. That way i can just take a picture of the code and send it to her by email or something. I don't want my full name to be visible.
I understand we got into a digital age and younger SPs grew up with internet as we know it today (or almost, i mean they could had been 10 years old when twitter and facebook started being a thing, otherwise they were on Myspace lol) but the whole "screening+deposit" really only started to exist a few years back... Peoples were doing "escorts stuff" before and it worked fine.
I guess ultimately it only depend if you really want to see someone "that bad" to be willing to do stuff out of your comfort zone. In my case VERY few SPs would push "my limit" in that direction but a few could.
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I would be worried too sending an e transfer to a girl that has a new phone number every 4 days and never keeps the same name more than 2 weeks but would I be worried sending an e-transfer to a girl who has a website, an online presence and positive reviews? No, not more than I’d be worried sending an e-transfer to a hairstylist or a tattoo artist
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