Any parties for SPs and hobbyists?

[Shaytana]

Hi community.
I was wondering if there are any parties organized with the objective for service providers and gentlemen to come in contact? Un genre de 5 à 7, happy hour, in other words a laidback event where everybody can interact with each other and maybe keep in touch if it clicks.
I understand how this might not exist due to privacy issues, but I’d love to meet people in a safe space and create connections with other ladies in the industry and men alike.
Doesn’t hurt to ask!
-Selma x

 

[Shaytana]

There used be when a fellow merbite organized gts to meet up, from 2013 - 2017

Sometimes, April Killian organizes social events as well

She also organizes orgies at times

Here are some nostalgic links:

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/what-happened-to-the-vip-events.188758/

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/vip-10-take-2-unicorn-healers-are-taking-over-the-vip-parties.168437/

How unrealistic would it be if I tried to organize one lol

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

April Killian organise régulièrement ce genre de happening, parfois soirée strictement sociale, parfois des orgies.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

How unrealistic would it be if I tried to organize one lol

Not so unrealistic imho, April's soirée seems to fill up quite fast. Maybe you should get in touch with her.

 

[Halloween Mike]

The old GTs used to be fun because there was a lot of peoples attending and lot of SPs. When Goodgirls/Iggy organized them, there was a good % of the roster present and a lot of indies joined as well, so there was a lot of peoples to talk to. Another one i really enjoyed, one of my favorite, was the Mike Mansion/Unicorn party at the private house. It was very spacious with 3 floors and again tons of indies of different style, lots of agency girls from different agencies showed up at some point too. These where the days.

I know indy companion organize some stuff at times but they seem to be very exclusives with very few peoples.

I don't know if we will ever see another huge GTs like back then.

 

[Jordd]

How unrealistic would it be if I tried to organize one lol

If you build it they will cum!

 

[Fradi]

April Killian organise régulièrement ce genre de happening, parfois soirée strictement sociale, parfois des orgies.

Yes but that is usually a small group of 10 to 20 maximum providers and clients and these events are usually not just meet and greet but orgies or with sessions.
One: I am not one for group sex and seeing other guys junks. Two : from the list of providers sometimes I am not attracted to 75% of them so what is my chance of having a good time or ending up with a lady that I am attracted to. If it was a meet and greet of many SP and Merb clients like the old get togethers ( I never went to any of them I was too new at the time) I would probably go. Apparently there you could make side arrangements with ladies you met and could hook up with them at a hotel or their incall either then or a couple of days later depending on their availability and it gave you a chance to meet and talk and see who you were attracted to in real life not a photo shopped picture.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

these events are usually not just meet and greet but orgies or with sessions.

To my knowledge, she has, in the past, organized both kind of events. I never partake in any, not my thing at all, regardless of her "guests list". Last thing I want is, finding myself surrounded by a group of "hobbyists". I mean, socialy speaking, I have better options! lmao

 

[LC18]

I understand why people like these events but it’s not my thing. I like discretion and I don’t need/want to know who’s fucking who and whatnot.

I don’t want people to recognize me.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

I understand why people like these events but it’s not my thing. I like discretion and I don’t need/want to know who’s fucking who and whatnot.

I don’t want people to recognize me.

Same

 

[Gazoo64]

I understand why people like these events but it’s not my thing. I like discretion and I don’t need/want to know who’s fucking who and whatnot.

I don’t want people to recognize me.

Well said! I feel exactly the same way.
To each their own, but not my thing.

 

[Ogre Tones]

I remember I almost went to one of the YPG meeting and I missed it due to work travels. People seemed to have liked it and it gave a big picture view of the therapists…and yes clients too. I have not seen or heard of any being organized after that. OT

 

[What's My Name]

I remember I almost went to one of the YPG meeting and I missed it due to work travels. People seemed to have liked it and it gave a big picture view of the therapists…and yes clients too. I have not seen or heard of any being organized after that. OT

I remember one I attended from YPG, I had a great time and the ladies were ohh so friendly.

 

[Rebaynia]

It sounds like fun. I would be up to attending if one was done, though not an orgy version.
I am shy around crowds of people I don't know, but would still be a new experience I would love to say I have at least done once in my life.

 

[theyellowman]

How unrealistic would it be if I tried to organize one lol

Why not! I used to book the indies after i met and talking with them at the Party. So it was advantage for both parties.

 

[sapman99]

Quite a while ago, we would simply set a date and meet at a hotel lobby bar. We even held one at Café Cléopâtre, let me tell you the strippers did NOT like seeing the girls at the table . It was very informal, but we drew good crowds, and agencies would sometimes pass by with the girls and have a drink with us between calls. I would go for that formula.

 

[CaptRenault]

Quite a while ago, we would simply set a date and meet at a hotel lobby bar. We even held one at Café Cléopâtre...It was very informal, but we drew good crowds, and agencies would sometimes pass by with the girls and have a drink with us between calls. I would go for that formula.

Ah, yes, the good old days. I don't remember any meetings at the Cleo but I did attend a couple get-togethers at the Hotel de la Montagne (which was knocked down to clear the way for the Four Seasons Hotel on Montagne). They were pretty good but the setting of the lobby, though nice, wasn't big enough and private enough to make the atmosphere comfortable for both clients and escorts.

Eventually some guys decided to organize the get-togethers on a more formal basis. I was not opposed to the idea and I was able to attend two of the get-togethers that took place in a small, ground level function room of the old Lord Berri Hotel (which is now a Fairfield Inn, I think). The room had a small terrace in front of the hotel.

The more formal meeting format required invitations to be sent to members of MERB and some partnering with agencies and indies to get some girls to attend. It also required guys to chip in some cash at the door (I think it was about $30) to cover the costs of renting the function room and providing some light snacks. There was a cash bar. It was nice having a private space even though it was not really big enough to accommodate everyone who showed up. Quite a few girls did show up and I was able to talk with a few on both occasions that I attended. Before the organizers settled on the Lord Berri as a location, they tried a couple other locations that sounded good but for one reason or another, they could not be used again. Obviously booking a place for an escort-client get-together is not a easy thing to do.

 

[Rebaynia]

The devil is in the details.. you just work within the laws, if that is what it takes.. The laws are about solicitation.. so, you make the rules of the party it's meet and greet. no solicitation. A private party for people to see each other who share a common interest like in any other platform.. yes this platform is sex based, but Montreal also has no reason to shut down a private party.. there's massage parlors and spas and other places they could target before targeting a websites party just to meet each other. set in the rules it is to meet other people and keep the business aspect of the meeting to after the party, or once you leave. No making appointments at the party, a girl can talk about where her info can be found.. but save the actual business of future meetings to afterwards.

It isn't a bad idea. there is only so much you can get about someone from a picture. A personality is easily hidden, but with cloths on and no money involved. It can help. Especially in todays world of filters and doctored photos.

If nothing illegal is allowed at the party, then again no reason to raid it.. So what if it gets checked out then. They come in on speculation, but keep it clean, and they can't shut it down.

Besides, in my case specifically I charge for my time not services, services are just a fun way to fill the time. It would actually be probono time. Where people might get to see these girls personalities are worth paying for at a later date. I follow old rules of discretion before this c-36 loophole, just keep the party out of the solicitation realm.

Besides it isn't just for the guys to meet the girls either. When else do girls, especially indies, get to meet new friends in the same industry. We need it as much just to enhance our own world and connections. It's not like we get work Christmas parties, or co-workers, or any real sense of inclusion with other people.. We often get into this job and have to say goodbye to any semblance of a normal life. Personally it would be a blessing to make friends with people who share similar interests, and who aren't going to extricate you because they can't separate the job from the person, who is still a real person despite what they do.
I will say thankfully I have made 1 friend from this site, but we need some kind of community as well.

It would be up to both the ladies and the men to uphold keeping it from becoming the sex party that would be shut down. each person or as an accumulative would be responsible to be sure rules are kept.. If someone is trying to entice breaking the rules in place, then it would be expected they would be asked to leave and be corrected on the reason and point of the gettogether... (Undercovers trying to break the rules to entice a reason for a shutdown would then be escorted out for breaking the very rules there to protect everyone there for the genuine reason for the party to begin with.)

besides this is Montreal not the states, not Texas or Seattle. The laws are not as conservative here. And just maintain the party be within the laws to avoid trouble.

 

[Rebaynia]

Rebatuna, You will have to forgive my skepticism, but I don’t think the guys here who loved the parties of old and told private stories about them for weeks afterward are really thinking of the sort of Girls Gone Mild meet and greet you described. I presume you are envisioning it being mostly for independents, with no agencies dropping off ladies and picking them back up in between their sessions?

It also benefits them too.. a sexy girl is going to peek interest regardless.. and it isn't out of the norm to say Hi my name is xxx I am from xxx or can be found on xxx. then on to the next topic of discussion, it doesn't have to be about sex. we are talking about trying to bring it back... If you bring it back with a vengeance all at once then it can cause issues. It's still a form of advertising, and from the sounds of it, guys amongst themselves here would still likely be able to guy talk on the side about the girls they met who they saw at the party. If those girls aren't present then they aren't talked about.. It still benefits them to make an appearance.
To add, the party's of the past were run by someone out of the country who had nothing to loose in Canada, and was run by the man, If girls are running the party we have everything to loose if we throw the same party. The thread was a woman asking other women if we could.. if the girls throw it we can get in trouble for mass solicitation in that case.
Besides I'm still sure there is intrigue to the men to attend a party surrounded by many of the hottest women in Montreal. And doesn't matter the tamer version of the party, I'm sure all the women would be dressed to impress anyways, with great personalities to keep a party happening. Put some music on, and girls like to have fun . I picture more the sexiest house party scenario. It doesn't have to be boring to be lawful.

The original question was laid-back happy hour request. Not even a big party like the men were referring to.

Much appreciated for the name fix

 

[ch19]

Ah, yes, the good old days. I don't remember any meetings at the Cleo but I did attend a couple get-togethers at the Hotel de la Montagne (which was knocked down to clear the way for the Four Seasons Hotel on Montagne). They were pretty good but the setting of the lobby, though nice, wasn't big enough and private enough to make the atmosphere comfortable for both clients and escorts.

Eventually some guys decided to organize the get-togethers on a more formal basis. I was not opposed to the idea and I was able to attend two of the get-togethers that took place in a small, ground level function room of the old Lord Berri Hotel (which is now a Fairfield Inn, I think). The room had a small terrace in front of the hotel.

The more formal meeting format required invitations to be sent to members of MERB and some partnering with agencies and indies to get some girls to attend. It also required guys to chip in some cash at the door (I think it was about $30) to cover the costs of renting the function room and providing some light snacks. There was a cash bar. It was nice having a private space even though it was not really big enough to accommodate everyone who showed up. Quite a few girls did show up and I was able to talk with a few on both occasions that I attended. Before the organizers settled on the Lord Berri as a location, they tried a couple other locations that sounded good but for one reason or another, they could not be used again. Obviously booking a place for an escort-client get-together is not a easy thing to do.

This brings back fond memories from the good old days. I did not get to attend that many and have never been to the meetings at Cleo, but I remember a dinner gathering organized by the Devil at this restaurant (down from Chez Paree?). Most of the girls from the roster showed up. I made a hit list from the gathering, pardon me to-do list, and met again in private with most of them on my list in the next few months.