Are there any substantially overweight johns out there?

[Rusty Staub]

Apologies if this comes off rude but I have no other way to phrase it.

As some background, I have a friend that is obese, at least 70-80 pounds overweight, probably over 300 pounds, and single. He would like to hobby but much like fear of going to the beach in summer, he is afraid of shocking SP's with his size when they strip, being made fun of, and even having them refuse service (leaving).

I tried to encourage him to try but I really do not know what the reaction of a 20 y/o SP that is 1/4 his size and 1/2 his age might be.

I feel like I am a typical john - maybe a few pounds overweight - beer belly, etc. - but nothing abnormal that would turn heads walking in the city, so if there is "SP discrimination" that I am not privy to it.

Can any larger guys out there speak to this? Do they really care what we look like or as long as we are gentlemen are they "good to go"?

TYIA

 

[wasisname]

6'2 range from 250 to 300 pounds.
Never a problem. Be polite, be clean, don't be a ****.

Do they like it. Pretty sure not. However they are professional enough that I could never tell.

I can only speak for well reviewed independents however. Get some random skank on backpage or whatever its called and all bets are off but I am sure their pimps would keep them in line. But yeah, well reviewed, probably not gonna be a problem. If it is a problem odds are it will be the only time [anything can happen, hell the girl could be your mom, sister, daughter, life is all about risks]

Have had 3 strippers avoid me however considering the numbers that is pretty small. However they never said anything to my face, more along the lines of claim they had to speak to a friend and then drag someone else off to the back rooms. So it might not be weight related.

So go for it. One of the best things about the escorts is that it allows you to get naked in a atmosphere where you can be sure you won't be judged. I'd hate to be even shirtless otherwise when others are around.

Show him this clip of Rob Schneider
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qztuEucrNBc

 

[tiannas]

Gentlemen come in all shapes and sizes. Like wasisname said, if he is polite, clean, respectful, I doubt his size will be a problem for most girls.

I have had clients let me know ahead of time when booking that they are overweight in case it bothered me. While I personally don't find this necessary, it was considerate of them. Your friend might consider that if he wants to be sure the girl is going to be okay with it before they meet.

 

[panthere]

I am 6 foot 4... and yes i am overweight..big beer belly ...let say i don't have a six pack ...more a 24 pack lolll( better laugh about it then cry snifff)..i want and would loveee to loose it ...but it is hard...but girls that i did meet soo far didn't tell me nothing bad about it..but still never had a sign of répulsion ...like tiannas said ..you could for sure tell them in advance but a reallll lady that does this business are respectfull..if you'r friend meet otherwise ..find yourself another lady...trust me they are some very cool...and respectfull lady..just have too look for them...just tell him too go see my post ...new and .older..probably gonna help him...but i did never saw tianna ..but she sound like a real lady too me for just at least answer this thread...and i would be curious if other one would post about it...good luck too your friend...hope i did help

P.s.very clean.polite.respect.humour ...and he is gonna get far and i have to say...a indy is probably a better luck for is first time....

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I second Tianas,as long as your friend is clean there is no problem,au contraire.

Actually big has its appeal,I'll admit having a thing for football player loll, one of my favorite was a ex-basketballer player,huge black guy,I miss him...sigh...memories loll,It is really fun to feel all petite and meet someone who can lift you like a feather loll

 

[Amelie.courtesan]

Actually big has its appeal,I'll admit having a thing for football player loll, one of my favorite was a ex-basketballer player,huge black guy,I miss him...sigh...memories loll,It is really fun to feel all petite and meet someone who can lift you like a feather loll

Oh god I totally agree!

I like big guys and i cannot lie

 

[panthere]

so here it goes...3 on 3....yahoooo..rock on... i am beautifullll lollll:amen:hope there is moreeee

 

[Lily from Montreal]

it is funny because if I like big guys for girls it is the opposite, the smaller the better, A cup is my dream size on a girl,at almost C's I am about to have to big breasts for my own taste loll

 

[Merlot]

It is really fun to feel all petite and meet someone who can lift you like a feather loll

Hello Lily,

I guess I don't belong in this thread at 5'10", slim, and in pretty good shape. But your little line caught my attention. Ummmmm, I have to say I really enjoy this move. There's nothing like giving a petite lady a lift having her wrap herself all around while getting into a good stride with a lot of delicious rhythm. I've caught some ladies by surprise with this, yet they always seem to enjoy it.

:thumb:

Merlot

 

[Lily from Montreal]

As far as move goes that one is a winner loll bisous mon ami!

 

[hungry101]

I have to say that about a month ago I was at my heaviest weight that I have ever been in my entire life. I think I was about 40-50 Lbs over weight. The point is that I don't think it mattered one iota to the girls. I am clean, I am comfortable around woman, gentlemanly, and oh yes, I always have about 500-1000$ US currency with me that I have budgeted for SPs. So, I would say my weight has never resulted in an SP cancelling an appointment.

Now I do remember a 3-sum in BA Argentina. I was sitting between two SPs in a taxi. One of the girls did not have her passport so I couldn't take the 3-sum back to my hotel. We were looking for a swingers club or a pay-by-the-hour hotel to have the session. One SP couldn't speak a word of English. She sighed and said "Gorto." She didn't know but I understood. The evening was salvaged when the taxi driver helped us find a by the hour hotel that was open (it was election day and everything was closed.) That turned out to be probably the greatest two hours I have ever had as a hobbyist. So it all worked out.

I will say this. I am currently overweight and I am committed to losing 50 Lbs. I have lost 15 Lbs already and I am 35 Lbs away from my goal. However, I don't think this will matter too much to the GoodGirls. Sure, they would probably prefer if I were more fit. But, If I lost all 50 lbs by GG4 they still will not have sex with me for free no matter how fit I am. It will make a difference to me. I think I will have better sessions because 1.) I will be more fit and physically more capable of having the type of sexcapades that I enjoy and 2.) psychologically, I will just feel more sexy and virile. But in the end I will still have to pay about 180$/hour just like everyone else.

I don't know if there are any girls - either agency or indy - that charge by the pound.

 

[Doc Holliday]

I'm no longer a stringbean....i figure i'm about 30 lbs overweight. However, i try to routinely workout in order to keep my weight down. Usually 3-4 weeks prior to going on a trip to Mtl, i intensify my workouts & i'm more careful with what goes into my body.

There's nothing like having great sex when you're in better shape & feel good about yourself. The way i see it, if i wasn't taking care of myself & feel very out of shape, it would waste the experience of spending money on escorts. I'd rather stay home & jerk off instead of blowing away money.

Alright, time to resume my workouts.......just to get ready for the summer!

 

[Mike's Mansion]

From what the girls tell us in general is that they much prefer a man who is nice, clean and a gentleman than a young guy full of himself that is rough and rude regardless of looks. I'd say 9 out of 10 girls i ever worked with have zero problem and just ask for clients to fit that criteria. Maybe avoid extremely new girls to the bizz and stick with girls that are well reviewed

 

[smuler]

Now I do remember a 3-sum in BA Argentina.

Those were the days for sure..I need to get back

Best Regards

Smuler

 

[Rusty Staub]

From what the girls tell us in general is that they much prefer a man who is nice, clean and a gentleman than a young guy full of himself that is rough and rude regardless of looks. I'd say 9 out of 10 girls i ever worked with have zero problem and just ask for clients to fit that criteria. Maybe avoid extremely new girls to the bizz and stick with girls that are well reviewed

Thanks for the feedback

 

[Phillymale]

I'm a bigger guy. 6'0' 300lbs, though I will say I carry it well.most people peg me for 250 (not that that is a slimming size) and I have never had a real issue. On one occasion an SP, a very slim and small one, did not at all seem interested in initiating FS...and being a gentleman I would never force the issue -but her oral skills were very good. Not sure if me, my size, or her...but more often than not, my being very clean, very nice and gregarious, and confident has resulting in very good results to an extent where on many occasions I have been on the positive side of a "YMMV" service and have a few times been given personnel phone numbers.

As listed above, be clean and kind and you will be just fine

 

[Mr. Atoz]

In my earlier days, I worked at a place where there were a bunch of Italian guys that would go out on the week ends and if they did not score a chic, they would call an ad in the J de Montreal and see an SP. One of these guys was a barrel shaped guy. The stories goes that he called a SP and when he arrived at her door she screamed when she saw this obese guy and slammed the door.

 

[DareDevil214]

I am 5'11 and was 50 lbs overweight when I started hobbying. I never got turned down, laughed at, or discriminated by any lady I've been with. I tried to be as respectful and gentle to them, and that is highly appreciated by them more than my looks or weight (a lot of them said so themselves). Just tell your friend to be confident and respectful. He should not be shy or conscious of his size.

On another note, my weight did have effects on my libido and endurance with anything I do. And so last year I made the decision to change my lifestyle and so far lost about 25 lbs. I feel better seeing my flatter tummy, and can play almost 5 games of basketball straight without dying :lol: