You will need to update your list of date ideas
I said ''dream date'', it's just a fantasy and I've had experiences that were pretty close to that one
I've had champagne, cheese and chocolate at a fancy hotel followed by a lunch date and a dinner date and a show. Just saying that happens to us sometimes and it's fun, but it's definitely not an obligation. I also like picnics at the park, movie dates, etc,
For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?
When I have sessions over 2h I suggest a bottle of wine, it's happened a few times that it went over that limit. I'm very aware of how in control I am when it comes to alcohol because I've had to adjust how much I drink over the last few years. I think sharing a bottle between 2 people is reasonable. Have I been past what's reasonable before? Yes lol. But it doesn't happen frequently. Everyone has different tolerance levels, and I know where my limit is, I'm in touch with my body. I will also not ''party'' because I don't respond to other substances well.
