Ask us anything part 3

[David Sel et Poivre]

Question to the ladies, do you prefer men with or without beards?

Thank you ladies for all your valuable responses !

Ok,
Short and prickly = no (Death by a thousand needles - same for shaved kitties)
Duck dynasty long = no
Medium length, soft = ok to some, but not all.

So, growing this for my children and grandchildren for Christmas... 14 days and counting...
Will remove it after Christmas

 

[Giselle Montreal]

This is cute.

 

[Nachoy]

Shaved head on a dude or not?

 

[Fradi]

Oh! That’s a very personal concern. Not sure you will have an answer.

Why would that be so personal.
How difficult is it to say that I put away 10 or 20 % of my income for the future or I invest it in real estate or stocks GIC or ETF or whatever. You do not need to divulge your income or the amount you make that is personal.
Nothing personal or invasive about it, it is something everyone should think about, the government doesn’t owe you a living there is no free ride in life, you make your own luck.
Saving money and investing wisely is often much more difficult to do than making it.

There are many doctors and lawyers, celebrities, sports professionals that have made millions and end up on welfare the list is endless.
Many just spend it as fast as it comes and lack any kind of planning for the future and have zero discipline.

The best rule I have ever heard is pay yourself first.

 

[Nachoy]

For whatever valid reason, If I don’t want to book a client again.
Should I reply and block, ghost and block
Or do something else ?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

For whatever valid reason, If I don’t want to book a client again.
Should I reply and block, ghost and block
Or do something else ?

You book clients? You're trying to put yourself in our shoes?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

They think they look manly but they look unclean.

This is such a ridiculous comment, I think even my grandmother was more discerning in her judgmental ways.

 

[MCTJ]

This is such a ridiculous comment, I think even my grandmother was more discerning in her judgmental ways.

I stand by my comment.

 

[Nachoy]

You book clients? You're trying to put yourself in our shoes?

Yes
someone made a comment that I’m not Empathetic enough when I ask question in this thread

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Shaved head on a dude or not?

Not my favorite

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For whatever valid reason, If I don’t want to book a client again.
Should I reply and block, ghost and block
Or do something else ?

What is the intention behind this question? I don't usually refuse to see a client again unless he was disrespectful to me in person or over text. I've had issues with a few clients that were resolved with good communication but certain things are unacceptable. In the past I've needed a time out with one person in particular, and I solved the problem one year later.

I tend to be outspoken and tell the client what he did wrong because some people don't realize why they fucked up or need to be reminded why their actions are unacceptable. I usually block afterwards.

On certain occasions I didn't feel comfortable explaining anything so I just ghosted or blocked. But I've never stopped seeing a client or refused to see a client without a good reason and it doesn't happen often anymore.

 

[DouMan]

Yes
someone made a comment that I’m not Empathetic enough when I ask question in this thread

Well, that's a stretch

 

[LC18]

Thank you ladies for all your valuable responses !

Ok,
Short and prickly = no (Death by a thousand needles - same for shaved kitties)
Duck dynasty long = no
Medium length, soft = ok to some, but not all.

So, growing this for my children and grandchildren for Christmas... 14 days and counting...
Will remove it after Christmas

You’re gonna be Santa? So cool


P.S: I removed the photo from my quote reply for privacy