Asking girls for BBFS

[Euphoria Girls]

Hello everyone,

It seems to have become a recent phenomenon for clients to be either asking the girls, for an extra, for Bare Back, or even just trying "in the heat of the moment". I had 2 more reports from girls this week about that, and these are clients that have booked 10-15 times. I also caught another client from out of town, that has booked 4-5 times.

It is going too far and I want to take a lead on this. I will tell you all right now that it happens much more than you think and Merb clients are the vast majority of the culprits. We easily have 40% non-Merb clients for comparison.

I am saying right now, that any future client who even brings up BBFS will be banned permanently and I will look into permission to either post their phone numbers publicly or privately to all other agencies. We have a lot of debutante type girls here, who often don't know how to handle these type of insistent requests and it is a very dangerous practice. I will not accept anyone putting these young girls in a tough position and will not tread lightly on this. Even If it is our best client who books 4-5 hours a week, there will be no tolerance. I implore all other agencies to follow the same policies. Any girl I hear have accepted this, will be fired immediately as well.

It really irks me that some of these guys are regular clients, who act like the nicest guys on the phone, and then pull this kind of stuff.

Best Regards,
James

 

[ssj3]

I applaud you for taking the lead on this James. It is completely out of line for these guys to be asking the girls this. And I think they're freakin idiots for even wanting to do BBFS when the risk is so high that they themselves could catch something.

 

[here4agoodtime]

I applaud you James for taking a stand and looking out for the safety of the Ladies, and ultimately us. I can not believe that some guys are asking for that king of service. It's scary to think how many other times they might have done this, not thinking how they are putting other people at risk. I agree that you should be able to report this activity to other agencies and Indies so we all can be safe. Thanks for taking a stand.

 

[Numerati]

Merb clients are the vast majority of the culprits.

Why am I not surprised. Common sense and safety out the door.

 

[UncleBob]

We have a lot of debutante type girls here, who often don't know how to handle these type of insistent requests and it is a very dangerous practice.

Does all agencies give a small crash course to their "debutantes" before they put them in the action?
(How to be carefull about the doggy position that is often used by BBFS seeker to remove discretly the condom and How to handle BBFS demand by their clients, regular or not, and also BBFS demand by some bookers lol)


BBFS Demands are alarming.

I hope that there will not be too much FALSE reports (vengence) from the girls or other agencies.

 

[BookerL]

Hello everyone,

It seems to have become a recent phenomenon for clients to be either asking the girls, for an extra, for Bare Back, or even just trying "in the heat of the moment". I had 2 more reports from girls this week about that, and these are clients that have booked 10-15 times. I also caught another client from out of town, that has booked 4-5 times.

Sad to read ,however there's nothing recent about it
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?149680-Does-this-only-happens-to-me&highlight=


There also use to be a thread on merb about it ,started by a agency that is now out .




Good Luck






Cheers



Booker

 

[Splotch]

...I am flabbergasted! BBFS?!!
Maybe I don't know, but I would have thought that Merbists would be more informed than the typical client!! WTF!

 

[westwoody]

Some ladies have posted screenshots of guys asking for it via text, with names and numbers.They can be very persistent, it is not a spur of the moment thing, these guys are shopping around for it.I feel sorry for any debutante who is intimidated by some jerk.

 

[somethingelse]

I think this is a great initiative by James. Thank you for making us aware of this hidden problem.

It seems like there are two kinds of BBFS clients:
1. A client that asks for it (he might ask politely or persistently)
2. A client that sneaks it in (via doggy or "in the heat of the moment")

I worry that clients who are exposed or shamed for their BBFS request might switch to strategy #2: sneak it in. If asking for BBFS gets denied, don't ask, just try it and see if you can get away with it.

Based on the comments so far, I think it's a two-part solution: banning/blacklisting BBFS clients, and educating the girls on how to handle BBFS requests and attempts.

 

[cpp433]

Im not sure why these members arent being exposed by james? They are a danger to the ladies as well as us. As the saying goes "sunlight is the best disinfectant"! These are people that should be outcast from our community, not getting info from us and attending parties! Cant shun them if we dont know who they are. If there is a rule on here against it THERE SHOULDNT BE!

 

[B52]

These clients offer 100-200 or even 1000$ extra. They are the repeat type of clients, they get close to the girl to gain her trust then bring this topic up.
james you shouldn't stop here, banning and exposing them is the way to go, no warnings are needed.

 

[jalimon]

That makes me so mad! These fuckers will scare the most beautiful gem of Montreal away. James I am a good client of yours, on the head of my kids I swear I never asked that.

James and other agency owner and booker, why dont you share between you a list of scumbags asking that so they get banned everywhere?

And also, do you give these ass holes a call back to scare the shit out of them?

Cheers,

 

[chowzilla]

i'm disappointed in us merbites

I wanted to believe merb members were a different class of clients but over the years I learned that some of us are just as crummy as the average ugly joe who books on BP.

I agree that these retards need to be blacklisted... sorry if you are someone i know but you can't call yourself smart. That type of stuff can ruin the community. I would almost call it assault.

I've heard of horror stories of guys who have STDs who say fuck it, they have it anyways, no point in covering. These stories of guys "sneaking it in" is just appalling. These guys usually get charged for attempted murder.

I, chowzilla, have never asked or pressured a girl for BBFS

A girl once tried to slip me in uncovered, I was like, I would love that but thats a no no, give me 5seconds to put one on.

 

[transatlantic]

I think this is a great initiative by James. Thank you for making us aware of this hidden problem.

It seems like there are two kinds of BBFS clients:
1. A client that asks for it (he might ask politely or persistently)
2. A client that sneaks it in (via doggy or "in the heat of the moment")

I worry that clients who are exposed or shamed for their BBFS request might switch to strategy #2: sneak it in. If asking for BBFS gets denied, don't ask, just try it and see if you can get away with it.

Based on the comments so far, I think it's a two-part solution: banning/blacklisting BBFS clients, and educating the girls on how to handle BBFS requests and attempts.

These clients offer 100-200 or even 1000$ extra. They are the repeat type of clients, they get close to the girl to gain her trust then bring this topic up.
james you shouldn't stop here, banning and exposing them is the way to go, no warnings are needed.

Education on how to handle is definitely required. It's bad for the girls and it's bad for business for the agency.

Guys, these top performers are top for a reason. They provide such a realistic illusion of GFE (especially on the repeat sessions) that you are losing yourself in it. At the end of the day you need to remember it is an illusion. It is not real. If you can't ground yourself to reality and control yourself, you should be banned. Banning is doing you a favor by saving you from a momentarily lapse of stupidity that could result in years of child support.

 

[hungry101]

James - Only one thing to do: Ban them!!!! Ban them now!!!! This is wrong and it pisses me off. Also, every time I get up in the morning and I pull up the web site and all I see is "Fully Booked" so you don't need them.

Tell the girls that Uncle Hungry is on-board with this policy. I may smuggle in the Lelohex condoms. Guys - Keep yourself safe and the girls safe.

 

[cloudsurf]

James giving their names and numbers to other merb advertisers is a good idea and you shouldn`t wait but do it soon.
You may also want to consider giving their handle to party organizers so that they will be on a party ban list.

 

[transatlantic]

Would a ban even have any effect?

If offender is MERB, call them out. But if not merb, not sure how sharing phone numbers would really work. Offender can easily get a new burner phone#.

 

[talkinghead]

I fully agree with all the fulminating outrage in this thread. Ban them! I wonder, though, how different it is to request cim, which is not only a common request but a relatively familiar "menu item." Putting aside the obvious danger of pregnancy, which is real and important, does anyone know how much greater the risk of STD is for a woman who does bbfs as opposed to cim? I'm curious and ignorant, not making a point. The risk may be entirely different. Still, I would assume that cim also presents a risk. Are we talking degrees here, or is bbfs really a completely different risk for the provider?

 

[TigerWould]

I think someone should start a poll. Vote for or against publishing someone's Merb handle AND phone number for such ridiculous requests. I'm all for it.

 

[ssj3]

While CIM does present a risk it is not nearly as risky as BBFS.