Attention to all black hobbyist!!

[speed87]

Could you please stop being jackasses when you meet with a SP! You are giving us a bad reputation and ruining everything for us,the non-jackasses black men.

I'm tired of seeing an ad for a super hot woman only to be crushed by that " NO BLACK MEN" warning! I keep seeing it more and more. Even some independents on merb like EVA and Lucy pearl don't want to see black guys because of disrespectful asshole like you.

So please be polite,be clean,be respectful and DO NOT TRY TO BARGAIN! Just pay the price she fucking asked!

YES, of course there is another underlying issue in all this. It's not really fair for them to put us in the same category,but for now all we can do is to be extremely respectful and nice to them.

 

[MisterPep]

I have been told that some SPs who have afro-american boyfriend prefer not to see customers of the same origin. Makes sense since that might create kind of weird Christmas parties

Same for arabic and spanish providers.

But it is a good reminder that Customer of all origins should never be asshole, even if sometimes SPs might be

 

[Halloween Mike]

Well there is 3 different possibilities to this...

1) What misterpep mention, could be a factor, even tough its not like there is 10 black men in mtl...

2) She just don't want ethnic guys for any reason. May be she fear the size of the penis(black men in general seem to be larger) or maybe its just she don't feel at ease with colored people. I know some will say its racist or whatever, but i don't think it is... after all she is the one putting the penis in her mouth.. she can decide what she want or not.

3) This may related to other issues, like behavings and such. Sadly yes, lots of black people have links to street gangs, they can try pimping her, they can be unrespectfull. I know white men can also do that, but i had SPs mention to me on 30 white clients, there could be one that is a jerk, but if on 10 black men, 3 are... they can do the math... They are not a huge part of the population as well, so they don't cut there business too much by not servicing them.

So in the end there is a lot of reasons, but i think they are there reasons and we should respect that.

This may be different cause not racially related, but i also feel sad when i see an add from a very well reviewed and hot indy mention not only she charge 300-400/h , but also require 4 stars hotels and/or require 2 hour booking. Why she does that? To probably filter the low class "pervs", the people who are more incline to give her a hard time or try to deal the rates and such. I am not one of those but even tough i could decide to save my money and afford a 400/h meeting, i have my limits... i don't want to waste 200 more on the hotel room, or be force to book 2H when i am a 1 shot guy mostly. But well what can i say? There decision...

 

[EagerBeaver]

Girls can be funny when it comes to racial restrictions. I one time booked a popular white Indy SP and requested CIM. She told me she only allows that with white clients. No CIM for blacks or Asians. I very much doubt it is behavioral it is just a personal comfort issue. But I was very happy I was a white dude on that day.

Now me personally I like banging black girls and was recently involved in a serious flirtation with a black girl who expressed mutual attraction through a mutual friend. I especially like petite black girls. Montreal is not the best venue for this however. There is actually a better selection here.

 

[BookerL]

Hi all

If we would do there job we would place restrictions too.
They are entitle to have a private life after all .
Its not only color restrictions but also geographic .
Example some girls are well known in a area because she was raised their or she lives their ,has booker you must respect there wishes .
Certain areas of Montreal we avoid because they are none to be highly criminalize or having garbage apartments .
You want the young lady to be safe and anonymous to do so rules and restrictions must apply .


Cheers



Booker

 

[Iron_man]

I don't think the skin color has nothing to do with the services. Of course I have preferences like everyone, but when I am looking to book an appointment with a girl I am more into the voice and the way she express herself on the phone. I do believe it is the same for girl too. Im assuming that a lot of man are being asshole on the phone.

And for Aswert...I used to not be into asians but I found one who suit me. Do the same!

Cheers!

 

[BookerL]

Also, not all Black guys have an accent, some you would think are White on the phone... Could be tricky if the guy decides to show up and confront the girl about her blunt "No Black men" rule...

Hello Mocha
You are right not all black guys have a accent and not all black guys are pimps etc.... .
I had very respectful black guys as clients over the years as I had also very cute young black ladies .
Some white guys can be bad clients, after years of booking ,when you speak to someone you get a certain vib accent or not if he was vulgar or to much of a bargain hunting guy or was in a bad geographic place I did not sent my girls ,safety first .
Escorting must be reasonable to minimize the risk

Cheers



Booker

 

[Halloween Mike]

You put serious point but i would think some providers just don't care, they can make there money with the white customers, and therefore don't care at how they say they prefer not to see Black Men. So they put it straigh and simple, maybe its even on purpose, if it look semi offensive, maybe they are sure the black guys won't call ... I dunno lol

I know a provider once said to me she never dealt with a black man... just didn't happen, and she would not know really what would happen if she would arrive there and realize it on the spot. Would she do it, would she turn around... she herself don't know...

Sometimes there is so much different reasons.

Personally i must confess i want for ages to meet a great black provider. But i am extremely picky on the facial aspect. I want a black girl that look more like a Beyonce/Halle Berry and not too african... I would like her to have at least Cs... And i would like her to be GFE+

Thing is so far i never found one ... so i keep waiting.. My bggest concern is the face, as much as i think some black girls are soooo hot, there are so much that don't do anything for me at all, even having a good body. But i hope one day i will be able to meet the black girl of my dreamz,

I know its different for female providers as they don't choose there clients as much as "pre-screening" but i mean, if im picky when it comes to seeing another "race" maybe they are too so therefore they decided to just elminate the whole thing, simplier and better business wise... I dunno.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I think both Beyoncé's parents are mixed and Halle is mulatto, which explains their more "delicate" features or european look. I myself am mulatto but my Black side is much more dominant then them I find... There's alot of beautiful Black girls with the typical African features, you shouldn't be so picky! And you can't say you went Black if you try a Mixed girl or a Black girl with non-African features!!! You have to go all the way at least once!

Well that is Halloween Mike's preference. Me myself am attracted to girls with typical African features. I am not attracted to girls with Caucasian features at all. But to each their own. BTW I am also very very picky

 

[CLOUD 500]

I think there is a percentage of them that believe every Black men are like all the Bad Black guys they've met before or heard about. NOT ALL Black men are the same... Personally, most of my bad experiences were with Arabs, but I don't put a NO ARABS warning anywhere, because I KNOW (for a fact) NOT ALL of them are as stupid as the ones I've met... This is just ignorance in my opinion, but some people will never be able to understand or put themselves in other people's shoes.

I am with MochaLaMulata on this one. There are too many racial specific prejudices and people seem to follow them. They do not think for themselves. I believe this is a cliche especially in Montreal that most girls seem to think it is okay. It is plain old ignorance. Just like some girls who seem to think all Indians stink or are cheap :nono: This is just plain Bigotry. Yet to this day I never heard of girls refusing to see White clients or have a prejudice about them. As someone else pointed out that majority of the clients are White so they got no choice but to book them otherwise they would not be making much money.

As for a girl that has a Black boyfriend or has alot of Black friends, or for a Black SP... Refusing to see Black customers is totally understandable. The Black community is very small in Montreal, and some people talk alot.

Although I do find this a bit silly. About 9.1% of Montreal's population is Black which equals to 147, 100 which was recorded in 2011. What are the chances you might know someone?

 

[BookerL]

Although I do find this a bit silly. About 9.1% of Montreal's population is Black which equals to 147, 100 which was recorded in 2011. What are the chances you might know someone?

Hi Cloud 500
The probabilities are low but if it does happen you are fucking up your real life .
Just at last week GT met a Indy that 5to minutes away from me in Vancouver ,what are the odds .
I have sent a SP years ago ,she entered the hotel room the client was her dad ,what are the odds ,
That was a real fuck up .
My two bros married identical twin sisters but rare

You minimize the risk the most as possible and if something do happen after you took all necessary precautions well ,that is life with all its surprises .


Cheers



Booker

 

[CLOUD 500]

You minimize the risk the most as possible and if something do happen after you took all necessary precautions well ,that is life with all its surprises .


Cheers



Booker

I guess White SPs with White boyfriends should refuse to see White clients. They will be minimizing the risk :eyebrows:

 

[tiannas]

Once I received a message asking if I saw black men. I answered yes, and received a surprising response. The guy said he would never see a provider who saw black men, and called me a whore!
There are all types in the world I guess, but I find it's quite sad really that attitudes like this exist in this day and age.

 

[BookerL]

I guess White SPs with White boyfriends should refuse to see White clients. They will be minimizing the risk :eyebrows:

Hi Cloud 500

The answer yes !But I will let you guess the why's and circumstance's when it applies !:thumb:


Cheers



Booker

 

[Doc Holliday]

Over the years i've met a few sps who told me they refused black clients. Others said they refused east asians & arabs. The ones who refused blacks always had the same reason: the odd time that they got ripped off by a client, the client always happened to be black. So even though they agreed with me that the majority of black clients were honest, they felt that the end justified the means. And up to that time, they hadn't yet met a client who had ripped them off.

My take on this is that sps have the right to refuse who they want.

 

[EagerBeaver]

My take on this is that sps have the right to refuse who they want.

100% correct, and if you happen to be an unlucky honest black guy suffering from the sins of his brethren, it is a "tough shooshkums" situation. Nothing you can do about it. Just move on.

 

[amanda_001s]

Here also.

He said that I shoudn't sleep with animals, I was very offended, one of my very good friend is African!
He add he wasn't racist, because he was sleeping with black girls, but stated that guys were filthy digusting ruinning all of the montreal lady, turning them into cheap gangsta whore. (Yeah, I made the mistake, to tell him that his comments were rude....)

On the otherside,
I understand why some lady don't want to see black clients. 2/3 of my bad experience were with Haitian guys, stealing from me, trying to pimp me, showing at my door with less than the donation, insulting me, being dominant and slightly violent in bed. But they were all young. With a better screening, I don't have theses problem anymore. But you can be sure, that if you pass the screening, come to my door looking like 50 cents and giving me some ; wazup Babe or Mamie, you are out in 50 seconds top chrono.

On the Other Otherside,
Some of my best clients are African, Afro-American. And they are nice, gentle, kind and perfect partners (over 30 years old)

 

[sexdor]

I will add my perspective :

When an SP says to me, usually in a thick low class Quebecois accent " Je n'aime pas les noirrrrrs" ( I don't like blacks ) It is an immediate turn off for me, I mean I go limp in !/4 of a second flat and can't wait for driver to show up.
A lot of my best friends are black and I couldn't care less, black, white, asian, etc. I either get along with you or I don't.
I am sorry when I hear an SP says "no black men" It is her right and I respect that but I disagree with whitewashing ( pun intended ) everybody in the same boat.

P.S. its no a language thing either, you can just as easily get a Irish girl from The Point saying in a really thick english accent that is hard on the ear saying the exact same thing…the effect is the same.

 

[PopeDover]

You are giving us a bad reputation and ruining everything for us,the non-jackasses black men.
I'm tired of seeing an ad for a super hot woman only to be crushed by that " NO BLACK MEN" warning!

I understand how it sucks that you have to pay a price for other people's garbage, but is everything really being ruined? Are there not enough willing fine ladies around to keep you happy? Or are they not super hot enough? I don't mean to sound insensitive to your frustration with this situation that's obviously and unfortunately a reality, but maybe some perspective would help.

Two apparently willing women already responded in this thread and I know that one of them is hot enough to warrant another s at the end of her name. :eyebrows:

 

[somebodymtl]

Others said they refused east asians

What's wrong with east asians? Any comments?