Average age of hobbyists
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It does not, and this is a borderline silly thread. From the many industry parties I have been to there have been guys from their 20s to 70s, with the highest concentration probably in the 38 to 60 bracket. There is a regular at the parties who is 74 or so, and he is very active.
The youngest guy I saw at a party was probably the notorious and now banned Robertpal, who was around 19 when I met him at a Celine dinner party in 2005. This guy was paying for escorts on Trust or family money, and not his own dime. With the young guys I don't like to see them in the game unless it's their own money that they earned. If you earn it I respect how you spend it. If it is Daddy's money, I do not respect it, and I also think it's probably a fast road to social spoliation.
Every cent I spent in this I earned.
Oliver- very true about young guys really should think twice before getting in the game. My personal belief is that no guys should be allowed in the game until age 35. They should be refused the mythical "membership card" until 35th birthday. In fact many escorts and many girls on SA will not see guys under 35 or 40 due to extreme maturity issues, and it's usually a valid complaint even based on my own younger friends I have brought to Montreal. At a certain point in life guys are forced to check out of the college mentality but for some it takes a LONG time.
I am 46. Many escort said I am about the average age guys they see. Many told me also that it's their prefered age for client. Many told me also that I was their prefered client... Just kidding.... No one as ever said that.
The only true fact is that no one beleive me when I say my age, they all give me 10 years younger. Do they say that to all of you too?
Cheers,
The only true fact is that no one beleive me when I say my age, they all give me 10 years younger. Do they say that to all of you too?
Cheers,
Bahahaha, I have even had an escort say I was in good shape for my age, had a hard time not laughing.
I would be interested, if some ladies are willing to answer, to know their reasons why they prefer older customers. Some mention maturity and such, but concretely what does it change? Is it because younger guys are disrespectful? Is it because they are more physically demanding (multiple services, lots of positions, etc.)? Is it because they've been raised on porn and thus ask nastier things?
There's one reason I've been given that makes complete sense - for a 18-25 year old SP, seeing a 35-40+ old guy decreases the chances there's a RL connection. For SP's who want privacy, I can see that reason completely.
There's all the other aspects, especially with young guys who may (or may not be) vulnerable to getting attached when it's a working relationship, but the privacy / keeping RL separate through age differences makes a ton of sense to me.
This is actually a interesting concept in this industry ,actually most of my girls never bothered to ask if it was earned ,stolen ,inherited ,borrowed ,if the money wasn't counterfeit !Lol
As for age bracket of
Excellent estimate
Cheers
Booker
Maturity level and greater financial security. It means a lot of things, but mainly attitude and civility and manners- younger guys are often seeing escorts/MPs in the context of drunken partying behavior. You should go downtown some time and see what kinds of clients are walking in the door at Montreal Nuru Massage or Kama, for example. Those MPs charge high prices because they are downtown and because of the types of clients they are dealing with. Try and imagine dealing with it, drunken conversation and gropes, etc. Many escorts who work day shifts have told me they do it specifically to avoid the drunken younger clients downtown, partying on game nights before the hockey game.
It's not hard to figure out if you take a walk downtown some time and just look around and observe. Try it sometime. Concentrate your walk on Crescent and on St. Catherine near Crescent. From 11 pm onward into the evening on Friday or Saturday night.
On the financial side, most younger guys are one and done with any one escort, and simply do not have the money to sustain an ongoing arrangement with any one SP. Escorts like regular clients that they are comfortable with, they do not like variety. Some SPs develop a small repeat clientele and then retire, seeing only those steady customers. Why should you think this is somehow different than any other business in which clients who have more money/financial stability are preferred?
2 men walk in a car dealership. 1 is 22 years old and has $50,000 in student loans to pay off and just started his first post college job making $22,000 a year. The other guy is 40 and he is making $80,000 a year working in the financial industry. Who is more likely to get financing with nobody cosigning the loan? It's pretty easy to form a picture here of why the 40 year old client is more desirable. The same works in all other industries as well. This is all pretty basic economics.
Sorry EB, but I disagree too... I started in my early 20s after having had too many of the "I'm not ready yet" and "not before mariage" girlfriends and having blue balls. And, guess what, I don't regret it! Now I know I should have dropped those "not ready" gf way faster, but at 18, I didn't know that...
I agree with John S.Black, young people should not need to see escorts, the availability of girls out there is plentiful for young people. Seeing a SP at a young age will make it harder to find s sole mate in the future as expectations are higher. If you plan to stay single all your life without a family or long term relationships by all means see escorts at a young age. I saw my first escort at 50.
I agree with Solty
Unless you are a sworn bachelor. sex starved or socially handicapped....you shouldn`t see escorts till you are over 35.
Live life first. Date, marry and have kids first.
I didn`t see my first escort till I had my first grand-kid, and had dated dozens of women before and after marriage. To be totally honest I also had a couple of torrid affairs with women in their 20`s near the end of my marriage.
In my opinion the average age of posters on merb is early to mid 40`s.
I had the best sex of my life when I was in my early 60`s.
Unless you are a sworn bachelor. sex starved or socially handicapped....you shouldn`t see escorts till you are over 35.
Live life first. Date, marry and have kids first.
I didn`t see my first escort till I had my first grand-kid, and had dated dozens of women before and after marriage. To be totally honest I also had a couple of torrid affairs with women in their 20`s near the end of my marriage.
In my opinion the average age of posters on merb is early to mid 40`s.
I had the best sex of my life when I was in my early 60`s.
I'm well aware of the kind of customers escorts get to see later in the evening. Drunk and stoned guys. I don't believe this is age related, though. Your other argument is more about money than age, really. I know that, generally, as you get older, your income increases, but again, this isn't specifically age related. I can understand they would want an established clientele, as all businesses. Wouldn't they prefer being with a younger, fit guy, though? A guy they're attracted to?
An escort once told me that she prefered older men because younger guys were into rough sex and took forever to orgasm, which was exhausting for her. None ever talked to me about the money aspect.
THAT'S what I want to hear!! As I rapidly approach that moment in life (tick, tick), I'm still feeling all in, as it were. I laughed at the OP's notion that 60 was the upper-limit.
Rocking at 60! Wouhou, 14 more amazing years to go and I could still be kicking!
The only reason I whish I would have seen an escort in my 20's would have been to learn. I would have use the escort as a teacher on how to do things. I was having sex like a rabbit in my 20's, but my god was I bad! Only at 29 I found a fuckfriend who had the patience to communicate with me how to give pleasure
Cheers,
I also agree with Solty, Ollie, & Cloudy... on principle
but as proposed and discussed by many on other threads; most young men (and resultantly, women) ARE socially handicapped in one way or another by today's dominant social mores, so I'd say the more guys in their 20's see escorts the less of a chance we'll see entire generations of Billy Bibbits.
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