Average age of hobbyists

[613ottawaguy]

What age group do you fall under as hobbyists?

In my opinion, I suspect that most hobbyists would fall between the category of 40 to 60 because that's when men are at peak of their career or have the most money. It would be interesting to see if this would change in the future. Perhaps more and more younger gents will start seeing escorts.. Only time will tell.

Edit: Ok I didn't know this question was already made. Good thing I added a poll to it. It would make it easier if people would vote on poll so we can get a current standing on the data.


And once again I find myself agreeing with Patron.

I think it is narcissistic to take one's own life experience and profile and declare that everyone else should follow it.

I also think it is emotionally unhealthy to consider seeing escorts as some type of failure, and argue that it is better to "fail" in a person's 50s and 60s as opposed to earlier in life.

Commercial sex is a fucking transaction, not some dramatic life choice. If a young guy has the money, see an escort if he wants to. His dick works better in his 20s and 30s than later. There is nothing keeping him from pursuing a girlfriend the day after he sees an escort. And if he has a girlfriend, he learns the skill of not telling her everything and compartmentalizing his life. A lot of guys who started seeing escorts in their 50s wish they had learned that skill earlier.

You guys act like everyone has the exact life experience. In the modern economy, that is much less true than in previous generations. Somewhere out there exists a young medical student who will study more hours than any of us can imagine and put in residency shifts equivalent to three jobs. When he hits his peak earning years, he will get more "civilian" pussy thrown at him than he can handle. I think it is great if he sees escorts while in his 20s. What right do a bunch of guys in the 40-60 year old range have to tell him that they can buy something and he can't? Name something else in the economy where that happens?

I would add that in my opinion, the younger guys shouldn't indulge too much in escorts and keep relying on it because it could lead him to a bad habit. In his younger age, he should explore himself more and be open to other possibilities. A relationship with a girlfriend can be very rewarding as well. What is life but full of experiences?

 

[EagerBeaver]

In retrospect I would say the 40s are the peak or prime years because you are not too young and not too old.

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

Started hobbying at age 23, after graduating college and getting a full-time job that provided some disposable income. Did so for about 4-5 years before getting married and then stopped completely for 24 years until my marriage fell apart. Just got back into the game a couple years ago. I’m 54 and anticipate doing this for the rest of my life. 1) Have no desire to enter into another relationship and get bent over a table again. 2) I’m not attracted to women my age (or close to it), with few exceptions.
Looking back, the hobby provided me valuable experience and increased my skills, which came in handy during my marriage. Was fortunate not to catch anything but I practiced safe — HJs in AMPs, safe FS (no anal) but lots of BBBJ with SPs. Also fortunate not to get caught by LE, which continues to be a concern in U.S.

 

[Numerati]

43.

I started this hobby at 27 a week shy of 28. Was pretty active until I was around 34. Getting that banging hot girls out of my system was liberating. My last year of active hobbying was seeing porn stars in Vegas and that pretty much ended my hobbying journey. Didn’t return once more until I was 39 and that was pretty much it for me. In between those five years hiatus I was just doing regular civie dating/relationships.

Wanted to continue on from my return at age 39 but met a girl at my gym and we dated for about a year and a half. Then we got married and my first kid is going to be arriving this September.

 

[Fradi]

The right age is when it makes you happy.

I am in my 60s, had quite a few gorgeous girlfriends in my late teens early twenties, then was married to the love of my life for a very long time until she passed away.
I was always lucky with women, never had issues attracting them or having longer relationships in spite of being a relatively shy person.
i started seeing the most gorgeous and kindest SP I could ever wish to know last October and have been seeing her ever since.
I see others also but will never stop seeing this amazing woman.

I don’t think there is a right or wrong age to see an SP, we all have different reasons, but most of all if it feels good and makes you happy then it is nobody else’s business what you do.

 

[613ottawaguy]

Ok who's the only guy seeing SPs at over 100? :yo:

 

[Anong]

I have to wait a bit more then 40 years to do that (over 100)