First off I am not going to insult, put anyone on the spot, say bad comments etc, like last time, but bare with me I am really confused now.
I consider myself a middle age man at 52, I lost some weight and my physique is changing, smaller waist size, shoulder or broad, and i lost of fat on the face and double chin that was building up.
Today before work I went to Pharma Prix near my job, around 6pm, i was alone walking to the cashier, 2 women were there the cashier and the girl who worked at the makeup in front, both gave me a look and i heard one of them say he as beautiful eyes.
I froze, almost turn red (heu what who me) and looked around to make sure that remark was for me. Then the girl working at the makeup left and gave me a big smile. Even more confused.
When younger i got those compliments a lot I have blue eyes that sort of stick out, and back then I had what women said a great butt LOL. But now i am 52 ? a lot older i stop the hair dye like 2-3 years ago, so I have touches of grey and my natural brown is almost gone, of course i am tall.
Both of those women were beautiful in my eyes, and a lot better than the women I went on date when i was online dating or the people who insulted me. They were young women pretty sure not older than 25 so needless to say way to young for me but i got a boost of confidence from this.
Now i am puzzled how this rating thing goes how women view men and why most of the time the below average women are the ones being mean and pass harmful comments on your looks etc.
There is a women at my job who since she quite smoking ballooned up she must have gained like 70 pounds and she was on my case a lot before I lost some of the weight (no my journey is not over I still have lots of weight to lose but getting there), that women told me I was obese and that at my age I would never lose the weight, and the other day she had the guts to ask me how I did it LOL.
I am just having a hard time processing and understanding all this, sorry guys another one of those post I know, but still.
I consider myself a middle age man at 52, I lost some weight and my physique is changing, smaller waist size, shoulder or broad, and i lost of fat on the face and double chin that was building up.
Today before work I went to Pharma Prix near my job, around 6pm, i was alone walking to the cashier, 2 women were there the cashier and the girl who worked at the makeup in front, both gave me a look and i heard one of them say he as beautiful eyes.
I froze, almost turn red (heu what who me) and looked around to make sure that remark was for me. Then the girl working at the makeup left and gave me a big smile. Even more confused.
When younger i got those compliments a lot I have blue eyes that sort of stick out, and back then I had what women said a great butt LOL. But now i am 52 ? a lot older i stop the hair dye like 2-3 years ago, so I have touches of grey and my natural brown is almost gone, of course i am tall.
Both of those women were beautiful in my eyes, and a lot better than the women I went on date when i was online dating or the people who insulted me. They were young women pretty sure not older than 25 so needless to say way to young for me but i got a boost of confidence from this.
Now i am puzzled how this rating thing goes how women view men and why most of the time the below average women are the ones being mean and pass harmful comments on your looks etc.
There is a women at my job who since she quite smoking ballooned up she must have gained like 70 pounds and she was on my case a lot before I lost some of the weight (no my journey is not over I still have lots of weight to lose but getting there), that women told me I was obese and that at my age I would never lose the weight, and the other day she had the guts to ask me how I did it LOL.
I am just having a hard time processing and understanding all this, sorry guys another one of those post I know, but still.