Beauty in the eye of the beholder, the rating system and confusion

[Julia Sky]

And yet you comment on everything he does, might be seeking attention to yourself. Pathetic if you ask me. I go on boards and reddit commenting on post, I see a post i am not interested in I just ignore it but so many people cant seem to do that, they have no life or a boring life and need to put people down. To feel good about themselves.

I read van post some are exaggerated but he seems to have been through a lot, and from the looks of it, lots of people on here give him a hard time for it, I feel like when someone is down and people on her gang up on that person and kick him again while he is down. Well its society today and guess you can't ask for too much.

After all who likes to be called ugly, insulted out of nowhere and more. Honest and since we are men we are suppose to take the insults and man up this is a joke.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, some SP who post there stuff are not attractive to me at all, but I have a right too

Well, this is a public forum and he posts on it for replies so me replying is not that far fetched lol.

This isn't reddit this is the Montreal escort review board and of course we can talk about a bunch of stuff on here but there's a difference between discussing and repeatedly trauma dumping on an escort review board, this isn't a therapist's office is all I'm saying and I'm not sure what he wants out of having the same discussion over and over and over again every time he logs on here. The responses are always very similar.

And let's not act like he didn't repeatedly insult people himself, on here and elsewhere.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

And yet you comment on everything he does, might be seeking attention to yourself. Pathetic if you ask me. I go on boards and reddit commenting on post, I see a post i am not interested in I just ignore it but so many people cant seem to do that, they have no life or a boring life and need to put people down. To feel good about themselves.

I read van post some are exaggerated but he seems to have been through a lot, and from the looks of it, lots of people on here give him a hard time for it, I feel like when someone is down and people on her gang up on that person and kick him again while he is down. Well its society today and guess you can't ask for too much.

After all who likes to be called ugly, insulted out of nowhere and more. Honest and since we are men we are suppose to take the insults and man up this is a joke.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, some SP who post there stuff are not attractive to me at all, but I have a right too

I honestly understand Julia's comment, not because I don't empathize with vanhamm's post, because I really do.. I just don't know if merb is a safe space to obtain this type of support and neither is reddit. when you're in a state of emotional distress like this you need a real supportive community around you and trained professionals, there are many free resources in montreal available for that and healthier communities to ask support from..

 

[MaxxxEdge]

I guess you need glasses to read because this is not the same post i read, the dude is training hard and losing weight for health purpose, if you were bullied all your life and did nothing about it that makes you a coward, and maybe you should stop giving advise I never did train in a gym but from the looks of it Van knows a lot more than you do.

Maybe restrain from long post and giving advise when you clearly need to sort out your life first.

I do wear glasses, and my prescription is current, thank you. And my reading comprehension is also fine, thank you. Perhaps it is you that needs to work on yours. When someone talks about the satisfaction of hurting (mentally or physically) those who have hurt him in the past, that's a flag. Martial arts, especially when you are highly skilled, should be for self-defense or self-discipline, not getting back at those who hurt you in the past. Coward? I could likely hurt anyone who bullied me in the past, even people, twice my size. (careful to make any assumptions based on a stranger's words). That doesn't make it right nor justified. Do they deserve it? Perhaps. But that doesn't make me the victor. Rather it makes ME the coward I say what I say, because I walk the walk. Do you?

I have nothing to prove, but since you are so keen on making assumptions about me, as a member of the (well north of) 1,000-lb club (at 185 lbs.) who can run 10K without much difficulty and rarely more than 10% body fat, I kinda know what I'm talking about. Growing up short and scrawny and at one point being short and fat, I'm more aware of the struggle than most. Just because I didn't chronicle my journey doesn't mean I have a leg to stand on. But I do know a good excuse when I hear one. I'm a former expert. Thanks for your opinion, White Knight.

 

[MaxxxEdge]

Well, this is a public forum and he posts on it for replies so me replying is not that far fetched lol.

This isn't reddit this is the Montreal escort review board and of course we can talk about a bunch of stuff on here but there's a difference between discussing and repeatedly trauma dumping on an escort review board, this isn't a therapist's office is all I'm saying and I'm not sure what he wants out of having the same discussion over and over and over again every time he logs on here. The responses are always very similar.

And let's not act like he didn't repeatedly insult people himself, on here and elsewhere.

You are the same Julia I used to correspond with before I disappeared (MY BAD, sorry!), non? If so, we have some unfinished business, I believe

Prepare to be disappointed though. I no longer have the Dad Bod for which you indicated a preference in another post..