Best pick up clubs or places in Montreal

[Obvio-0bvio]

Hey there …I m here could you help me with the best strip club to visit

Undoubtedly, if I had to choose a strip club, Chez Parée would be my top pick, my friend.

 

[Jericho_2021]

@Obvio-0bvio - Just want to thank you for your suggestions: we (my friend and I) tried and enjoyed New City Gas. You really know the nightlife scene of Montreal.
Question for you: I did not try it yet but I saw a place in the Vieux port called Boa Vida Yacht club (Quai Jacques Quartier). Do you know this place? If you know it, what is your general opinion about it ?

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

@Obvio-0bvio - Just want to thank you for your suggestions: we (my friend and I) tried and enjoyed New City Gas. You really know the nightlife scene of Montreal.
Question for you: I did not try it yet but I saw a place in the Vieux port called Boa Vida Yacht club (Quai Jacques Quartier). Do you know this place? If you know it, what is your general opinion about it ?

I appreciate your kind remarks.Boa Vida Yacht club is highly lively on Sunday’s In the Quai of Montreal . The event is a daytime party. It's highly recommended that you give it a shot. My description of the setting would be a blend of a rooftop daytime party spot and an 5-7 Cathcart party gathering. Anticipate a bustling crowd of glamour individuals on a gorgeous, scorching summer day. It would be highly advisable for you to experience that place during the day.

 

[treesx]

I'd say it takes less than 3 dates to get sex with online dating.
I think I'm probably not unattractive cuz I have women hitting on me a few times a year? But when you were born in eastern Asia in the 80s and raised by tough Asian parents, you are just super self conscious and have low self esteem. Also culturally there is a concept of "not bothering other/not to bring troubles to other". And it bothers me a LOOOOOT when telling someone I'm not intereted. So I'm super scared of being rejected because of self consciousness and low self esteem, and I don't want others feel bothered when rejecting me. I know people don't really give a shit it's only in my head, but I just can't get over it.
Dating app helps because if a girl is not interested all at, then there wont be a match. And that unloads a huge part of the burden I mentioned. And tbh I almost always end up sleeping with the ones I like. But I think it's becoming a problem now. I'm almost swiping on them everyday conpusively because it's almost a habit at this point since I've been on them for so long, and because of the idea of "next one may be a match".
I've had 1 long term relationship and I'm not against the idea of having one. There were a few girls I really liked and was interested in having a long term relationship, but as soon as I show some affection, the girls just ran away.
Friends of friends just never worked for me. I guess my friends' friends arent really my type lol.
Thanks a lot for reading my rant. I really appreciate the support

Hi there what app are you using ? I have them all and have zéro success. Like zéro. I'm Asian too, not bad looking just getting old but dont look my age and in shape. I may need to rewrite my intro or feed it to chatgpt lol

 

[tonylau]

Hi there what app are you using ? I have them all and have zéro success. Like zéro. I'm Asian too, not bad looking just getting old but dont look my age and in shape. I may need to rewrite my intro or feed it to chatgpt lol

all of them. FB dating and Hinge have the highest success rate though. Then Tinder, bumble, OKCupid

 

[neverbored]

I'm Asian too, not bad looking just getting old but dont look my age and in shape. I may need to rewrite my intro or feed it to chatgpt lol

Without sounding hurtful, you know that most women in North America aren't attracted by Asians? If you rate yourself a 6-7, they are probably rating you a 2-3 (sorry man). Are there some sure, just probably kinda like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Also, don't know what age group you're looking at, but most girls aren't really looking at guys more than 5-10 years max. Again, are there some? Sure, but think of all the older dudes that might have an advantage over you... that haystack may be much larger than you think.

I don't know about you, but most of my female friends are 35+ and most of them would never waste their time on an app. The few I know of that do, you wouldn't want to meet (unless you enjoy excess baggage). I'll always suggest to go out and do things, mingle without the intention of "picking up" as it will make you look more confident and you have a greater chance of actually "picking up".

Just my 2 cents

 

[tonylau]

Without sounding hurtful, you know that most women in North America aren't attracted by Asians? If you rate yourself a 6-7, they are probably rating you a 2-3 (sorry man). Are there some sure, just probably kinda like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Also, don't know what age group you're looking at, but most girls aren't really looking at guys more than 5-10 years max. Again, are there some? Sure, but think of all the older dudes that might have an advantage over you... that haystack may be much larger than you think.

I don't know about you, but most of my female friends are 35+ and most of them would never waste their time on an app. The few I know of that do, you wouldn't want to meet (unless you enjoy excess baggage). I'll always suggest to go out and do things, mingle without the intention of "picking up" as it will make you look more confident and you have a greater chance of actually "picking up".

Just my 2 cents

What you said is absolutely true for older women(35+). For the younger generation, it's still not great but a lot better due to the influence of Kpop, Japanese Anime, Marvel Shangqi and other random anti racism shit. I'm 33 so I mainly date girls under 30, a few of them are actually really into Asian guys.

 

[neverbored]

What you said is absolutely true for older women(35+). For the younger generation, it's still not great but a lot better due to the influence of Kpop, Japanese Anime, Marvel Shangqi and other random anti racism shit. I'm 33 so I mainly date girls under 30, a few of them are actually really into Asian guys.

Of course, there are some, now ask them if they would date a 45 year old + asian dude that doesn't fit the mentionned style of asians (kpop etc). I'm sorry, unless they are really above average in height, looks , style or $, most Asians, Indians, Pakistani, are pretty much at the exact opposite in terms of desirability compared to their female counterparts and are literally SOL. Not saying there isn't a chance... just expanding as to why dating apps won't work for most of them. Its about the same as a really cute white guy but stands 5'2"... possible but won't be a panty dropper.

 

[tonylau]

Of course, there are some, now ask them if they would date a 45 year old + asian dude that doesn't fit the mentionned style of asians (kpop etc). I'm sorry, unless they are really above average in height, looks , style or $, most Asians, Indians, Pakistani, are pretty much at the exact opposite in terms of desirability compared to their female counterparts and are literally SOL. Not saying there isn't a chance... just expanding as to why dating apps won't work for most of them. Its about the same as a really cute white guy but stands 5'2"... possible but won't be a panty dropper.

Yeah you are right. I'd say eastern Asians are actually getting popular. The rest not so much. Sad truth.

 

[neverbored]

Yeah you are right. I'd say eastern Asians are actually getting popular. The rest not so much. Sad truth.

Really sad. I know a few awesome, good looking asian guys that have to go way above their comfort zones just to get noticed. Its awkward as shit to watch.

 

[vanhamm]

When i was 25 i had a beach body longer hair and i look quite good, pick up happen everywhere and lots of time i got approach, but now at 51 gained weight hair thinned i guess i am on the other side of the fence.

The thing is most clubs i used to go to are now closed, but still baton rouge, belle et boeuf in Anjou i picked up a waitress there at 44 she was 23, and la cage is great too.

 

[treesx]

Without sounding hurtful, you know that most women in North America aren't attracted by Asians? If you rate yourself a 6-7, they are probably rating you a 2-3 (sorry man). Are there some sure, just probably kinda like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Also, don't know what age group you're looking at, but most girls aren't really looking at guys more than 5-10 years max. Again, are there some? Sure, but think of all the older dudes that might have an advantage over you... that haystack may be much larger than you think.

I don't know about you, but most of my female friends are 35+ and most of them would never waste their time on an app. The few I know of that do, you wouldn't want to meet (unless you enjoy excess baggage). I'll always suggest to go out and do things, mingle without the intention of "picking up" as it will make you look more confident and you have a greater chance of actually "picking up".

Just my 2 cents

No offence taken no worries. Totally aware of that.
Even if I'm really not bad as an Asian, I'm 40 + , but in décent shape. I get it that apps won't work for me. Just wanted it to see if it was me or anything else since my fellow brother seemed to have some success where i failed miserably.
But the key différence is age as he's 10 years younger than me. I rest my case. Its me and in person it'll have to be. Working on it.
Back to topic. Where to meet in person.
Have done meetups with mild success.
Thanks guys

 

[believe]

Whatever money talks better than age or apperances !lol at any bar ..

 

[tonylau]

No offence taken no worries. Totally aware of that.
Even if I'm really not bad as an Asian, I'm 40 + , but in décent shape. I get it that apps won't work for me. Just wanted it to see if it was me or anything else since my fellow brother seemed to have some success where i failed miserably.
But the key différence is age as he's 10 years younger than me. I rest my case. Its me and in person it'll have to be. Working on it.
Back to topic. Where to meet in person.
Have done meetups with mild success.
Thanks guys

I know a guy, eastern Asian, a bit more than 10 years older than me but looks my age(I already look younger than my age but we Asians simply don't age haha), works in the sports industry and in great shape, pretty rich and successful. He uses bumble exclusively and gets a decent amount of matches. So maybe go to reddit to look for tips for dating app profiles, and you'll have your luck. But again, if you can do both dating apps AND in person, that's even better right?

 

[AlmostMidaged]

I’ve been looking for serious GF since Febuary. Went on 3 whole dates with 3 different women, and got 2 numbers that never tuned into anything. Shit is ridiculous discouraging. I’m planning to sign up for a recreational class or 2, and go to some events. I feel like summer will be better…

 

[baron89]

using Tinder to get laid is like playing Elden Ring upside down with a steering wheel controller.

 

[Ouaisoki]

It doesn't have much to do with age.
Much younger guy here, decent looking, in above average shape.

However, one of my best friends is a 9+ super chad on the level of Chris Bumstead. For him the answer to "best pick up clubs or places in Montreal" is "basically everywhere". It's honestly annoying/frustrating to go anywhere with him. As an Asian looking guy, if an Asian girl wants to talk to me it's usually just to see if I can introduce her to my friend. Girls of other ethnicities mostly ignore me entirely, unless we're in some sort of group conversation for some reason. Yes, there are some girls that are influenced by anime and such and into Asian guys, but those are rare and usually some kind of weirdo. My theory is that most of the attractive girls (not just Asian, but especially Asian) have been ruined by porn and OnlyFans where you're seeing more and more super jacked white guys with huge dicks banging Asian hotties. Now this is all they fantasize about, because of FOMO and because hooking up with that kind of guy is how they show off to their friends. For example, if a guy has a particularly big one, they might ask to take a picture of it next to their forearm for size comparison so they can send it to their friends. Not that this happened to me, or could happen to me, but let's say I've seen the evidence.

Anyway. This is Montreal where meeting an escort is only a few text messages away, so who cares.

All of that said, one of the places I haven't seen mentioned here is Bord'Elle, surprisingly... because the name kind of gives it away. SP/MP/SB hookup hotspot if you have the looks and social skills.

I don't think it's because of porn & onlyfans.
The current beauty standard is set to western values - High Bridge nose, sharp jaw, round shaped eye, tall etc.
Well that's not what Asians have.

But as @Tony mentioned, it is changing with Asian pop culture & you can see more and more interracial couples with Asian male & non-Asian female (vs. White Male & Asian female - love u long time)
Everytime, I talk to girls and why they don't date Asians.
They will either mention the "beauty standard" or that actually they think that Asians are not interested in them because they don't get approached by Asians.

So yeah go out there and just chat.

 

[rando555]

It doesn't have much to do with age.
Much younger guy here, decent looking, in above average shape.

However, one of my best friends is a 9+ super chad on the level of Chris Bumstead. For him the answer to "best pick up clubs or places in Montreal" is "basically everywhere". It's honestly annoying/frustrating to go anywhere with him. As an Asian looking guy, if an Asian girl wants to talk to me it's usually just to see if I can introduce her to my friend. Girls of other ethnicities mostly ignore me entirely, unless we're in some sort of group conversation for some reason. Yes, there are some girls that are influenced by anime and such and into Asian guys, but those are rare and usually some kind of weirdo. My theory is that most of the attractive girls (not just Asian, but especially Asian) have been ruined by porn and OnlyFans where you're seeing more and more super jacked white guys with huge dicks banging Asian hotties. Now this is all they fantasize about, because of FOMO and because hooking up with that kind of guy is how they show off to their friends. For example, if a guy has a particularly big one, they might ask to take a picture of it next to their forearm for size comparison so they can send it to their friends. Not that this happened to me, or could happen to me, but let's say I've seen the evidence.

Anyway. This is Montreal where meeting an escort is only a few text messages away, so who cares.

All of that said, one of the places I haven't seen mentioned here is Bord'Elle, surprisingly... because the name kind of gives it away. SP/MP/SB hookup hotspot if you have the looks and social skills.

I think it depends a ton on your geographical area as well in the US

There are places where I feel like a second class citizen (deep down south or areas with mostly first gen / some second gen asians) and places where I feel the exact same as anyone else.

My white friends that are maybe 9/10+ faces (legit model types) bang maybe more girls than me but they all admitted that I bang way hotter chicks than them when I do so it's kind of amusing we were both jealous of each other at times.

Anyways going back to the topic, the more introverted SPs I met mentioned that they like to use Tinder instead of clubbing or going to bars

 

[manfred]

guys hello everyone! I'm recently in Montreal. I wanted to ask you to recommend me dating sites that work with real people and actually work. thank you in advance

 

[bodick7]

When i was 25 i had a beach body longer hair and i look quite good, pick up happen everywhere and lots of time i got approach, but now at 51 gained weight hair thinned i guess i am on the other side of the fence.

I was not attractive at 25 and now at 58, I noticed I can make turn some female heads on beach for good reasons…a late bloomer?…