Ok i usually respond in a much calmer way but let me just say there are so many things wrong that I'm at a loss as to where to start.
Sorry for being so direct but the content of the first post is can only be described as gross.
This is particularly deplorable as far as I'm concerned:
I fear this may be a harbinger of things to come.
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seriously, did you just write about your fear of a fat escort invasion?) I'm torn between disgust, anger and uncontrollable laughter at the absurdity. Haven't quite decided. What I do know is that it is not a good look, my friend. Not a good look at all.
And he did it without denigrating anyone's taste or appearance.
I beg to differ. He most certainly did denigrate. Just because he didn't announce hey I'm denigrating. It did not even require reading between the lines to get it. I'm sincerely envious of you for not detecting it but there's no ambiguity about what he was implying.
He knows it's denigrating because he tried to hide it. He knew that coming out and saying exactly what he wanted to say would make him look bad so he tried to pass it off in a more palatable way.
Anyone can say whatever they want, definitely. But others are equally entitled to call him (and others) out on it. And if there was ever a case where someone needs to be called out, this is it.
Not your type? Totally respect that! So... move on and go on with your day? Why write a whole thing about it? Are you completely unaware that a significant number of men actually do not have the same preferences? What is the value of posting a thread about your judgemental views that serves to shame others?
It's a real question. What is the value of this thread? What purpose does it serve? The pretense that this is a question about supply and demand is so asinine. So what motivates someone to write this stuff and pretend it's harmless curiosity about supply and demand?
Not impressed.
This is the stuff that make this board a lurker board. People get completely turned off by these exact kind of threads.
Anyway, Now I will collect my thoughts and return with at least some of the many reasons this is so gross If I can find a polite way to say it.. Otherwise, I'll just keep it to myself. Something that is clearly underrated on the internets. Clearly.
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People should care more about what they send out into the world. Is it going to bring people up or is it going to bring people down? If it's going to bring people up, do it. If it's going to bring others down, don't. But if you choose to do it, why exactly are you doing it? Is it bringing you up when others are down?
What kind of effect do you want to have on others?
If you don't care or enjoy bringing others down, you're not someone I want to know or want around me. On second thought I think I'm actually done with this thread.
Have a great day everyone.
Ps: It should go without saying but if your preferences and mentality align with the OP, and being unnecessarily judgmental is something you enjoy doing, let's both be honest and acknowledge that I am not the girl for you. Only Kind people need apply. Life's too short, loves. xo