True. But as I said it was the lady not me. So if someone is initiating why not use it.I won’t do this kind of thing with a Sp without seeing her several times. With indy, could be more possible when i become her regular . The trust is there..! Otherwise, you could be crushed up big time !
This kind of says it all. You fell in love with the possibility of having a normal relationship with a SP that you had great chemistry with.True the xxx was amazing one of the best ones in my lifetime. It was like being with your Gf. I booked for 1 hr but went in 15 min early so it was almost 1.15hrs. I told her that I showered just before arrival so she was ok. We didn’t stop in the middle just kept going. She didn’t check the clock so when she took her phone to change a song she found that we only had 1 min but she was cool and didn’t rush despite having another client. My lips and tongue were totally sore. It was a crazy experience.
She knows everything she was the one who pushed for a night out. I planned it after discussing with her.This kind of says it all. You fell in love with the possibility of having a normal relationship with a SP that you had great chemistry with.
While you can argue that the SP ghosted you and wasn't transparent, I'm not sure I would say she did anything wrong necessarily since it's unclear how much she was in the know that you were getting all this extra stuff set up like a cruise or gifts etc.
It sounds like she definitely took advantage of your eagerness, but in this line of hobby you need to be more cautious, its not like you've known this person much let alone even been a regular with her.
Jumping on hopes and shifting them to expectations while also putting out of pocket expenses says a lot about how intent you were on getting something out of this SP, I probably would've ghosted just off the concern this person I've met once is so attached and may get the wrong idea even if everything goes perfectly.
Just take the lesson and move on. You weren't cheated and there's no lesson for anybody to take her imo unless they are brand new to the hobby