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theyellowman

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I won’t do this kind of thing with a Sp without seeing her several times. With indy, could be more possible when i become her regular . The trust is there..! Otherwise, you could be crushed up big time !
 
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Pussyboy

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I won’t do this kind of thing with a Sp without seeing her several times. With indy, could be more possible when i become her regular . The trust is there..! Otherwise, you could be crushed up big time !
True. But as I said it was the lady not me. So if someone is initiating why not use it.
 

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True the xxx was amazing one of the best ones in my lifetime. It was like being with your Gf. I booked for 1 hr but went in 15 min early so it was almost 1.15hrs. I told her that I showered just before arrival so she was ok. We didn’t stop in the middle just kept going. She didn’t check the clock so when she took her phone to change a song she found that we only had 1 min but she was cool and didn’t rush despite having another client. My lips and tongue were totally sore. It was a crazy experience.
 

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True the xxx was amazing one of the best ones in my lifetime. It was like being with your Gf. I booked for 1 hr but went in 15 min early so it was almost 1.15hrs. I told her that I showered just before arrival so she was ok. We didn’t stop in the middle just kept going. She didn’t check the clock so when she took her phone to change a song she found that we only had 1 min but she was cool and didn’t rush despite having another client. My lips and tongue were totally sore. It was a crazy experience.
This kind of says it all. You fell in love with the possibility of having a normal relationship with a SP that you had great chemistry with.
While you can argue that the SP ghosted you and wasn't transparent, I'm not sure I would say she did anything wrong necessarily since it's unclear how much she was in the know that you were getting all this extra stuff set up like a cruise or gifts etc.

It sounds like she definitely took advantage of your eagerness, but in this line of hobby you need to be more cautious, its not like you've known this person much let alone even been a regular with her.

Jumping on hopes and shifting them to expectations while also putting out of pocket expenses says a lot about how intent you were on getting something out of this SP, I probably would've ghosted just off the concern this person I've met once is so attached and may get the wrong idea even if everything goes perfectly.

Just take the lesson and move on. You weren't cheated and there's no lesson for anybody to take her imo unless they are brand new to the hobby
 
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transatlantic

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Sounds like she is pretty talented at providing GFE. There are providers who provide a GFE and then there are a rare few who provide a great GFE. These are the ones who, while you may be fucking her pussy, she’s fucking with your mind in return (and all this is in your head).

The lesson here is even if she is the later type of talent she didn’t cheat you. You forgot the first rule that no matter how real it appears, this whole GFE is still fiction.
 

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This kind of says it all. You fell in love with the possibility of having a normal relationship with a SP that you had great chemistry with.
While you can argue that the SP ghosted you and wasn't transparent, I'm not sure I would say she did anything wrong necessarily since it's unclear how much she was in the know that you were getting all this extra stuff set up like a cruise or gifts etc.

It sounds like she definitely took advantage of your eagerness, but in this line of hobby you need to be more cautious, its not like you've known this person much let alone even been a regular with her.

Jumping on hopes and shifting them to expectations while also putting out of pocket expenses says a lot about how intent you were on getting something out of this SP, I probably would've ghosted just off the concern this person I've met once is so attached and may get the wrong idea even if everything goes perfectly.

Just take the lesson and move on. You weren't cheated and there's no lesson for anybody to take her imo unless they are brand new to the hobby
She knows everything she was the one who pushed for a night out. I planned it after discussing with her.
 

Perverted

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Don’t feel bad bro this shit happens all the time with Sps and even regular girls. Women fuck with men because they can and vice versa.
 

Man911

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If I understand, you're from Toronto.
Mtl to Toronto is at least 5.5h drive.
When she told you, she would be there in 20 minutes. Did you ask her is she coming by herself? Or driving with friend?
I think she play with you and was never there at Toronto.
 
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kstanb

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Unless you booked a FMTY or a TMTY (fly me to you, train me to you) and rates, timing, everything was coordinated in advance, she is not at fault. FMTY are quite expensive but they kind of guarantee a good time as everything is negotiated beforehand and she is making a lot of money to make it worth for her

If she visited the city on her own dime, then it is her decision to choose how she wanted to spend her time. It is the same in the "civilian" market; sometime you plan the best date and the lady simply says "no thanks"

My advice is to avoid these kind of long session scenarios, unless you know her from several previous dates, go step by step, first book a couple hours, next an overnight, only after a while go full expensive stuff like a boat. And/ or book FMTY from well known, experienced independent providers.
 

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Ahem okay....

This thread. The OP. The subject matter. This goes beyond about being "ripped off" by an SP.

This is what happens when there is a lack of female presence in your life. A huge void mind you. This hobby and the SP are not substitutes and replacements for the real thing. This is a fantasy and a temporary vehicle to fill in that gap when you can't find anything worthwhile for the long term with the female species. This hobby will surely help you knock out the urge for hot chics out of your system and getting rid of that desperation people can see a mile away. Don't go trying to look for a real relationship in any shape or form in here. If you come into this kind of situation try to avoid at all cost. This is strictly pay 2 play nothing more noting less.

Well there is a pandemic now so things are kind of iffy and tricky. Yet once this is over go out and meet people and take a class where the female to male ratio is high. Learn how to converse with women without the intention in trying to bang them lol. Everything will fall into place. Just takes practice and this is just like any other skill.
 
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Cubbie

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This thread should be titled "From Montreal With Love (At Your Own Risk)". LOL.

I feel for OP. I really do. We've all gone through different stages in this hobby, and one needs to consider our physical age and general life experience as well.

I certainly have fallen for SPs in the past, especially in the early days. Been lucky that I wasn't hurt (financially or emotionally) by much. The worst instance being going on a dinner date (initiated by her) and having it abruptly canceled while I was on my way to pick her up.

It's all part of the "maturing" process. I'm sure OP is now a bit wiser thanks to this experience.

Gotta admit though, since hobbying is a fantasy, then wouldn't that make meeting a great SP with whom you have a fantastic rapport, which blossoms into an intimate relationship off the clock - the ultimate fantasy come true?

No matter how short this illicit flame lasts, surely that would give any mortal man a huge boost in ego and confidence, plus memories to last a lifetime.

Of course, the reality being this doesn't happen 99.99% of the time, as OP, and many others including myself, have learned the hard way.

But still, life is more interesting when you leave all options open.

And having a "glass is 0.01% full" mentality makes this hobby that much more exciting, at least for me.

Here's to an awesome 2022, all you horndogs!
 
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Flyingby

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Gotta admit though, since hobbying is a fantasy, then wouldn't that make meeting a great SP with whom you have a fantastic rapport, which blossoms into an intimate relationship off the clock - the ultimate fantasy come true?
really? I am pretty sure the honeymoon phase dies out pretty quickly when a relationship started based on a transaction.
then it’s just like any other relationship…
 

Julia Sky

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...told me she’s walking around and don’t like Toronto and might be leaving I got shocked. Told her she’ll be happy and wait. Once I got ready and toluene my car on, I asked for location that’s when she said, she left Toronto and will meet me in Montreal.

So you dismissed her saying she was gonna leave, then feel "emotionally cheated" because she did exactly what she said she would do. Charming.

That's on you. Also she probably expected you to pay for her time. You say "I saw the clues" but the clues weren't the ones you thought. She said something about visiting Toronto, so you thought you saw a clue and said you'd love to meet her there. In turn, she thought she saw a clue for a booking and rolled with it until she realized you didn't intend on paying her.

To end this gracefully,

Nobody is impressed by a 10$ tip.