Cheated by Montreal sp

[Pussyboy]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

 

[testingsite]

^^^ If you are here to give us an alert about this SP, then you need to tell us the name of the girl. Right?

 

[bodick7]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

Things could be worst. Don’t focus on what you lost but on what you have.

 

[djlucky7]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.

Sry buddy - she wasnt impressed. I feel bad for you because no-one deserves to be scamed but you got to tell us the name of the SP if you wanna start a threat like this one so you can help the community.

 

[milhouse73]

I don't see the scam here, she changed her mind, simple as that. Lesson to be learned, don't go prebooking a whole bunch of events with a girl you barely know, working girl or not.

 

[Anna Bijou]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

What was the purpose of her visit? Was she there to work? If so, she might have been spooked by the expectations you had? Were you planning to pay for her time? If she was visiting Toronto for work, then you making all these plans and expecting to stay in the same accommodations probably didn't work for her. It would kind of make it impossible for her to actually work. I don't know her but it's possible that maybe you had the wrong impression.

 

[Albacor]

Sorry to hear that pal, lesson to learn here: an SP is still an SP, she's not ur GF. They dont cross the line.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

Anna Bijou said it well and she was polite but I will be blunt. There was no scam from what I read. You said you would like to meet her. But in what context? Was she going there to work? To visit for pleasure? But you acted desperate. Women can smell a desperate man from a mile away. I dunno how you talked to her or texted her but I am sure she smelled desperation. Your sentence tells all "We were in touch during the entire week". Think about it, you saw this girl once and all of a sudden you made all these plans. You jumped to expecting her to be your GF. She did the best possible thing and that was to ghost you. It was the easiest method to avoid a confrontation with you. This thread is useless. It is nothing more then a self-loathing sympathy seeking thread.

 

[IamNY]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

Funny, I thought this thread was about the extra $10 you gave her because you didn't have change.

 

[Numerati]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

Ya too quick there. Something like this happens like after four or five meetings and two of them are dinner engagements or something. Things tend to happen faster in the world of Pay 2 Play but what you are doing is just too FAST. You have to develop some sort of trust between you and whatever SP you see.

See this as a lesson. Don't rush things.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

Last week. During my last day of Montreal trip I had an appointment with one of the sp’s at an agency. I gave $10 more than the regular price as I wasn’t able to get a change. She was impressed.
We clicked well and had an amazing session. She told me she is visiting Toronto and doesn’t know anyone but would like to see the city. I saw the clues and told I would like to meet her. She was happy and before leaving gave her number and asked me to text. We were in touch during the entire week things were great. I booked cruise party, lunch, bought gifts. We planned to stay together at an Airbnb.
Everything was ok until last night. She was exited to come here. But today morning she started ghosting. After that she texted me she will be in Toronto in 20 min. I told she I’ll pick her up at 3 also will try to come early if possible. She told she doesn’t like the city and will not be here for long. When I started from my house she said she left Toronto. I lost money on gifts, boat cruise etc.,
Feel so bad I don’t know why she played with me. After that she isn’t replying to anything.

I’ll take the cruise and gifts, if you’re just going to throw them out...

 

[Flyingby]

I think you expected free sex at aibnb. Had you discussed a price she probably would not have ghosted you. I don’t think this is theft at all. Just business

 

[Carmine Falcone]

Funny, I thought this thread was about the extra $10 you gave her because you didn't have change.

That detail is what has me feeling dubious at the entire story. Which SP is impressed by a $10 tip?

 

[What's My Name]

Also it makes no sense the title of this thread. How can a SP cheat on you?

 

[LordStanley]

You definitely were not cheated as the SP took nothing from you. If she actually made her way to Toronto and then got cold feet about seeing you, for whatever reason, then you both might have lost out.

 

[Red Paul]

Also it makes no sense the title of this thread. How can a SP cheat on you?

You can cheat somebody by promising something and then not delivering.

I don't know if she actually did that, but that's the idea.

 

[Pussyboy]

Anna Bijou said it well and she was polite but I will be blunt. There was no scam from what I read. You said you would like to meet her. But in what context? Was she going there to work? To visit for pleasure? But you acted desperate. Women can smell a desperate man from a mile away. I dunno how you talked to her or texted her but I am sure she smelled desperation. Your sentence tells all "We were in touch during the entire week". Think about it, you saw this girl once and all of a sudden you made all these plans. You jumped to expecting her to be your GF. She did the best possible thing and that was to ghost you. It was the easiest method to avoid a confrontation with you. This thread is useless. It is nothing more then a self-loathing sympathy seeking thread.

Please understand all these plans were made by her. She gave her number, asked me to text and be in touch. Asked me to plan she likes clubbing so I planned accordingly, she told me her favourite cuisine it’s seems she likes my cuisine. She has lots of friends from my culture has high regards for them always loves our culture. Told me lots of stuff. She initiated.
I told myself nothing is true until I meet her in person.

 

[Pussyboy]

You can cheat somebody by promising something and then not delivering.

I don't know if she actually did that, but that's the idea.

Yes. She told me she booked Airbnb, I gave her suggestion to book hotel for 86$ but she booked a condo for 170$. I insisted her that condo nigh be a pain in the ass as people could hear if it’s a shared one but she said I’m just meeting you.

even the day before she told me she was excited.

 

[Pussyboy]

You definitely were not cheated as the SP took nothing from you. If she actually made her way to Toronto and then got cold feet about seeing you, for whatever reason, then you both might have lost out.

That’s what I’m saying. I don’t think she came to Toronto. We were in so good terms. You can feel buddy. Also, I spent money on cruise and gifts. If she told me early I wouldn’t have bought all those. Even the last conversation was a great one so I never pissed her off.

 

[Pussyboy]

That detail is what has me feeling dubious at the entire story. Which SP is impressed by a $10 tip?

It’s not 10$ tip. It was a start that made her interested. If you don’t believe I don’t care.