I'm a SP giving her opinion and not afraid of sharing. I'm just fed up of hearing and reading certain things that can dirty a girl's reputation. Of course, not all girls give the best service, that's true. Some girls have a lack of class, of hygiene, and aren't made to be in this business. There's always 2 sides to the story though. Reading that a girl doesn't offer DFK when she advertises it in her ad. All her reviews clearly state she is a good provider, that she's pretty and her service is amazing... One client comes and shares about his « experience »... Well some clients do not look at themselves, they have bad breath, aren't fresh... Some have bad oral hygiene or problems with their teeth... So of course the SP won't want to kiss passionately and sensually if someone has bad breath... There's usually always mouth wash provided and is there to be used... Clients want the girls at their best, but we clearly ask for the same thing... It's too easy to hide under a fake identity on the net and to dirty someone's reputation when some people don't even look at themselves first... That to me is disgusting... Respect goes both ways... Hygiene and respect are the main in these type of encounters...
the reality is that in those cases, more than 90% of the time, it is the client's hygiene. I experienced this myself when I was an amateur and I would come in with smokers breath. never again, I wasn't introspective enough until one girl I liked a lot told me whenever she could spell the smoke, which motivated me to quit smoking for a while and improve my hygiene regiment.
I hear it from agency staff, girls, allllllllll the time. Its almost shameful the stories that I hear, being from merb.
(bad breath, funky groin, unshaven, poor diet, use of disgusting soap, acne, the nastiness goes on, who taught you to clean yourself?)
I've heard of girls being very considerate, in terms of physical appearance as well, because they understand its something you cant always control as a man.
Hygiene is 90% under your control, some of you have diseases or conditions that give you a scent, which I feel for you. However the other 90% is totally solvable.
Just imagine your ATF, and someone complaining about her shitty service, WTF right? yeah there are a lot of those clients, and most of those are bad Johns... chances are.... the client has bad hygiene or bad attitude
I am afraid that some might even feel like they don't NEED to clean because they think women are in love with them. ***shake my head***
I remember when the days when saying you were a MERB member, you were considered good, preferable, respectable, clean, gentlemen and to be treated like VIPs
sad to see that my brothers at arms have ruined this privilege over a few years.
Despite this, there was a thread started by rosedelacourt, where she wanted to know if clients would want to be told that they have bad breath. I think the majority said, honesty is better
I believe the girl should gather the courage to tell the client that something is up, this will bring him back to reality yet I am sure he can still have a good time if he decides to use some mouthwash.
I think in most cases, being honest has all the benefits. If the client decides to complain, this gives the right for the agency/girl to intervene and say "hey i even told you during the session that something was wrong", this will discourage unnecessary rants/debates that happens in women's review thread.
There are shills on this board, but what is worse is a stinky merbite going around posting bad reviews everywhere, sometimes claiming that indies are better, probably because indies have more tolerance at a higher rate. This is good practice also because the client will learn to keep up his hygiene for future bookings, thus giving him a better experience long term.
everyone do your part! more happy fucking
Agency Owner once told me:
"If yo ballz are clean, she'll suck'em"
