the white knights come out in droves.
It’s as if your able to see the future!
the white knights come out in droves.
I don’t know why any SP would think it is cool or ok to text other clients during a session.
I wouldn’t make an issue of it I just wouldn’t see them again.
I posted a negative review not along ago. It violated a merb term which i didnt realize at the time and was taken down ( rightfully so, rules are rules). I haven't re written it nor will I (even edited). So there are some built in protections i guess
Ya I don't see the need to make drama out of it. We are lucky enough here that there are so many options. Especially when you're in a extended date costing you a pretty penny and taking them to dinner as well. Not cool.
Sure, but this goes both ways. It's not just reserved to new members making negative comments. It's also this quantity of fake members account that gives out positive reviews when it's not. I get that. & on both counts i usually ignore it unless there more reliable comments made by reliable posters. That's how it's done.It depends on who's giving a bad review.
If a new member makes their first post and it's a negative review, I will ignore it because often something bad has happened in between.
On the other hand, the follow-up is important, because if other reviews are negative it will accumulate and lead to an overall, negative judgment.
Before being on Merb I happened to meet people who turned out to be very disappointing.
Would I have mentioned it if I had been on this site? yes I would have described my service, and I would have ended by saying this woman was not for me, but maybe for others.
So many factors can come into play, both on the girl's side and on mine.
Valerie Love's original point was about clients expecting the girl to be at her best when the client is hardly at his best, and then submitting a negative review. The thread has kind of morphed into a discussion about texting and whether we should take a poster's history into account when reading a negative review. I think these are straw man arguments just as hygeine is. If a client shows up without having showered in the last hour and with anything less than minty fresh breath, they shouldnt be surprised by bad service. If a provider is texting during a session other than confirmation upon arrival and to the driver at the end, she deserves to be called out for it. And sure, if someone has a sparse posting history, they shouldnt be given the same weight as a member who has posted many reviews.
I think the tougher issues are the ones that are beyond these easy calls. For example, if you book a girl from an agency that has multiple professional photos with a blurred face and the girl that shows up has an unattractive face - do you say anything? This isnt an honesty issue because no face pics are available. This happened to me many years ago with an XO girl. She as an absolute sweetheart and she was eager to do whatever i wanted physically, but I was just really turned off by her face. I decided not to post a review because she has no control over this. I think if she had a long list of positive reviews, I would have been more likely to post a review saying she was really nice and eager to please but just not my type and that is my fault.
I agree with Valerie that respect goes two ways, but at the same time I am not going to write a review that gives a girl a break on bad service because i am short, overweight and not very handsome. The service i am paying for is for a pretty girl to make me forget what I really look like in the mirror. Again, I am not talking about hygiene, just appearance. I am fastidious about being clean and fresh, but no girl I have ever booked would consider me attractive. I try my best to be friendly and complimentary and put a girl at ease. That is the other thing that I can control. If i am with a girl and she comes across as disinterested and bored or wanting things to be over (which has only happened once in Montreal) I would assume that my appearance could be part of the reason, but that doesnt mean that I think it is ok. Everyone can have a bad day, but part of the service i am paying for is for someone to make this troll feel like a stud.
When I write a review I try my best to give each girl the benefit of the doubt for any aspect of the session that does not go well. But at the same time, i want to give other members an honest account of the session to help them understand if this girl might be a good match for him. I have only written one truly negative review on MERB, but I have written things in reviews describing specific things that girls did that I didnt particularly care for. I think it is important to be able to do that without feeling like we are ruining a girl's reputation. Be fair, be honest, but also be kind and considerate.
I totally agree with you, luvdozer. Thank you for sharing!
Of course, you are paying for a service and it is a girl's job to do what she has to do to make the person happy.
At the end of the day, people all have their own descriptions of beauty and attraction. Hygiene and being well-groomed doesn't relate to beauty, but taking care our ourselves and respecting the other person. The service goes beyond physical traits. As we say, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... Eyes are the door to the soul... And love making is the most beautiful art we can indulge ourselves in...
But with the internet & forums like this sp better think twice before playing this game & risk there reputation.
But as soon money is exchanged, the SP has the bigger piece of the stick. & they know it. & how many times an sp changes terms of what has been understood. STOP offering services or posting a description of you & what's offered where in the end, the client is completely bushwhacked. The hustle is the hustle don't call it anything else. It's a shake down & it does exist.
There no longer a professional sp but a professional hustler. It's part of the game being at risque to get hustle out of money. Happens more often then not. But with the internet & forums like this sp better think twice before playing this game & risk there reputation.
I can agree with some of this. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me.I really cant help thinking that you would be better served choosing different providers. Montreal has SO MANY girls in every shape, size, price point and affiliation. If you are often feeling bushwhacked by providers who change what is offered or rates and you are certain that you are treating them with dignity and respect, then maybe you should try some different girls. If I am unhappy with the haircut i get from the hairdresser three times in a row, I find a new hairdresser.
Sometimes, I feel that on repeat visits there can be a drop off in service. We are more like friends which is cool but it’s like she knows that she’s got me and doesn’t have to try as hard. There can be a drop off in service. Does this make sense?
My point does automatically implies that you do have the option to change providers when things don't work out. It actually goes both ways. But let's not derail from the initial point of this thread. This is about clients using this forum to wright bad reviews on sp's. An understanding an a deal that was not respected or the provider is not how she describe herself. Well i like to know. I hardly think bad reviews come often from a client towards his regular provider. Most bad reviews here are from clients towards first time providers or providers changing names & numbers that already have bad reputation. Listen if your a good provider you don't have to much to worry about. In fact a lot of the good reputed ones will be praised. As for the bad ones, SP's,MP, agencies ... that takes advantage of clients, rushes them, bait and switch, ect... will get there's one way or the other. There's no but's and change to that. This is how the system on the internet evolved.I really cant help thinking that you would be better served choosing different providers. Montreal has SO MANY girls in every shape, size, price point and affiliation. If you are often feeling bushwhacked by providers who change what is offered or rates and you are certain that you are treating them with dignity and respect, then maybe you should try some different girls. If I am unhappy with the haircut i get from the hairdresser three times in a row, I find a new hairdresser.