Communicate with women on Seeking without paying the outrageous sub fee

[Glyscore]

Hello fellas.

I was wondering if there was a way to communicate with women that massage us on Seeking without having to sub and paying that bulljive monthly fee? I got sent a message by a verified women Id like to engage with but its telling me to upgrade to see what she dmed me.

 

[bodick7]

It’s like having the tongue glued to a frozen steel post.

 

[CaptRenault]

Hello fellas.

I was wondering if there was a way to communicate with women that massage us on Seeking without having to sub and paying that bulljive monthly fee? I got sent a message by a verified women Id like to engage with but its telling me to upgrade to see what she dmed me.

Of course, it's not possible. Seeking makes money from guys by forcing them to pay.

In any case, if you want to use Seeking, you have to go on the offensive. You need to pay for a month, develop a good profile-upload some good photos and write a good description of yourself. Then you need to contact the girls. You can't wait around for them to contact you, though it can happen occasionally.

Be prepared to do some work and spend some time. However, if you live in Montreal, it might not be worth it. With so many good girls available at a moment's notice for reasonable prices, I don't think Seeking is worth the time and money in Montreal. It can be worth it if you live in some parts of the USA and the world where prostitution is strictly prohibited and risky--it can be a good way to get around the legal restrictions. But I wouldn't bother with it in Montreal.

 

[Glyscore]

Of course, it's not possible. Seeking makes money from guys by forcing them to pay.

In any case, if you want to use Seeking, you have to go on the offensive. You need to pay for a month, develop a good profile-upload some good photos and write a good description of yourself. Then you need to contact the girls. You can't wait around for them to contact you, though it can happen occasionally.

Be prepared to do some work and spend some time. However, if you live in Montreal, it might not be worth it. With so many good girls available at a moment's notice for reasonable prices, I don't think Seeking is worth the time and money in Montreal. It can be worth it if you live in some parts of the USA and the world where prostitution is strictly prohibited and risky--it can be a good way to get around the legal restrictions. But I wouldn't bother with it in Montreal.

Thanks for your insight

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Regrettably, the fees are not under the control of the service provider and are directed to the platform. It's not just a matter of paying the fees; there are also additional introduction fees from the service providers to contend with. Many of them respond to inquiries. On a related note, at times when you receive a response, it might be a ploy by the platform to prompt you to pay monthly fees to unlock your message.I have been a user of this platform for a considerable period and am very familiar with its operations. My suggestion would be to stick with agencies if you aim to save both money and time. I don't mean to discourage you; you may encounter exceptional individuals, but the process can be long and expensive. Unless you have ample time and financial resources at your disposal.

 

[ThunderLipps]

I was on some site quite awhile ago and the same thing, get a different package to see the response. Paid the extra and there were no responses, not a fan of any dating sites.

 

[Glyscore]

I was on some site quite awhile ago and the same thing, get a different package to see the response. Paid the extra and there were no responses, not a fan of any dating sites.

That's actually pretty scammy. For that reason, I wont put a dime on that platform

 

[What's My Name]

I was on some site quite awhile ago and the same thing, get a different package to see the response. Paid the extra and there were no responses, not a fan of any dating sites.

Dating sites are the worse. On 3 sites all the same story. When you are not paying thy show you that everyone is interested in you. You sign up and BOOM all is silent, and if by some miracle you geta message it's a scam or she's a fake. Once you cancel you'll see how many messages they say you have of ladies interested in you.

 

[Ducon]

Seeking is not actually a scam, to my knowledge most profiles on there are real.
Still, it's expensive, it takes a lot of time, a lot of women on there are unreliable, and you might not get a better deal than with escorts.
I did make some very memorable encounters on there, though.

 

[Glyscore]

Seeking is not actually a scam, to my knowledge most profiles on there are real.
Still, it's expensive, it takes a lot of time, a lot of women on there are unreliable, and you might not get a better deal than with escorts.
I did make some very memorable encounters on there, though.

Was reffering to the fact of receging messages from women and having to updagre to see it just for it to end up not being true...

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Dating sites are the worse. On 3 sites all the same story. When you are not paying thy show you that everyone is interested in you. You sign up and BOOM all is silent, and if by some miracle you geta message it's a scam or she's a fake. Once you cancel you'll see how many messages they say you have of ladies interested in you.

I don't see Seeking as just a regular dating site; it's more like a high-end version of Leolist designed for wealthy individuals. Based on my experience as a long-time subscriber, I can confidently say it's a legitimate platform. New users might encounter tactics pushing them to upgrade to a monthly plan to read messages. Also, when you view a woman's profile, she might message you, similar to how Instagram stories work.

To succeed on Seeking , you need to be proactive and take the lead in conversations. The platform mainly features attractive women, many of whom are students or seeking financial assistance without explicitly stating they are escorts or prostitutes.

Female members on the site fall into three main categories: those seeking financial spoiling without intimacy, those open to occasional encounters in exchange for allowances and gifts, and those offering services for a set hourly rate.

Some women in the first two groups may ask for an introduction fee, usually between $300 and $1,000, to test a potential partner's seriousness and financial stability.

In summary, achieving success on Seeking requires time, effort, and financial commitment. If you're ready to invest, the platform provides an opportunity to connect with high-quality individuals. Just be aware of the associated costs as you navigate this unique social setting, where you may come across attractive individuals but at a premium price.

 

[Fradi]

If you're ready to invest, the platform provides an opportunity to connect with high-quality individuals.

Sorry but I don’t find women pretending not to be prostitutes to be of high quality. They think they are better than SW when they are doing the exact same thing.
I would never have the patience nor would I want to play these games with these “ high quality“ ladies who think they are not prostitutes and who somehow think they are better.
I would much rather see an escort/SW who doesn’t play these stupid games.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Sorry but I don’t find women pretending not to be prostitutes to be of high quality. They think they are better than SW when they are doing the exact same thing.
I would never have the patience nor would I want to play these games with these “ high quality“ ladies who think they are not prostitutes and who somehow think they are better.
I would much rather see an escort/SW who doesn’t play these stupid games.

They wish to engage in the activity without being categorized as escorts. They may be in denial or unable to come to terms with the reality that they are engaging in escort services. To maintain a sense of self-worth, they choose to participate without acknowledging their role as escorts.

 

[Blofinger]

Sorry but I don’t find women pretending not to be prostitutes to be of high quality. They think they are better than SW when they are doing the exact same thing.
I would never have the patience nor would I want to play these games with these “ high quality“ ladies who think they are not prostitutes and who somehow think they are better.
I would much rather see an escort/SW who doesn’t play these stupid games.

In the US, Seeking works well. Sure scams, but a lot of normal girls looking for extra money and don't mind to fuck for it. In Toronto, Seeking is almost perfect. Yes, there are a few straight up escorts on it, and they quote their normal rate. But there are lots of students and others that are "mostly normal" but just want some extra cash. Toronto is expensive after all. In Montreal, it's the hardest. While I have found one that I really like and it works out, she is the same rate as the highest end escort, but the advantage is no clock watching. But Some Montreal women make me pull out my hair in frustration, and the Asians are all scams. So I agree, escorts in Montreal are much easier to deal with, no fear of wasting time and a better deal. But, there is some excitement in the Seeking "game" that about once a year pulls me in!

 

[Fradi]

They wish to engage in the activity without being categorized as escorts. They may be in denial or unable to come to terms with the reality that they are engaging in escort services. To maintain a sense of self-worth, they choose to participate without acknowledging their role as escorts.

I understand what and why they are denying that they are in fact prostitutes. I just have zero respect for them and I certainly don’t consider them to be high quality individuals.
Escorts/SW I can respect they are providing a much needed service for many men who are lonely or have trouble connecting with the opposite sex.
They provide something of value for a price, they are not liars and they don’t pretend to be better than other SW.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I understand what and why they are denying that they are in fact prostitutes. I just have zero respect for them and I certainly don’t consider them to be high quality individuals.
Escorts/SW I can respect they are providing a much needed service for many men who are lonely or have trouble connecting with the opposite sex.
They provide something of value for a price, they are not liars and they don’t pretend to be better than other SW.

I completely agree with you. These women are typically self-centered individuals who believe they are superior to hard working service providers, exploiting vulnerable individuals to support their high maintenance lifestyle. Their services are often a disaster, rushed to the point that it may lead to losing erection. They lack a sense of humor and are generally uninteresting. Spending money on them for a brief miserable two minute encounter in bed feels like throwing money out of the window. I hold greater respect for a service provider who embraces her role with professionalism, compared to a woman in denial who cannot come to terms with the fact that she is being compensated for sexual services.

 

[Glyscore]

If we are being real, women on seeking are doing the exact same thing as escorte. You litteraly pay for a service and discuss about what is to be expected as a client. The only reason I am on there was to see if the profil of women was similar to the ones putting ads on leolist or tryst.
After that short evaluation time, I can conclude that Tryst is probably the superior plate-forme in that sense. Yess its on the high-end spectrum but that generaly where the quality is in.

 

[clemieux6]

Me and a casual lover used seeking to find a guy for a mmf and on another occasion for a ffm threesome

Most profiles were real, authentic, met some really kind people on it but be aware, theres also a ton of mentally unstable women on it also.

Also some pretty fked up dudes hahahahaha

 

[Nachoy]

My experience in seeking has been mixed
Some unique experiences and some not to good.
Some are doing it as to way to test the waters as a SP
some I meet have full time jobs and this is their side Hustle
I have to negotiate a transaction fee as they are amateur escorts and don’t have a fixed rate like pros.
there are pros in seeking of course, where there is a set price with out negotiating and the experience is likely more in line with escorts you read in this forum.

 

[Blofinger]

My experience in seeking has been mixed
Some unique experiences and some not to good.
Some are doing it as to way to test the waters as a SP
some I meet have full time jobs and this is their side Hustle
I have to negotiate a transaction fee as they are amateur escorts and don’t have a fixed rate like pros.
there are pros in seeking of course, where there is a set price with out negotiating and the experience is likely more in line with escorts you read in this forum.

I'm thinking, time to go back to escorts. It's a lot of work to find a "friend with paid benefits" which is my goal.. I've been focusing on finding someone 27-34, more mature, but some of the 22 - 25 year olds are so fucken hot! The problem is they all want $500, and when I have agreed to $500 the ones I've met are hot but don't know how to suck cock. And if you offer $400 they block you! Crazy, don't they get that $400 tax free for about two hours of fun, is a lot easier than them working 2 days at their sales job? (and I doubt they make $25/hour net)