I do not feel comfortable posting that info publicly. You know what to do.It would actually be helpful if you did.
I do not feel comfortable posting that info publicly. You know what to do.It would actually be helpful if you did.
I already stated that I do not feel comfortable sharing that info publicly, but you are correct that it is the whole point of a review. You guys know what to do.OP I don't see why you would not share the name of the SP. This is genuine feedback that will allow other members to not waste their time with her either. No pressure, but isn't this the whole point of a review forum?
I doubt it very much. Texting was constant over time, she was always sharing her shit with me and I have seen her several times over the years.maybe she sees some red flag on you ? maybe she really doesn't like you for whatever reason
Yes, I experienced it many times, they all have those things in common:Has this happened to other members? Details please? How did you deal with it?>
Most of them I ended up seeing them after 3+ attempts and it was fun but nothing out of this world. So just stop trying seeing them after that I finally get the see them.How long would you let this type of cancellation go on before you laid your foot down?
I would say "emotional disconnect" those long time SP have much less feeling for men like usIs it possible she is suffering from a mental or emotional illness?
Were you still paying her "old" rates or always paying her current rates, given she raised it over the years?I doubt it very much. Texting was constant over time, she was always sharing her shit with me and I have seen her several times over the years.
wow, if it was the other way around, us guys canceling constantly, or not booking etc( maybe because we are assholes, or the sp is not nice, indifferent etc), we would be raked over the coals and be blacklisted,. in this case, its nothing but excuses and trying to find out if its you that is at fault and not her. Goes both ways and should be treated that way.Yes, I experienced it many times, they all have those things in common:
- They are in the business for a long time
- This business is still their main job
- They don't have a website or reviews or any other "reference"
- They are pretty and don't charge too much
Most of them I ended up seeing them after 3+ attempts and it was fun but nothing out of this world. So just stop trying seeing them after that I finally get the see them.
Personally its always outcall, so my routine is to do my last preparation when she confirms that she is on her way.
I would say "emotional disconnect" those long time SP have much less feeling for men like us
On a positive note, this kind of behavior / attitude toward men only come from that kind of SP, from my experience, as I also see Sugar Babies (from https://www.secretbenefits.com/ & https://www.seeking.com/) I offer the same amount $ and get the complete opposite experience.
Just want to chim in on that. I know my situation ain't everyone and vice versa but usually i will reconfirm the morning before heading to Montreal or when i had catch my ride. At this point even if she cancel its too late for me as my travels are already booked so its more of a "if she cancel i want to have time for plan B".If you stop answering and ghost messages 2 hours before the appointment, damn sure I think your just waisting my time, and are not serious about meeting.
There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.
I doubt it very much. Texting was constant over time, she was always sharing her shit with me and I have seen her several times over the years.
Frankly, she is not well, and the toll of the business has begun to take its toll on her.
It could be as well that she is just a nasty person deep down inside, who enfoys fucking around people, I guess I will never know and never will.
I wish her the best.
In your situation, I would require a room number sent when the room is had. To me that counts as a final confirmation, especially as I call the room to be sure you are in it before leaving my own home. There is still contact before the appointment. (Sounds like you do incall locations though) And if he is useing a text app so not getting the text message notifications, that's on him. I tend to count 2 hrs before an appointment, the last minute backout because life can throw us curveballs, and things come up, without consiquences, but i also require at least a confirmation from those I will see as well. It is stated when the appointment is initially made that I will require a confirmation when I message before heading over.Just want to chim in on that. I know my situation ain't everyone and vice versa but usually i will reconfirm the morning before heading to Montreal or when i had catch my ride. At this point even if she cancel its too late for me as my travels are already booked so its more of a "if she cancel i want to have time for plan B".
ps. I was referencing the (in)famous GW Bush quote"fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."
I would say "fool me once or twice, shame on you. Fool me more than twice, shame on me."
Thank you, Giselle. You have just solved the riddle and puzzle for me.Were you still paying her "old" rates or always paying her current rates, given she raised it over the years?
That is correct. I never had a problem booking, it was in seeing her on the booking date.Unless I got this wrong, OP is talking about being cancelled on multiple times in a row. Not having trouble booking.
In your situation, I would require a room number sent when the room is had. To me that counts as a final confirmation, especially as I call the room to be sure you are in it before leaving my own home. There is still contact before the appointment. (Sounds like you do incall locations though)