Craziest thing you’ve done for a SP!

[Pasmoipasmoi1]

Gents,

Let’s face it, a lustful man can do really stupid things!!!

I want to know what is the craziest thing you’ve done for a SP?

Let share our most awkward stories and then we could start a poll for the idiot of the year 2022!!!

I’ll share mine later tonight when I’m back home, don’t worry I am a contender for the belt! Haha

 

[Numerati]

There is crazy like sending money to women you would never meet/bang (aka LonelyFans) and then there is emotional stupidity looking for something in the wrong places. The latter is the most crazy in my opinion.

July 2004 to February 2005.

This was the third Montreal SP I saw. Was head over heels for her. Looking back what an absolute fucking idiot I was. Spent these eight months just seeing her when there were tons of other gems around who would be at the same level or higher. But no I got into some quasi-relationship mode mentality and pigeon-hole cornered myself into something that is not going to work out in the long run. The agency she was at kept introducing and nudging me to see other women but I declined and only wanted to see her. Perfect example of youth wasted on the young as the cliche goes. Shit. I was so smitten by her I walked into a Victoria Secret and purchased lingerie for her and bought her gifts. WTF. LOL. The second time I saw her I spent a whole week just to see her for dinner dates. Doh! The last two times I saw her she was "retired" and just wanted $200 every time we met. She stressed that she came to my city just to see me. LOL. Yeah right and the gullible idiot I was actually believed it. Anyways it faded quick and she returned into the game and then left not long after. A few years later she returned into the scene.

Seeing only one SP for eight straight months. Is this crazy? Idiotic? I say it is BOTH! LOL.

Anyways many good lessons learned from this fiasco. I woke the EF up afterwards and know when this Oneitis pops up squash/deal with this shit kill it ASAP. LOL. Never again.

 

[Pasmoipasmoi1]

There is crazy like Nazi love slave hot sauce anal fantasies and then there is emotional stupidity looking for something in the wrong places. The latter is the most crazy in my opinion.

July 2004 to February 2005.

This was the third Montreal SP I saw. Was head over heels for her. Looking back what an absolute fucking idiot I was. Spent these eight months just seeing her when there were tons of other gems around who would be at the same level or higher. But no I got into some quasi-relationship mode mentality and pigeon-hole cornered myself into something that is not going to work out in the long run. The agency she was at kept introducing and nudging me to see other women but I declined and only wanted to see her. Perfect example of youth wasted on the young as the cliche goes. Shit. I was so smitten by her I walked into a Victoria Secret and purchased lingerie for her and bought her gifts. WTF. LOL. The second time I saw her I spent a whole week just to see her for dinner dates. Doh! The last two times I saw her she was "retired" and just wanted $200 every time we met. She stressed that she came to my city just to see me. LOL. Yeah right and the gullible idiot I was actually believed it. Anyways it faded quick and she returned into the game and then left not long after. A few years later she returned into the scene.

Seeing only one SP for eight straight months. Is this crazy? Idiotic? I say it is BOTH! LOL.

Anyways many good lessons learned from this fiasco. I woke the EF up afterwards and know when this Oneitis pops up squash/deal with this shit kill it ASAP. LOL. Never again.

Thanks for sharing buddy!

 

[Numerati]

Thanks for sharing buddy!

This was when the HDH market was in full swing in both Montreal and other US cities as these HDH agencies also sent their girls touring. There were tons of AMAZING women I could of met but being the stubborn emotional moron I was I just saw one SP! Her agency alone had EIGHT really hot looking girls from what I remember and two of them were willing to do anal and the agency was offering dinner date discounts in trying to encourage me to not fall into some emotional trap. I mean I am sure it is all about more $$$$ money of course but their message to me I understand they don't want their clientele to fall in love with an SP.

Then there were other HDH places like The Courtesans and French Kiss Society but I also declined to visit them. Every time I look back at the pics of the women I didn't meet in these agencies I was like you stupid idiot! Ha ha. Anways after taking a majority of 2005 off and returned I became a better hobbyist by implementing a three engagement rule. If the first encounter was great the next two are dinner dates yet if the second dinner date is meh there is no third. After the third engagement if there is one I am done and she will never hear from me again. If she gives me her contact info I take it as I was a good host/hobbyist and move on.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

I'm about to be a version of Numerati.

I used to be the guy that thought SP dinner dates, FMTY and stuff like that are stupid. Well, that's because they are. The entire point of an SP relationship is that you're doing courtship stuff (i.e. sexy time) without having to do actual courtship (i.e. "dating"). When you're doing dating rituals (like dinner, where you pay the restaurant bill) along with a SP relationship (you're still paying for her time to feed her at dinner too), you're just setting money on fire for the fuck of it.

And yet having said that, I've turned into the dude texting back and forth, planning dinner time and flying into a city for a few days next month pretty much just to mash her up. I actually floated FMTY as an option, but I'm going to her city instead because our schedules work better that way.

You might look at the situation as having great chemistry with someone you dig, and that's certainly true. But it's also equally true that to put this much effort into one woman (that's not exclusive to you) is 100% chump territory. So yep, I'm one of those chumps now.

 

[Numerati]

Oh also after this gem I stopped doing dinner dates altogether and just go with 2 hours.

This is Ophelie of the Courtesans then FKS and went indie.

Met her between 2008 and beginning 2009. First two times were great but she got really weird the third time around and she left an hour early. Weird as when she came out of the shower with her hair wet telling me she washed her hair and started rubbing her wet hair all over me telling me this a few times. I was like uhhh okay. Never wanted to see her again and she contacted me a few times for a few years and I just ignored.

Here is a sign when it is time to never see her again in this hobby. When she acts like an actual girlfriend. LOL.

Okay honestly these are "great" women and they do have a positive impact on you. I mean if not you would not be driving/flying all the way up to Montreal and dishing out good money on them. But there is a time stamp on these encounters and once you go pass the expiration date there is nothing but spoil and the rotten.

 

[Pasmoipasmoi1]

I'm about to be a version of Numerati.

I used to be the guy that thought SP dinner dates, FMTY and stuff like that are stupid. Well, that's because they are. The entire point of an SP relationship is that you're doing courtship stuff (i.e. sexy time) without having to do actual courtship (i.e. "dating"). When you're doing dating rituals (like dinner, where you pay the restaurant bill) along with a SP relationship (you're still paying for her time to feed her at dinner too), you're just setting money on fire for the fuck of it.

And yet having said that, I've turned into the dude texting back and forth, planning dinner time and flying into a city for a few days next month pretty much just to mash her up. I actually floated FMTY as an option, but I'm going to her city instead because our schedules work better that way.

You might look at the situation as having great chemistry with someone you dig, and that's certainly true. But it's also equally true that to put this much effort into one woman (that's not exclusive to you) is 100% chump territory. So yep, I'm one of those chumps now.

Glad you shared your genuine thoughts, thanks man!

 

[2fast2slow]

i bought a plane ticket to 'rescue' an sp from a city where she was touring and supposedly got robbed of all her money.

 

[Numerati]

Oh here is another stupid/crazy thing that I did with SPs. Well two of them. You see many of these SPs are artists/painters and I might add they are quite talented. With one SP I purchased three paintings and one from the other SP. Had them hanging on my walls in my apartment. They are great pieces of artwork and really brought a vibrant lively decor to my place.

This is where it gets interesting. My then girlfriend/fiance who is now the mother to my adorable hyper 3 year old also fell in love with these four paintings. She was asking about them like who were the artists and how I acquired them etc. This was when we got serious and after having that talk of exclusivity. I didn’t give straight answers of course and just told her they were created by friends and such. Without my knowledge she took pictures of them when we were not in the same room in my apartment. I was probably asleep, in the bathroom, etc. Being the great detective my gf/fiance is she most likely went to google and matching these paintings. Well let just say the conversations got interesting and she found out these artists were SPs and that was how she found out I was a hobbyist in my previous life. Lol. The funny thing was she was not upset or angry that I saw escorts but pissed off that I purchased these paintings because she constantly seeing them she feels she is constantly in competition with these paintings as she associates them as these women still in my life banging me. LOL.

I still have these paintings but I had to pack them up and put them in storage. There are times I really miss being SINGLE. Now come to think of it the craziest thing I did with a woman is getting married! SPs… girlfriends… wives…. now looking at it are the same damn shit. Just that one you pay up front or at the end. One is willing to wipe your ass when you can’t and the other will not.

 

[gaff_]

If you talk about craziness I bet I m one for the win. I spent like one decade in and out with a SP, starting paying her fee at the table dance when she was wasted. Picking her up at the end of her shift. Giving her a quasi allowance in exchange for photos or videos. But I guess it was worthwhile for all the good moments that we spent together.

 

[Numerati]

Okay question. Were you guys also seeing other women/SPs or whatever? If you were then you are/were in a much better position than I was in that July 2004 to Feb 2005 period. I mean I was looking/pursuing a relationship in this hobby and seeing ONLY ONE girl. What a total noob I was. Doh! Still can’t believe that nonsense I put myself into. This is what happens when you make great money in your late 20s and no time for relationships while lacking the skills to understand human/female nature and dynamics. That girl was a 8 months crash course.

As for Ophelie it was the end of the road for our little adventure anyways so I was not hung up on it but she did rip me off for leaving an hour early for our 4 hour dinner engagement.

 

[jmioffe]

Oh here is another stupid/crazy thing that I did with SPs. Well two of them. You see many of these SPs are artists/painters and I might add they are quite talented. With one SP I purchased three paintings and one from the other SP. Had them hanging on my walls in my apartment. They are great pieces of artwork and really brought a vibrant lively decor to my place.

This is where it gets interesting. My then girlfriend/fiance who is now the mother to my adorable hyper 3 year old also fell in love with these four paintings. She was asking about them like who were the artists and how I acquired them etc. This was when we got serious and after having that talk of exclusivity. I didn’t give straight answers of course and just told her they were created by friends and such. Without my knowledge she took pictures of them when we were not in the same room in my apartment. I was probably asleep, in the bathroom, etc. Being the great detective my gf/fiance is she most likely went to google and matching these paintings. Well let just say the conversations got interesting and she found out these artists were SPs and that was how she found out I was a hobbyist in my previous life. Lol. The funny thing was she was not upset or angry that I saw escorts but pissed off that I purchased these paintings because she constantly seeing them she feels she is constantly in competition with these paintings as she associates them as these women still in my life banging me. LOL.

I still have these paintings but I had to pack them up and put them in storage. There are times I really miss being SINGLE. Now come to think of it the craziest thing I did with a woman is getting married! SPs… girlfriends… wives…. now looking at it are the same damn shit. Just that one you pay up front or at the end. One is willing to wipe your ass when you can’t and the other will not.

That's actually kind of thoughtful, sweet story. I can kind of see it from her point of view, and the fact that she didn't go psycho and destroy them and hate you for your hobbyist past is also a good resolution. (Quebecois? Certainly American girls would be much more vindictive.) You're no longer hobbying now? What's the point in hanging out here now?

 

[jmioffe]

If you talk about craziness I bet I m one for the win. I spent like one decade in and out with a SP, starting paying her fee at the table dance when she was wasted. Picking her up at the end of her shift. Giving her a quasi allowance in exchange for photos or videos. But I guess it was worthwhile for all the good moments that we spent together.

This is probably why Only Fans and its stars have a business model.

 

[Numerati]

What's the point in hanging out here now?

If you went thru the conversations I had you wouldn’t be thinking this is a sweet story. I left out tons of bullshit. In this modern times there is no innocence and any ‘“purity” anymore. We all have skeletons in our closets and battle scars. The way my wife lightly handled how I used to hobby I have suspicions lol but I leave things in the past. As for me sticking around. Just good to reminisce about the days of my hobbying because it did help me grow and evolve into someone who didn’t become bitter and lost his soul along the way in interacting with women. Also if my wife still likes posting her bikini yoga poses on instagram and subtly feeding for beta thirst likes I can still be in the hobby by not being in the hobby by keeping up on this game by being on Merb. She says it is a part of her marketing. Yeah okay lol. Plus also you never know with marriage/relationships these days. It could be great one minute and next thing you know that pre-nup is activated.

 

[jmioffe]

you never know with marriage/relationships these days. It could be great one minute and next thing you know that pre-nup is activated.

True, that's why I avoid marriage, though loneliness seems to be intensifying as I age (peers pair up, the older generation, grandparents, parents aunt and uncles die off), and I think about it.

How did you meet such a liberated wife? Is she cutting you so much slack because there's a huge differential in net worth or looks?

People are only as loyal as their options. More money, hotter appearance = more options.

 

[Numerati]

Oh my wife is a yoga teacher. I took her class for like two years before anything happened at the yoga studio she still teaches at. Many yoga folks are very bendy and not just physically. You have to be a bit weird yourself in many ways to accept, understand and appreciate what goes on each day. There maybe times you go WTF but in a good way in most cases. Can’t truly explain it but you will know when you see and experience it as it is different with everyone.

 

[masmasak]

Oh my wife is a yoga teacher. I took her class for like two years before anything happened at the yoga studio she still teaches at. Many yoga folks are very bendy and not just physically. You have to be a bit weird yourself in many ways to accept, understand and appreciate what goes on each day. There maybe times you go WTF but in a good way in most cases. Can’t truly explain it but you will know when you see and experience it as it is different with everyone.

Grâce to her this is a merb pulitzer prize winner of telling tale in 2022.

 

[PSEfreak]

Craziest thing I've ever done is drive to Rimouski (6hrs) to bring an SP I was regularly seeing back home for some "emergency" she was having...

 

[Flyingby]

An sp i knew was stuck with no money. Sent her the equivalent of a 2 hour meeting. Next time I saw her at the end i told her btw the money I sent was an advance. I did not pay for my session.
she still kept seeing me

 

[Numerati]

If you talk about craziness I bet I m one for the win. I spent like one decade in and out with a SP, starting paying her fee at the table dance when she was wasted. Picking her up at the end of her shift. Giving her a quasi allowance in exchange for photos or videos. But I guess it was worthwhile for all the good moments that we spent together.

10 Years! That is dedication right there. I truly bow to you. Even in my 8-month emotional insanity I was getting tired/bored and about to call it quits.

For that you get 1st, 2nd and 3rd prizes. A total trifecta. Okay contest over!