Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

[Zoe_Sixxx]

First time I visited an SP was just for a BJ. Afterwards she asked me if I was gay or bi. It didn't exactly hurt my feelings, but did confuse me. I have no idea where the question came from. I didn't have any difficulties in the arousal department, if anything I probably finished pretty quick. Maybe it's because I wasn't very passionate/aggressive? Or maybe I just reminded her of a gay friend?

However, looking back on it now - she was right. I am bi. I don't know how she knew though.

 

[TheJames101]

I don't know how she knew though.

The words on the shirt you were wearing were the giveaway, which said, "I like cock".

 

[Zoe_Sixxx]

The words shirt you were wearing was the giveaway, which said "I like cock".

It was the mid 2000s. I was wearing that shirt ironically. Same for the assless chaps and the leather vest.

 

[vanhamm]

It's not acceptable for someone to insult you on your physical appearance or even comment on it, and I'm really sorry you experienced this.

I am 52 and I am used to it by now, yes it hurts and its frustrating but only if i was did something to offend that person which i did not. But like i said some people are frustrated in life and most of the time fail to look at themselves in a mirror.

 

[LC18]

It can be frustrated to be attacked on our appearance especially when it’s something that we’ve been struggling with for a long time. However, when someone does it, becoming bitter and mean isn’t the solution.

When they go low, we go high.

Maybe you can try that in the future.

 

[Mandouke]

I was wrapping up a session with a well-known and regarded SP and as we were lying in each other's arms she asked me if I had ever gone with a man. I was taken aback and somewhat amused by the question.

I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?

She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!

My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.

 

[vanhamm]

I was wrapping up a session with a well-known and regarded SP and as we were lying in each other's arms she asked me if I had ever gone with a man. I was taken aback and somewhat amused by the question.

I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?

She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!

My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.

Hahaha this is hilarious because at least 3 SP if i remember asked me the same question, I always reply yes a goaler hahahha