The words on the shirt you were wearing were the giveaway, which said, "I like cock".
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Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?
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The words on the shirt you were wearing were the giveaway, which said, "I like cock".
It was the mid 2000s. I was wearing that shirt ironically. Same for the assless chaps and the leather vest.
It can be frustrated to be attacked on our appearance especially when it’s something that we’ve been struggling with for a long time. However, when someone does it, becoming bitter and mean isn’t the solution.
When they go low, we go high.
Maybe you can try that in the future.
When they go low, we go high.
Maybe you can try that in the future.
I was wrapping up a session with a well-known and regarded SP and as we were lying in each other's arms she asked me if I had ever gone with a man. I was taken aback and somewhat amused by the question.
I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?
She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!
My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.
I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?
She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!
My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.
Ive learned since-she was an indy, I was a rookie. Perfect storm, basically.
I know what Im doing now...hopefully she has improved her game too
So question... ??? Which is worse. An SP who says something to hurt your feelings, or an SP to walk out on you without even accepting any money from you.
I would hope someone who had this happen to them would understand their behavior is the likely cause.
But could see how someone might feel jaded from the expierience. It really does have it's own connotations.
I would hope someone who had this happen to them would understand their behavior is the likely cause.
But could see how someone might feel jaded from the expierience. It really does have it's own connotations.
A very similar situation happened to me when, I was having a post coitus chat with this SP, it was my first time seeing her. She said she had fantasized about experimenting some girl/girl action for a while but it never happened.
So she took matters in her own hands and decided to book a SP that she was very attracted to. Then she went on describing her experience, without going into crunchy details. Ok, I wasn’t hurt in my feelings but, I did find it peculiar because it was my first time with her and she knew that I knew the other girl.
Interestingly, it happened to us both. I wonder if this is some kind of small talk chatter with SPs. Lol! Maybe she was trying to get me interested in that scenario with her and another provider.
I know I have no interest in being with 2 SPs girl/girl in a threesome. I had a girlfriend when I was young that got me into a threesome with her and another girl and it was something I never desired again. I never desired it in the first place, it just happened. I also know that many men would give their left nut for that type of action, lol!
Yeah I had several trios in my real life and it’s definitely overrated. I always did it for the gf, would never book 2 SPs.
One time I asked an SP if I could visit the Greek island with her during a session and she turn around and said "Why don't you let me shove a dildo up your ass first and see how you like it."
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When you thought you were a good customer but end up being stood up repeatedly because she is not bothered to show up to appointments with you anymore... ouch.
If that's happening there most likely is a reason. It could have nothing to do with you, maybe she's going through something, not that it makes things acceptable..
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