When you thought you were a good customer but end up being stood up repeatedly because she is not bothered to show up to appointments with you anymore... ouch.
Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?
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If that's happening there most likely is a reason. It could have nothing to do with you, maybe she's going through something, not that it makes things acceptable..
Never really been insulted by an sp, but definitely degraded.
Always in relation to me finishing fast. Most providers wont even acknowledge that i finish quick but every now and then i get some comments.
I had a few providers ask if i was a virgin cause of my PE.
Some classics like “that was fast” or “you came already?” And it usually doesn't go further than that.
A memorable one was one provider telling me that she has some go to techniques to make guys cum if they last over a certain time so she doesnt get sore, and thanked me for not having to go to the trouble.
Another one which still embarrasses me, happened in a session while i was trying to prolong myself by staying still inside her without thrusting, the sp noticed i stopped moving and asked “oh did you cum already” and i replied “no but im close, im trying to delay a little” and she replied “ if you already this close after like 30 seconds, no amount of waiting is going to help you”. I was embarrassed but realized she was probably right so i started thrusting again and came a couple seconds later. She had a mischievous smile and let out a little giggle afterwards and asked if it’s been a while for me. I replied not really and that i usually finish fast. And she just kind of had this look of surprise on her face and said something along the lines of oh that must suck.
definitely left that session a bit embarrassed lol
Always in relation to me finishing fast. Most providers wont even acknowledge that i finish quick but every now and then i get some comments.
I had a few providers ask if i was a virgin cause of my PE.
Some classics like “that was fast” or “you came already?” And it usually doesn't go further than that.
A memorable one was one provider telling me that she has some go to techniques to make guys cum if they last over a certain time so she doesnt get sore, and thanked me for not having to go to the trouble.
Another one which still embarrasses me, happened in a session while i was trying to prolong myself by staying still inside her without thrusting, the sp noticed i stopped moving and asked “oh did you cum already” and i replied “no but im close, im trying to delay a little” and she replied “ if you already this close after like 30 seconds, no amount of waiting is going to help you”. I was embarrassed but realized she was probably right so i started thrusting again and came a couple seconds later. She had a mischievous smile and let out a little giggle afterwards and asked if it’s been a while for me. I replied not really and that i usually finish fast. And she just kind of had this look of surprise on her face and said something along the lines of oh that must suck.
definitely left that session a bit embarrassed lol
That's crazy, I'm sorry you experienced this.
Sorry budd, thats tough.
Have you tried edging? Its pretty effective at practicing you to hold it in.
Or take a shot of alcohol before you go? Not more than a shot or getting it hard will be the challenge.
and consider having the girl on top for most of the session and letting gravity do its think.
There are also condoms that reduce sensitivity, these are great but they do make sex a bit less enjoyable.
Weed also great to delay ejaculation but I dont recommend you start taking some just for that. People i know who do that dont want to have sex sober anymore which is another problem in itself.
I just want you to know that coming fast happens to most of us at any given point in time. A lot of it is mental and the more you think about it during sex, the faster it creeps up on you.
When it happened to me this year, I laughed and told the SP "If I didnt just give you 300$, I would feel way worse about this than I do."
There are actually therapists who specialize in helping people deal with this type of thing ... It's mentalSorry budd, thats tough.
Have you tried edging? Its pretty effective at practicing you to hold it in.
Or take a shot of alcohol before you go? Not more than a shot or getting it hard will be the challenge.
and consider having the girl on top for most of the session and letting gravity do its think.
There are also condoms that reduce sensitivity, these are great but they do make sex a bit less enjoyable.
Weed also great to delay ejaculation but I dont recommend you start taking some just for that. People i know who do that dont want to have sex sober anymore which is another problem in itself.
I just want you to know that coming fast happens to most of us at any given point in time. A lot of it is mental and the more you think about it during sex, the faster it creeps up on you.
When it happened to me this year, I laughed and told the SP "If I didnt just give you 300$, I would feel way worse about this than I do."
I was crazy enough to go see Moni Kream 2 years ago and she told me that I looked like a kid with a condescending tone , I know I look younger than my age but that comment mixed with the awful experience was really tough to process at that moment haha .
Non jamais une sp ne m'as dis quelques chose qui m'as affecté. Infecté oui par contre!
C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.
C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.
Je voulais faire une blague, mais qui en fait est réelle.
J'ai vécu un moment d'égarement total il y a, a peu près, 5 ans. Alcool, SP douteuse, avec des relations plus que douteuses. Des junkie et moi alcolo... Ce n'est pas parce que la fille est super belle et demande beaucoup de sous qu'elle est bien, et ou que sont client est bien...
Ca m'as pris 3 ans me remettre sur pied, et surtout, arrêter de boire!
Mais ce que je suis en train de dire c'est que peu importe la personne que vous voyez si vous choisissez de faire des trucs risqués il faut assumer ce risque et faire de la réduction des méfaits. C'est pas de notre faute si les clients à Montréal exigent du GFE.. on donne aux clients ce qu'ils veulent même si on se fait tester à chaque mois
Ho crois moi on attrape pas des mts avec du gfe
Et les risque via le bbbj reste très minime. C'est quand on tombe dans le milieu drogue, alcolo, dependance, etc... qu'on fait des folies et ca c'est très risqué en effet.
I used to be able to fuck for a while. But in the past 10 months with this terrible economy, I have been working 8am to 9pm. No time for the gym and been eating horribly. Put on a lot of weight and lost a lot of stamina
Saw an SP recently and got tired after 5 minutes. She said “that’s it? Come on”. I tried to keep going and she kept saying “that’s all? What happened? Fuck me harder”
It didn’t HURT my feelings but it definitely made me feel like I better start hitting the gym again.
Saw an SP recently and got tired after 5 minutes. She said “that’s it? Come on”. I tried to keep going and she kept saying “that’s all? What happened? Fuck me harder”
It didn’t HURT my feelings but it definitely made me feel like I better start hitting the gym again.
Tu te trompes. Le BBBJ est une activité risquée, daty aussi. Aucun rapport avec la drogue et l'alcool. C'est le service en soit qui est risqué et c'est notre job de l'offrir. Je connais plein de gens, hommes et femmes, qui ont eu une ITSS dans la gorge. Je ne parle pas juste de gens dans l'industrie non plus, c'est assez commun. Peut-être que pour toi le risque est moindre mais tu pourrais mal tomber un jour et ça n'aurait aucun rapport avec le style de vie de l'escorte, le risque fait partie du métierHo crois moi on attrape pas des mts avec du gfe
C'est quand on tombe dans le milieu drogue, alcolo, dependance, etc... qu'on fait des folies et ca c'est très risqué en effet.
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If that can reassure you sometimes when clients get tired fast I worry I did something that turned them off.. it might have been her way of expressing that concern instead of criticizing you
This (premature fatigue) happens all the time as does the sudden impotence situation, and it's a part of male sexuality that is often poorly understood by escorts. In order to sexually perform properly, as Envelopes mentioned, you need to be in shape, at a proper body weight and in the right mood, and very often the escort has nothing to do with it.If that can reassure you sometimes when clients get tired fast I worry I did something that turned them off.. it might have been her way of expressing that concern instead of criticizing you
The first time I experienced sudden impotence I was 42 years old, and with an escort I had seen many times. I believe she was in the Cowgirl position and after a few minutes I went limp. She immediately thought something was wrong on her end, but I knew immediately it was on my end and told her so.
I was only 42 at the time, and in better shape then than I am now and also not medicating for hypertension. I was upset, and made an appointment with my primary care doctor/internist. I asked him if something was wrong. He explained to me that erectile functionality was similar to a car engine, in that a lot of different parts are inter-related and if one malfunctions or is off, the "engine does not work like it should." Weight, conditioning, blood pressure, stress levels, and general health all contribute to whether a penis gets, and remains, erect. In the years since then I have had ED become increasingly more prevalent and aside from the usual medications that can be taken short term to remedy the issue, the root of the problem is how you take care of your body and all the things envelopes mentioned in relation to becoming fatigued. If you have to go on blood pressure meds it's a huge problem, as they kill your libido and erectile functionality. Best course of action is always to lose weight and stay in good shape, and for you younger guys, try and stay off blood pressure meds as long as is possible, also understanding that it may be inevitable due to genetics and age. And if you are consistently above 140/90, you risk serious damage to your health by staying above those numbers.
Yes I'm aware of this now. Also often clients are going through something psychological and it's harder for them to keep going or to get turned on as easily.. I see it as part of my job to make clients who are going through this feel comfortable about themselves.
It's not a big deal if things aren't perfect.Yep, met this Italian SP, session was ok but I felt connected to her and was texting her later to plan a dinner date. After 4-5 texts she replied "if you want to continue texting, it's $80/30min.
I replied sorry for the inconvenience and wish you well.
She phoned me 5min later, did not respond.
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