Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?
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Just go to the Random Thoughts thread, which is locked right now for good reasons
Ha! Just read it. Great example of when SP post too much (like on Twitter) and just turn off potential clients
This is something I've told a client recently : I don't think people are inherently good or bad in bed. The most important is communication and listening to the other person's needs. Sexuality is complex and every time a new experience occurs both partners need to get used to each other. Sometimes people are nervous too.
I'd never tell someone they're bad in bed because that's really hurtful and could cause the person to have self esteem issues.. however if the person is physically hurting me or doing something that makes me uncomfortable I have to tell them. And we all have different things we like and dislike so it's not an insult!
Closest thing to that I've gotten was from an SP/MP I've seen for many years say I started seeing her at too young an age.
“You are average size”
That hurt my feelings
Or “your abs are ok”
That hurt my feelings
Or “your abs are ok”
Tbh, I think it’s all about how you perceived her question. Perhaps you haven’t come to terms about paying for an escort, felt judged and you needed her « approval » by saying there’s a lot of young men your age so you can feel better.
If you asked me that question, I would tell you that « USUALLY », clients are older, married men who are unsatisfied in their relationship due to the lack of sex. The word USUALLY doesn’t mean we don’t get younger clients, it just means that most of our customers are in that age range. It wasn’t meant to offend you at all I find . I just see this as you taking a crash course so you can satisfy all your future encounters
“You are average size”
That hurt my feelings
Or “your abs are ok”
I'd be ecstatic if I heard that, glowing for a week :
I also got this comment once. “You look too young. I expected you to be older.” I was caught off-guard at her look of disappointment when she saw me. “Is that a bad thing?”, i asked her. “Yes it is. I’ve always been with older clients.” I thought she may leave. “I’m probably at least 10 years older than you are”, i replied. Silence. She couldn’t look at me & looked like she was about to leave. “You can leave if you want. I’m not gonna force you to stay if you’re too uncomfortable.” Silence. Then a few seconds later she said “No i’ll stay. I’ve wanted to meet you for some time. In our correspondence i always was under the impression that you were much older than you are. But i’m okay now.” Whew! I had wanted to see this girl for months! Lol
That night she ended up staying for two extra hours free of charge. We got along great. Two days later she called me from her residence a couple of hours away & asked me if i’d be interested in meeting her for lunch the next day since she’d be in town for some personal business. I accepted. We met at Chez Alexandre. It was the beginning of a beautiful friendship/love affair which lasted about 7-8 months. This was the first time i really fell for an sp. And to think she nearly left after first meeting me because she felt i looked too young for her (as a client) when i was actually considerably older! Lol
(Sorry for the long post)
For my first five or so years in the hobby, I only did one-hour visits. On a trip to Chicago, many years ago now, I decided to splurge and try two hours. It changed my life. The lady was a pro in the best sense and we spent the two hours in non-stop pleasurable abandon, wet and wild; we went North, East, South, and West. When that was done, she stuck around for another 45 minutes (admittedly not Doc's two bonus hours) and we chatted. We even showed each other pictures of our kids. Finally the phone rang (in the room; this was before cell phones); it was her agency checking in, telling her it was time to call it a night. Before she left, I asked if her booker checked on each client after a date and she said, "oh yes. I will tell them you were nice." Nice? NICE? Harrumph. I thought I was an animal. Since then I've had at least two other SPs sum me up with "nice." I won't say my feelings were hurt ... but I might have preferred something a bit more descriptive!
I did once have a Las Vegas SP give me a reference to another provider by calling me "super cool." I cling to that rather than "nice." That Las Vegas provider became national news a few years later, but that's another story.
BTW, since that night in Chicago I've never booked another one-hour meeting, only 2+ hours. Straighten up and fly right....
I did once have a Las Vegas SP give me a reference to another provider by calling me "super cool." I cling to that rather than "nice." That Las Vegas provider became national news a few years later, but that's another story.
BTW, since that night in Chicago I've never booked another one-hour meeting, only 2+ hours. Straighten up and fly right....
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