I noticed a lot of SPs just do not want DATY. This year I seen a few Merb advertised SPs, only one Yara was really down for DATY. Malika denied me. The others were okay. But unless a SP will really enjoy it, then I am not too interested to do DATY. The classic starfish girl is a total turnoff. DFK is a must and BBBJ is wanted.
Dealbreaker or not?
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Mostly because it can throw off our vaginal pH and it sucks. You’ll be out of commission for a few days
That's the thing. We have reasons other than "wanting the service to feel transactional" or wanting to give bad service for having certain boundaries... There are services I enjoy offering, but I also know they can put me at risk for certain things. If I get a STI or another type of infection, that's also bad for clients. I won't be able to work for a while and I could transmit it to them. I still make the choice to take risks because I know in Montreal it's considered bad service if you don't do GFE as in acronyms... I think that's something to keep in mind.
We re talking about DATY and BJ its pretty unilateral unless you have special muscles that can work my tongue lol
these are great for receiving oral without worrying about vaginal ph:
mylorals.com
kind of expensive though :/
Lorals for Protection
Lorals for Protection fit just like your favorite lingerie, while blocking the transmission of bodily fluids, harmful pathogens, and STIs/STDs during oral. Ultra-thin, silky-smooth, and FDA-cleared, these single-use latex undies provide wearable protection and transfer every sensation.
mylorals.com
kind of expensive though :/
I can fit you in on Friday evening at 9pm for a one hour massage, of course happy endings are available to your satisfaction or the massage is free. Other details can be discussed in private. SF2 is available and highly recommended. For hygiene purposes.
I do have a Christmas special running till the 28th, just to stay on topic, DATY is free.
Merry Christmas
I'm going to give you a 500$ tipI can fit you in on Friday evening at 9pm for a one hour massage, of course happy endings are available to your satisfaction or the massage is free. Other details can be discussed in private. SF2 is available and highly recommended. For hygiene purposes.
I do have a Christmas special running till the 28th, just to stay on topic, DATY is free.
Merry Christmas
Agreed but let's be real... Nobody is going to want to see a SP who is imposing the use of these. Unless people start taking their sexual health more seriously. Maybe it's a bummer to hear about STI risks but it's a very real thing we are dealing with. Personally I get tested at least once a month.. but I know most clients don't.these are great for receiving oral without worrying about vaginal ph:
Lorals for Protection
Lorals for Protection fit just like your favorite lingerie, while blocking the transmission of bodily fluids, harmful pathogens, and STIs/STDs during oral. Ultra-thin, silky-smooth, and FDA-cleared, these single-use latex undies provide wearable protection and transfer every sensation.
kind of expensive though :/
Definitely.
Interestingly I actually discovered these because a client brought them to a date which was a pleasant surprise.
That's really lovely! I had a similar experience with a client who brought a dental dam. As much as I like my clients to enjoy their GFE experience with me, I would honestly rather be safe. Really often it seems like it's perceived as unkind and not generous if a provider doesn't offer bbbj or daty, but in reality this provider is just taking care of their sexual health and caring for other workers and for clients. Recently, there was a rumor that providers who offer cimsw are spreading STI's. I found that funny because honestly you can give or get an STI just from bbbj alone. I think it's a turn on and actually fantastic when clients care about everyone's health. It shows they have compassion. That doesn't mean you can't get a GFE service.. But I think in my opinion seeing many GFE providers and getting tested once or twice a year is a really bad habit.
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Dealbreaker for me would be no hugs or cuddles of some kind. I don't even care about penetration. Just give me the skin to skin contact and kissing and I will leave a happy man. Sadly, those are the two things I crave the most and no longer get at home. Something changed a few years ago and my wife is not interested in anything physical since a little over 6 years. Found out about this part pf MTL this year and I partake in the illusion of physical intimacy on occasion.
This is actually really common and a lot of men are booking for an experience of intimacy in general.
