Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

[LC18]

Oui je me souviens qu’il s’était fait suspendre quelques jours parce qu’il avait fait un thread plutôt problématique. Je pense qu’au début on s’est tous senti mal pour lui mais si sa personnalité en vrai est ne serait-ce qu’un peu similaire à celle présentée ici, je ne suis pas surprise que les gens l’insultent et le rejettent.

 

[DouMan]

Catherine from summum XXX she had a baby and her breast were sagging down her knees, we were talking after i had finish with her at least she gave a good BJJJ.

We talked about relationship and she told me that for what i look like my standards should not be set high. That got me thinking because each time i got insulted by a women the always look like garbage can themselves and are way below average, for some odd reason i said nothing and since she had a horse face and terrible body i never booker her again.

Seriously!!!

This is the way you talk about women! With such ignorant words no doubt this is also the way you see them.

Scary to think ladies that such people try to book with you.

And some still wonder why strict screening exists ...

 

[AirBo]

Pretty sure he'd make a great Trump voter:

• She's garbage
• Horse face
• I wouldn't look at her twice
• Etc

I was indeed way too polite when I said that I empathize. I do not.

If you want to speak THAT BAD about women, go on Truth Social. You'll feel right at home.

 

[Hemme]

L

Pretty sure he'd make a great Trump voter:

• She's garbage
• Horse face
• I wouldn't look at her twice
• Etc

I was indeed way too polite when I said that I empathize. I do not.

If you want to speak THAT BAD about women, go on Truth Social. You'll feel right at home.

Lol ! You ve summed up my thought about the description of Kamala Harris

 

[AirBo]

L

Lol ! You ve summed up my thought about the description of Kamala Harris

Did Kamala ever say something that hurt your feelings?

(Just making sure we stay within the subject of this thread)

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If that man told her that her boobs were sagging to her knees, I fully support her insulting him back

 

[T'storm]

Many years ago I had booked a few days before our meeting to make sure she was ready. I did book for 1 hour and when I arrived I gave her the donation for it and she kept looking at her clock and after only 15 minutes she asked for me to speed up and finish already. I did get some ladies before that could make me explode quickly but we would then go for a second round or would lay down and have pillow talk for the rest of the date.
Any one who would rush any guy like that would be enough to pack and leave which is what I did. Later that day she texted me to give me a deal for another date. She had forgotten our date and had booked someone else that was outside her building waiting to see her. Not cool.

 

[LC18]

i am not a simp like many on here seem to be

 

[Sylar]

I said nothing wrong to her we were just talking about relationship, and its quite normal to point out the obvious, now how many of you had an SP come to your door and did not let her in even if you did not find her attractive.

My way of talking about women, well lets just say that the way they treated me it came to this, i am not a simp like many on here seem to be and let women walk all over them and get used and abused, if someone wrong me i put them back in there place.

But with her it was small talk before she left, i simply said that if i ever meet a women i want to be attracted to her, now she must have though i meant a top model like women which i did not.

On a side note this other situation happen at the SAAQ for my drivers license, i went to take the driving permit photographe that year i was having prolotherapy and PRP and my sport doctor put me on TRT testosterone therapy to speed up the healing, my face was swollen and i gained a lot of weight compared to my other picture.

The old women who took my picture looked at me and said my god sir you change for the worse. Now please tell me what i said to deserve this.

When i was younger and fit we went to this karaoke club, women were fun there beautiful and easy to pick up, yet there was this obese one that kept looking at me and one night she said i am not sure why women go for you, you have a big nose and big ears..... Why did she say that i never spoke to her even looked at her.

So yeah my speaking about women but its true, all the beautiful women i met in my life never insulted me nor other people its always seem to be the below average ones that do this.

So did i tell that Catherine something bad, no i was really nice, and i been nice to all my SP that i book since 2013, but you know that some people are weird. You can't please everyone but for my part if i go back to my last date 8 years ago when i saw the women i said hikes, but still went to eat with her not to be mean, yet she was the one who insulted me saying her ex was much hotter than me and i looked older than my age.

So i wonder what did i say to deserve all those amazing compliments.

Quod erat demonstrandum

 

[AirBo]

I said nothing wrong to her we were just talking about relationship, and its quite normal to point out the obvious, now how many of you had an SP come to your door and did not let her in even if you did not find her attractive.

My way of talking about women, well lets just say that the way they treated me it came to this, i am not a simp like many on here seem to be and let women walk all over them and get used and abused, if someone wrong me i put them back in there place.

But with her it was small talk before she left, i simply said that if i ever meet a women i want to be attracted to her, now she must have though i meant a top model like women which i did not.

On a side note this other situation happen at the SAAQ for my drivers license, i went to take the driving permit photographe that year i was having prolotherapy and PRP and my sport doctor put me on TRT testosterone therapy to speed up the healing, my face was swollen and i gained a lot of weight compared to my other picture.

The old women who took my picture looked at me and said my god sir you change for the worse. Now please tell me what i said to deserve this.

When i was younger and fit we went to this karaoke club, women were fun there beautiful and easy to pick up, yet there was this obese one that kept looking at me and one night she said i am not sure why women go for you, you have a big nose and big ears..... Why did she say that i never spoke to her even looked at her.

So yeah my speaking about women but its true, all the beautiful women i met in my life never insulted me nor other people its always seem to be the below average ones that do this.

So did i tell that Catherine something bad, no i was really nice, and i been nice to all my SP that i book since 2013, but you know that some people are weird. You can't please everyone but for my part if i go back to my last date 8 years ago when i saw the women i said hikes, but still went to eat with her not to be mean, yet she was the one who insulted me saying her ex was much hotter than me and i looked older than my age.

So i wonder what did i say to deserve all those amazing compliments.

I'm not at your place so I cannot judge what you're going through when you relate your experiences. Just note that I said "the way you talk about women", not "the way you talk to women".

Unfortunately, the language you choose to use is utterly shocking to most of us, hence the "amazing comments".

 

[Fradi]

I said nothing wrong to her we were just talking about relationship, and its quite normal to point out the obvious, now how many of you had an SP come to your door and did not let her in even if you did not find her attractive.

My way of talking about women, well lets just say that the way they treated me it came to this, i am not a simp like many on here seem to be and let women walk all over them and get used and abused, if someone wrong me i put them back in there place.

But with her it was small talk before she left, i simply said that if i ever meet a women i want to be attracted to her, now she must have though i meant a top model like women which i did not.

On a side note this other situation happen at the SAAQ for my drivers license, i went to take the driving permit photographe that year i was having prolotherapy and PRP and my sport doctor put me on TRT testosterone therapy to speed up the healing, my face was swollen and i gained a lot of weight compared to my other picture.

The old women who took my picture looked at me and said my god sir you change for the worse. Now please tell me what i said to deserve this.

When i was younger and fit we went to this karaoke club, women were fun there beautiful and easy to pick up, yet there was this obese one that kept looking at me and one night she said i am not sure why women go for you, you have a big nose and big ears..... Why did she say that i never spoke to her even looked at her.

So yeah my speaking about women but its true, all the beautiful women i met in my life never insulted me nor other people its always seem to be the below average ones that do this.

So did i tell that Catherine something bad, no i was really nice, and i been nice to all my SP that i book since 2013, but you know that some people are weird. You can't please everyone but for my part if i go back to my last date 8 years ago when i saw the women i said hikes, but still went to eat with her not to be mean, yet she was the one who insulted me saying her ex was much hotter than me and i looked older than my age.

So i wonder what did i say to deserve all those amazing compliments.

Are you for real.
You are the one that booked her and then turn around and tell her all those things about how ugly she is.
Why would you book someone who you consider so unattractive to you.

You always get insulted ?
Did you ever consider that it could very well be because of how you treat them or the things you say.

If anybody an SP is not going to insult your looks because they don’t really care all that much about your looks but about your hygiene whether or not you are kind and respectful with them and above all that you pay them without quibbling.
SP want your repeat business they are not that stupid to insult your looks and they are probably the most tolerant with looks, they have to be with all the fat old out of shape men they must come across and still put on a smile.

You are wondering why you get all these compliments, start by re-reading the stuff you say about women and then you won’t have to wonder.
You are not a simp if you treat women with respect and kindness and they will return that every time.

 

[Fradi]

So if a women disrespect you, you will let her walk all over you is that it. Like the women at my job who gained a huge amount of weight in the last 2 years, and she told me that i was fat... yet i told her to look in the mirror and ruined her week. Predator 2 office talk i have only one speech, door swings both ways.

I will not be mean nor disrespect someone out of the blue that is not me at all but if someone disrespect me i won't let it slide those days are over. Sorry bud

First of all your original post was about a woman you yourself booked and then later said all the horrible things about her looks.
Why did you book her then ?

The woman at work.
I am sure she didn’t just come out of the blue and insult you and your looks.
Overweight women if they are not happy with their looks are very self conscious and the wrong look or the slightest comment can set them off.
Walk away, they don’t need to be reminded , they all ready know, be the better man.

Just the way you write and talk about women is toxic.
You cannot be saying these type of things unless you have some kind of serious grudge against women or you have been hurt by one so bad.
If you have been hurt, get over it, taking it out on others that have nothing to do with it won’t help.

 

[Fradi]

You sadly have much to learn in this world. I have so many exemples like this but won't post them all. I guess i am the one wondering if you leave in a fantasy world or the real world, kindness are you for real, look around you and tell me people nowadays are kind to each other, LOL that is hilarious. Poor guy get a dose of reality.

Back in 2016 my honda civic after 22 years of loyal service needed to be changed so my car mechanic hooked me up with a man he knew selling a 2008 Ford Focus, i am next to him at the SAAQ he looks at me and says you had a hard life, how old are you 55, i was 45 back then, and he kept on going and going, until i told him do you want me to buy your car or not.

This is how stupid humans are, yes i was phased by is comment the next day i went to the garage and spoke to the cashier she told me what not at all what kind of comment is that you look great. So what can i say

No I don’t live in a fantasy world at all.
I was married to the woman of my dreams for over 35 years who was absolutely gorgeous.
I have had nothing but love and kindness from the women in my life even with the SP I see ( well not love but a lot of kindness).
I never had issues or problems being able to date women, of course we don’t look like we did in our youth, you just need to be able to accept that.
There is no shame in growing old, many people never get the chance.

Just the other day a nice young lady told me I look at least 2 weeks younger than my age.
Compliments are so great to get, I thanked her.


There is nothing I could or would want to learn from you. I don’t want to be miserable.
Learn to appreciate the good things in life and block out the rest.

 

[Mandouke]

I am responsible for my emotional state, no one else, whatever anyone else says or thinks about me is none of my business.

 

[Julia Sky]

Later that day she texted me to give me a deal for another date. She had forgotten our date and had booked someone else that was outside her building waiting to see her. Not cool.

That's so rude. I feel like she should've been honest and told you that she could only do a half hour, or reimburse part of the fee. "A discount next time" is easy to say when she probably knows you won't be back. I'm sorry that happened to you!

 

[LC18]

I have a hard time believing people in their professional work place would call you ugly or tell you you’ve gotten worse.

Colleagues, acquaintances yes sure maybe but people that could lose their job for stealing a pen? I doubt it

 

[Julia Sky]

Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"

 

[Julia Sky]

.....aaaaaand there we have it. The trauma dump about the ex who caused all this.

Therapy is an option, sir.

 

[Fradi]

Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"

This has got to be the post of the year lol.

 

[AirBo]

i am this way because of my life experience

You're gonna have to learn to not let the past dictate your future. Easier said than done.

you think i am miserable i am not

Yes you are. Too much hate in you.

i just decided to see the world how it is, instead of hiding in a dream world that everything is perfect and fine.

You're already deep into the rabbit hole. It will be tough to get out of it.

You don't know me

We already know too much about you.

blue pill men, white knight or simps

No one is throwing names at you here. Just saying...

Should I continue?