Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

[Sylar]

Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"

Considering the times he has mentioned his superhero body of the past, I feel he must have looked like Captain Make America Great Again. I hope he returns in his full vigor to save us from the blue pill men, white knight and simps.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"

That's a pretty good executive summary.

VanHamm, I don't know you but your posts do reek of anger, misogyny and frankly tend to be very judgmental. Therapy and self introspection might help, as well as weight loss. You should take the reactions to your posts, on which there seems to be a community consensus, as constructive criticism. If this is how you communicate with others in person you need to figure out a better strategy for winning friends and influencing people. Recommended reading:

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[hob12]

I feel bad for the bad experiences he went through, we only have his side of the story though, I also went through some rough shit. Life is hard on everybody. But the answer isn't to dive head first into misogyny.

Focus on working on yourself and lay down all that incel crap.

 

[DouMan]

Lol i just can't stop laughing angry me haah

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Look at how shaked all you people are about one post going nuts, insulting me, Julia sky how ya been ha hilarious once more and yet i am enjoying myself watching blade of the immortal and playing borderlands 3.

I wrote songs about my life experience and they are all here, i rejoice because wow i lost so far 15 pounds and i can fit in old clothes. Someone on here once told me you cannot change weak men, and women will always have a final word its not worth it.

Friends or people that will use and abuse you nah sorry been there done that far better on my own, being on your own shows you how to get stronger and you can achieve so much more being a loner and not having weak people around you.

Ho and this very important song did i miss my chance at love and how i really feel about it

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I have been very happy to entertain what seems to be miserable lives but this is truly my last reply to this thread i will let you all have fun bashing me and imagine you know me, even if i am Canadian saying i am a Trump fan LOL and the rest.


Have a great evening people

Sir, with all respect for all concerned I think we should take a step back and re-evaluate.

Either you like to provoke conflicting debates or you are a ticking time bomb.

I, we, really hope that it is not the latter.

Kindly re-evaluate your motives and surroundings first and foremost for yourself.

 

[hob12]

Lol i just can't stop laughing angry me haah

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Look at how shaked all you people are about one post going nuts, insulting me, Julia sky how ya been ha hilarious once more and yet i am enjoying myself watching blade of the immortal and playing borderlands 3.

I wrote songs about my life experience and they are all here, i rejoice because wow i lost so far 15 pounds and i can fit in old clothes. Someone on here once told me you cannot change weak men, and women will always have a final word its not worth it.

Friends or people that will use and abuse you nah sorry been there done that far better on my own, being on your own shows you how to get stronger and you can achieve so much more being a loner and not having weak people around you.

Ho and this very important song did i miss my chance at love and how i really feel about it

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I have been very happy to entertain what seems to be miserable lives but this is truly my last reply to this thread i will let you all have fun bashing me and imagine you know me, even if i am Canadian saying i am a Trump fan LOL and the rest.


Have a great evening people

Wow

You shouldn't show that stuff to strangers.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Isn’t it the right time for a mod to clean this thread? I’m seriously asking,

 

[DouMan]

Isn’t it the right time for a mod to clean this thread? I’m seriously asking,

Of course it's up to Mods' decision but it more or less still follows the subject line, even though being disturbing.

It shows human nature in darker shades either as provocation, extremist beliefs or then again possibly a more fragile mind-set.

These are part of real life disturbing or not, they are there.

It also gives an insight at different aspects that our ladies must face or when possible avoid in their not always safe workspace.

Removing certain comments may certainly follow board rules but unfortunately and sadly the underlying problems remain and should be kept in mind.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Of course it's up to Mods' decision but it more or less still follows the subject line, even though being disturbing.

It shows human nature in darker shades either as provocation, extremist beliefs or then again possibly a more fragile mind-set.

These are part of real life disturbing or not, they are there.

It also gives an insight at different aspects that our ladies must face or when possible avoid in their not always safe workspace.

Removing certain comments may certainly follow board rules but unfortunately and sadly the underlying problems remain and should be kept in mind.

I think my concern with comments like these is that they come from a place of deep rooted pain and that doesn't get addressed, whether or not they get erased. Hatred comes from a place of hurt, and there are ways to tend to those wounds in healthier ways than others.. Hate generates hate and acceptance generates acceptance, in my opinion
I don't like seeing a colleague I appreciate very much getting insulted on here, personally.. and I wouldn't think it's okay to insult a client who did nothing wrong either.

 

[Sylar]

The mods already cleaned up and the guy has been suspended for a month, so I won't be shooting back. (He called me the N word last time and a Simp this time around)
I hope his attitude changes when he returns. And if f not, nothing of value was lost.

 

[LC18]

Well that was a ride.

Anyone else has a story to share? Respectfully and politely

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Pour en revenir à nos moutons:

Dernièrement, après une session avec une demoiselle un peu trop jeune pour moi ( plan C), on discutait sur l’oreiller à la fin de nos ébats.

Inévitablement la conversation s’est dirigé sur les écarts d’âge entre SPs et clients. Comme elle essayait de deviner mon âge et qu’elle était passablement dans le champ, probablement pour me flatter un peu beaucoup, je lui ai dit de s’approcher et de bien me regarder.

L’éclairage étant très tamisée, elle s’est exécutée en approchant son visage à 10 pouces du mien et m’a examiné consciencieusement pendant une vingtaine de secondes pour finalement s’exclamer: OMFG!!!

 

[Sylar]

If it takes a woman 20 seconds of close inspection to determine that you are old, I'd take that as a win.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If it takes a woman 20 seconds of close inspection to determine that you are old, I'd take that as a win.

Honestly, I wasn’t even close to being offended, I burst out laughing while she was hiding her face in the pillow! Lmao

From my perspective, we just had spent some 40 minutes having good sex and she seemed quite pleased with my body, so yeah, it sure is a win. After all, the age gap was a solid 40 years!!!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Honestly, I wasn’t even close to being offended, I burst out laughing while she was hiding her face in the pillow! Lmao

From my perspective, we just had spent some 40 minutes having good sex and she seemed quite pleased with my body, so yeah, it sure is a win. After all, the age gap was a solid 40 years!!!

Side note here: she was hiding her face in the pillow because she was a bit ashamed of her reaction, not because of my appearance!

 

[Fradi]

Side note here: she was hiding her face in the pillow because she was a bit ashamed of her reaction, not because of my appearance!

My appearance is always well camouflaged by $$$$$$.
The chameleon effect is amazing and works every time.

 

[Jordan23]

When I started hobbying at around 19 years old, I set up an appt with an SP that I was eyeing for a while and was looking forward to it. Day finally arrives and we hit it off from the start; convo was flowing before any action and she asked how many girls I talk too and if any of them know that I do "this"; I said yeah I have a GF but she doesn't know (not true lol ) soo 17 minutes later we're done and end up sitting on her balcony just chatting; she causally states "girls are with you for your face and not your skills in the bedroom." Thanks I guess? I was punching the air the entire walk back to my car lol.

 

[peachy]

When I started hobbying at around 19 years old, I set up an appt with an SP that I was eyeing for a while and was looking forward to it. Day finally arrives and we hit it off from the start; convo was flowing before any action and she asked how many girls I talk too and if any of them know that I do "this"; I said yeah I have a GF but she doesn't know (not true lol ) soo 17 minutes later we're done and end up sitting on her balcony just chatting; she causally states "girls are with you for your face and not your skills in the bedroom." Thanks I guess? I was punching the air the entire walk back to my car lol.

I guess to be fair. none of us were any good in bed at that age. Or at least, the vast majority of men. Having said that, maybe she could have used more tact.

 

[Workingman]

I guess to be fair. none of us were any good in bed at that age. Or at least, the vast majority of men. Having said that, maybe she could have used more tact.

The best thing a woman can do for a guy is tell him he sucks in bed....so he can make an effort to improve.

 

[peachy]

The best thing a woman can do for a guy is tell him he sucks in bed....so he can make an effort to improve.

Good point.

 

[Fetishman#1]

Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"

Take care of yourself like I do inside and out and be your best! It will be fine!