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Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

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Isn’t it the right time for a mod to clean this thread? I’m seriously asking, ;)
Of course it's up to Mods' decision but it more or less still follows the subject line, even though being disturbing.

It shows human nature in darker shades either as provocation, extremist beliefs or then again possibly a more fragile mind-set.

These are part of real life disturbing or not, they are there.

It also gives an insight at different aspects that our ladies must face or when possible avoid in their not always safe workspace.

Removing certain comments may certainly follow board rules but unfortunately and sadly the underlying problems remain and should be kept in mind.
 

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Of course it's up to Mods' decision but it more or less still follows the subject line, even though being disturbing.

It shows human nature in darker shades either as provocation, extremist beliefs or then again possibly a more fragile mind-set.

These are part of real life disturbing or not, they are there.

It also gives an insight at different aspects that our ladies must face or when possible avoid in their not always safe workspace.

Removing certain comments may certainly follow board rules but unfortunately and sadly the underlying problems remain and should be kept in mind.
I think my concern with comments like these is that they come from a place of deep rooted pain and that doesn't get addressed, whether or not they get erased. Hatred comes from a place of hurt, and there are ways to tend to those wounds in healthier ways than others.. Hate generates hate and acceptance generates acceptance, in my opinion :)
I don't like seeing a colleague I appreciate very much getting insulted on here, personally.. and I wouldn't think it's okay to insult a client who did nothing wrong either.
 
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Cap'tain Fantastic

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Pour en revenir à nos moutons:

Dernièrement, après une session avec une demoiselle un peu trop jeune pour moi ( plan C), on discutait sur l’oreiller à la fin de nos ébats.

Inévitablement la conversation s’est dirigé sur les écarts d’âge entre SPs et clients. Comme elle essayait de deviner mon âge et qu’elle était passablement dans le champ, probablement pour me flatter un peu beaucoup, je lui ai dit de s’approcher et de bien me regarder.

L’éclairage étant très tamisée, elle s’est exécutée en approchant son visage à 10 pouces du mien et m’a examiné consciencieusement pendant une vingtaine de secondes pour finalement s’exclamer: OMFG!!!
 

Cap'tain Fantastic

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If it takes a woman 20 seconds of close inspection to determine that you are old, I'd take that as a win.
Honestly, I wasn’t even close to being offended, I burst out laughing while she was hiding her face in the pillow! Lmao

From my perspective, we just had spent some 40 minutes having good sex and she seemed quite pleased with my body, so yeah, it sure is a win. After all, the age gap was a solid 40 years!!! ;)
 

Cap'tain Fantastic

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Honestly, I wasn’t even close to being offended, I burst out laughing while she was hiding her face in the pillow! Lmao

From my perspective, we just had spent some 40 minutes having good sex and she seemed quite pleased with my body, so yeah, it sure is a win. After all, the age gap was a solid 40 years!!! ;)
Side note here: she was hiding her face in the pillow because she was a bit ashamed of her reaction, not because of my appearance! ;)
 
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When I started hobbying at around 19 years old, I set up an appt with an SP that I was eyeing for a while and was looking forward to it. Day finally arrives and we hit it off from the start; convo was flowing before any action and she asked how many girls I talk too and if any of them know that I do "this"; I said yeah I have a GF but she doesn't know (not true lol ) soo 17 minutes later we're done and end up sitting on her balcony just chatting; she causally states "girls are with you for your face and not your skills in the bedroom." Thanks I guess? I was punching the air the entire walk back to my car lol.
 

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When I started hobbying at around 19 years old, I set up an appt with an SP that I was eyeing for a while and was looking forward to it. Day finally arrives and we hit it off from the start; convo was flowing before any action and she asked how many girls I talk too and if any of them know that I do "this"; I said yeah I have a GF but she doesn't know (not true lol ) soo 17 minutes later we're done and end up sitting on her balcony just chatting; she causally states "girls are with you for your face and not your skills in the bedroom." Thanks I guess? I was punching the air the entire walk back to my car lol.
I guess to be fair. none of us were any good in bed at that age. Or at least, the vast majority of men. Having said that, maybe she could have used more tact.
 

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Lol why does every post from this vanhamm guy sound the same... They could all be summed up in one post that says :

"I gained weight and I'm ugly and stupid and judgemental but women have horse faces and awful bodies... I don't understand why people are insulting me and rejecting me though? I'm literally a gentleman, bitch"
Take care of yourself like I do inside and out and be your best! It will be fine!
 
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I question the statement, when refering to women as females. The pet peeve to most women, and an instant redflag to many SPs.
I'm not completely bilingual but what about males? Is it like hard humping dogs with their balls?
 

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They almost always say men and females too. This one hasn’t but ca ne saurait tarder.

If that’s who I think it is then that’s breaking of merb’s rules. You can’t create a new account to go around suspension
 

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Not just a red flag for SPs or women. I don't understand people who use female as a noun.
Is it just me? But the responce in context from the post made by Julia,
Is Fetishman#1, Vanhamm???
Just seems pretty sus that is the first response and one in defense of her comment.

Either way when it is worded as female, I question are we refering to just human women.
 
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That's exactly what I was insinuating and I am sure that many will think the same. The mods will check it out and take actions if needed.
Lol. Yeah.... I'm pretty bad with this kind of thing. I'm the worst when it comes to jokes. It's the kind of nerodivergent I am. Either I am a funny punchline effect on my own after, or I ruin a joke by explaining the funny part to myself :rolleyes: seeing myself in videos after the fact, I am very much a facepalm effect.

Some find it endearing, some me included find it annoying, I just can't help the cringe I am at times.
 
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I question the statement, when refering to women as females. The pet peeve to most women, and an instant redflag to many SPs.

Something I just found out today, and why is that? I don't think men are offended by being called males.
 
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