Did you even go on a trip with a SB or escort?

[urquell]

You could just go to the resort by yourself and see girls when you're next able to have them come to you, or go to incall girls

No, you can't. Or at least you can't have them come back to the resort with you. Non-guests aren't permitted. You could, however, staying with the Dominican example, go to Punta Cana for example and find someone offsite with whom to indulge (if you know how. Fortunately I do) but then you need to arrange for a ST room in order to hang with the girl unless they are willing to take you back to their place (many are not). Also, good luck finding explicitly incall girls in Dominican resort towns. If the girls there relied on that then they'd starve to death. Most of them rely on picking up clueless tourists in discos at an outrageous rate in USD. Lastly, you can do both. You can leave your girl onsite at the resort and go see another offsite if you want to. You're not tied at the hip and there will be many instances where you could be doing your own thing. Lastly, it costs you virtually nothing extra so why wouldn't you? Remember too that this is just a single instance of an example where it might be beneficial to bring someone. Don't get too locked into just this one example.

 

[Fradi]

I'm guess I'm kind of misunderstanding what you're saying

I thought the point was to go on vacation with a chick for the non-sexual experiences and the sex is just a bonus on top

So getting with a chick your age through normal dating would probably be sufficient for that

If the goal is to get an attractive and young girl for fucking, you're better off just booking girls for short meets at the location you happen to be at

And if you want both, an attractive young girl for fucking and to take her on vacation, well now you're kind of just being unrealistic

I want someone from the sky to come down and hand me a million dollars too, but there's no chance I'm ever gonna get that

Why do you think having a young attractive girl go on a vacation with you who you have known for years as an escort is unrealistic.?
It is totally realistic and I am working on making it happen.

There are certain vacations when you are basically paying a huge part of the vacation for 2 anyway. An all inclusive is one where except for the air fare you are paying for 2 a cruise is another where you are paying for 2. I just came back from a Mediterranean family cruise where I paid for a balcony cabin for 2 and I was alone in it.
Obviously I couldn’t exactly bring along an escort on a family cruise.

Having someone come down and hand you a million is the only unrealistic scenario you mentioned, the others just depend on your relationship with the young lady and $$$$.
It is not a comparison of what you are better off with financially, but what makes you happy and why you would want that particular person to be with you.

Actually I would take her on a vacation with or without intimacy being part of it as I enjoy her company and she has more than earned it the way she has treated me for so many years. Not everything can be measured in money, there are people who’s kindness can never be repaid with money.

 

[merbuser1221]

No, you can't. Or at least you can't have them come back to the resort with you. Non-guests aren't permitted. You could, however, staying with the Dominican example, go to Punta Cana for example and find someone offsite with whom to indulge (if you know how. Fortunately I do) but then you need to arrange for a ST room in order to hang with the girl unless they are willing to take you back to their place (many are not). Also, good luck finding explicitly incall girls in Dominican resort towns. If the girls there relied on that then they'd starve to death. Most of them rely on picking up clueless tourists in discos at an outrageous rate in USD. Lastly, you can do both. You can leave your girl onsite at the resort and go see another offsite if you want to. You're not tied at the hip and there will be many instances where you could be doing your own thing. Lastly, it costs you virtually nothing extra so why wouldn't you? Remember too that this is just a single instance of an example where it might be beneficial to bring someone. Don't get too locked into just this one example.

I was saying generally that the monger could do incalls if that's available

Why do you think having a young attractive girl go on a vacation with you who you have known for years as an escort is unrealistic.?
It is totally realistic and I am working on making it happen.

There are certain vacations when you are basically paying a huge part of the vacation for 2 anyway. An all inclusive is one where except for the air fare you are paying for 2 a cruise is another where you are paying for 2. I just came back from a Mediterranean family cruise where I paid for a balcony cabin for 2 and I was alone in it.
Obviously I couldn’t exactly bring along an escort on a family cruise.

Having someone come down and hand you a million is the only unrealistic scenario you mentioned, the others just depend on your relationship with the young lady and $$$$.
It is not a comparison of what you are better off with financially, but what makes you happy and why you would want that particular person to be with you.

Actually I would take her on a vacation with or without intimacy being part of it as I enjoy her company and she has more than earned it the way she has treated me for so many years. Not everything can be measured in money, there are people who’s kindness can never be repaid with money.

She's still a woman you've met through paying, she isn't a genuine partner

 

[urquell]

I was saying generally that the monger could do incalls if that's available

I know that, hence my "sand to the beach" comments earlier, but it doesn't apply to what I was discussing as an example. Of course you can do that in many instances, and most mongers generally would most of the time, but there's also instances in which you can't or where you don't want to. The example I gave is one of them, potentially. There's no way I would go to Pattaya and bring an escort with me because frankly that would be stupid. What people seem to be missing is that there's a middle ground here where you can take someone with you somewhere without having to bring them from home. It's usually more practical for any of a number of reasons to grab someone from the country you're visiting or within the same geographic region of countries rather than bringing someone from home. People also ignore that the social dynamics are different for this kind of travel arrangement and that they needn't always necessarily be the same as they would if you were bringing a romantic partner with you. People seem to want to insist on comparing or equating the two types of relationships and that's neither practical nor empirically what happens in this type of adventure.

 

[Fradi]

She's still a woman you've met through paying, she isn't a genuine partner

I never said she was a genuine partner and I would never want her to be either.
She deserves someone her own age who will give her the love and lifetime companionship that I had in my life.
I am perfectly happy with our friendship the way it is.

 

[EastWind]

For those who have travelled with an SP how many days was it.

The Merb record is one month. A once very active Merb member took an SP who advertised here to visit Vietnam and nearby countries for a whole month for the price from what was mentioned was $10,000.

 

[kkrack]

I went to toronto, spent 4 days having sex at night, I think she wanted to date me. It is not as good as I thought it would be I didnt sleep well at night.

She wanted to walk holding hands it felt weird to me, after it she just stoped talking to me when i told her i had a girlfriend (a lie I just wanted to create some distance)

yeah not that interesting

 

[EastWind]

I went to toronto, spent 4 days having sex at night, I think she wanted to date me. It is not as good as I thought it would be I didnt sleep well at night.

She wanted to walk holding hands it felt weird to me, after it she just stoped talking to me when i told her i had a girlfriend (a lie I just wanted to create some distance)

yeah not that interesting

Yeah I get it. Also just goes to show how you genuinely feel about her. When an SP gets too girlfriendish they lose their appeal very quickly.

 

[kkrack]

Haha yeah, that's exactly right.

it's so weird I think I feel the same with regular women but then I think she's so much more than just sex. I envision sharing my life etc. But when it is purely for sex yeah the interest dissipates quickly.