Dinner date?

[nuprin001]

Just thinking out loud: when I visit Montreal, I'm solo. But Montreal has some excellent restaurants that it would be a shame to visit alone. That in mind, how does a dinner date with an escort work? I've previously only contacted companions for the usual, not for an actual date.

Say, for a dinner-then-back-to-my-hotel arrangement, what would an agency charge? If we're enjoying dinner, talking and such, does that time cut into the "after" time? Do we meet at the restaurant, eat, and then take a cab back to the hotel? Or do we meet at the hotel, cab to the restaurant, then back to the hotel? I'm curious about the logistics.

Just in the very vague pre-planning stages right now, though I'd love to hear how the various agencies and/or independents handle this sort of thing.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Gabrielle Garnier has a 4 hour dinner/meeting package that looks pretty good, she advertises here.

 

[funnyricky]

Pretty much all the ladies offer this kind of service,just ask the lady and they will tell you! But your better with indy's than agency for sure! ;-)

 

[Lily from Montreal]

That's what I was about to say,for that type of meeting go the indy route...I don't meet social but I know Tiannas does ,just ask...
Loll was just telling about your dinner date...

 

[Maria Divina]

Each indy is different, from my part, I have possibilities of 5 hours dinner date and 8 hours dinner date.

I go and meet you first at your hotel, we can take the time to take a sexy apero together privately.

After, we go to the restaurant by taxi (because not drink and drive) , if the walking distance is too far or if it is raining.

We're having dinner or lunch (depending of the moment of the day) and

we go back to your place for some sexy after digestive exchanges.

All this could obviously be adapted to your desire. This is just an example.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

After a couple of dinners with someone we tried sex first and dinner after, found it better than having sex on a full stomach.
Just my opinion.

 

[rollingstone]

Agree with Sol Tee Nutz on the order of things/

Agencies charge a flat rate and it does not matter if it includes dinner or not. For dinner dates I would also recommend going the indy route. Generally, from my experience, if you do 4 hours the expectation is that you will dine in the hotel restaurant (not in-room though). Since I generally do not like hotel restaurants (there are exceptions though) 6 hours is the minimum I would book for a dinner date.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I do not eat before sex so when I meet for lunch date guess what's on the menu? lol

I've only went on diner date with favourites and it was off the clock as I do not offer social.

I've been asked to meet for a coffee ''to decide if we'll continue'' but that's a no-no too,either we meet or we don't...

 

[Mithridate]

I was curious too about the order of things, since i have never done that, so between a 5 hours dinner date and 8 hours date, you can choose to take more time for the dinner part or less time and vice et versa?
And are dinner date are tied only with outcall?
Its a noob question I know, but it could be useful in the future
Qapla
M

 

[Jamesrenard44]

Planification is nice but you need to go with the flow. Prepare your budget for an 8 hour session at her regular price. You'll then be ready to go with the flow and to adapt the rendezvous to the intention that you have on the moment. Sometimes, you wanna have sex right away, sometimes a great glass of wine will put you in a situation you wouldn't could have predict. I believe dinner date are to threat yourself, so do it!

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I was curious too about the order of things, since i have never done that, so between a 5 hours dinner date and 8 hours date, you can choose to take more time for the dinner part or less time and vice et versa?

I have seen a few ads and it is usually 50/50 time wise, on a 4 hr dinner date do not expect 3.5 hrs sex and a A&W drive through ( extreme example but ).

 

[Stockton]

Say, for a dinner-then-back-to-my-hotel arrangement, what would an agency charge?

Not all agencies offer this. I remember seeing one or two that very specifically had social rates listed on their site, though I can't remember which agencies they are. The ones that don't, you should assume they don't. Of course you can always ask the booker about it. In most cases those SPs don't want to be seen in public with clients.

But like most posters say indies are better for this as they would be more flexible.

And are dinner date are tied only with outcall?

There's no reason why this should be the case. If the SP normally offers incall, you should be able to work it out most of the time.

 

[Rod Blagojevich]

I prefer to put my SP time to more productive use than conversation. I get conversation galore, it is sex I need.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I prefer to put my SP time to more productive use than conversation. I get conversation galore, it is sex I need.

For someone who is in town and does not know anyone dinner company is always preferred, too many excellent eating estiblishments to not want to go out.
Just my opinion...

 

[Mithridate]

I think it is very personal, and I would not feel like my self esteem is going down the drain.
When you are single and at my age , 62 , dating has become very complex, if you are not the type who socialize much, you end up without having a lot of friends, and i am perfectly at ease with that.
So either I go alone in a restaurant and buy my self a Chateau Margaux 1949 ( a exaggerate a bit ), but stil I will be alone, I would rather pay to have company and buy a Penfolds Grange 2009 ( a exaggerate again )
Remember the movie "Sideways" the guy end up alone in a cheap restaurant drinking a 1961 Chateau Cheval Blanc, that is sad, especially a 1961
Qapla
M

 

[Mithridate]

Unfortunately that all came crashing down a few years ago with cancer taking my wife and I don't think I will ever recover from that.
Like you, I have no intention of dating, that would not be fair, I have nothing to offer a lady of my own age. It would always be an unfair comparison to which she could never live up to.
Hope that explains a little of why I feel like this.

You have my sympathy sir, I know what it is to lose a dear one of this dreadful sickness, my father past away when I was 17 of a cancer.
Unlike you i have no children, even if I have been married twice, and my two brothers have no children either, but I understand fully that when you are surrounded by friends and family, it is not something that you need in the absolute
So sometime I need to talk, and the few ladies I have met in the last 20 years in this world of SP and even MP, were always very nice and I would go as far as tender to listen to me in between pleasures.
Qapla
M

 

[nuprin001]

I don't think I could ever pay someone to have dinner with me. To me it seems that once you have reached that stage there is not much left of your self esteem.
Sure I can justify doing it for sex with a beautiful SP because there are very few women that I find attractive enough in the 40-50 age group.

And it is not even about the money, I would happily pay even twice the amount of the session to have dinner (off the clock) with the SP if she wanted to and we both had the time , but to pay anyone just to talk to you and have dinner with you I find that just way too weird and demeaning.

I guess we all have our own strange quirks.

Well, I wouldn't be paying her to have dinner with me. I'd be paying her for the fun after dinner, and paying her a bit more to go out and have dinner with me beforehand.

Take, for example, Tianna, the first young lady who responded to this thread. Her usual rate for 3 hours (her minimum dinner date) would be $620. A dinner date would be $470. That's pretty reasonable. Assuming we'd be eating for an hour and then be back to the hotel for 2 hours (it'd probably go the other way, balance wise, but let's say), I would be paying a young lady $50 (plus cost of dinner itself) to have dinner with me at a wonderful restaurant, to talk about something other than how she likes to copulate. Knowing the person you're having sex with, even just a little, makes it much better, in my experience. I'm not looking for the next step up from a blowup doll: I'm looking for an interesting person who will also physically stimulate me.

Thank you for the information and advice, ladies and gentlemen.

 

[Numerati]

I did my fair share of dinner dates. Not with every SP but with a good number of them. From personal experiences the overall encounter is much better than just a two hour fuck and good bye. The SP realizes she is not being treated as some object because there is a good organic flow of conversation where we get to know each other. I don't mind paying some woman to eat. I mean I can afford it no problem. It is just money. But using that money to open myself up to great experiences, that is what money is meant to be. Well for me. Just imagine out of all the chaos and unknown out there I get to meet an amazing woman whom I would never know existed if this hobby in Montreal never existed. Okay I am not looking for love and happily ever after. I know the reality of this game. It is what it is. A possible brief encounter so I am going to make the best of it if she is worth it. For me that is the dinner date.

 

[Thor Jr]

I do not eat before sex so when I meet for lunch date guess what's on the menu? lol

I've only went on diner date with favourites and it was off the clock as I do not offer social.

I've been asked to meet for a coffee ''to decide if we'll continue'' but that's a no-no too,either we meet or we don't...

So, desert first and appetizers second? What about an after dinner mint?

Thor Jr

 

[Lily from Montreal]

If I have desserts (the food kind) I only have desserts...mind you for longer meeting then 2hr I warn my date he has to feed me...chocolate ,fruits and wine is a ideal lunch menu for me lol