A lot of times the overnights started at 8:00 PM so sexy time, sleep and then more sexy time in the morning before breakfast.
Dinner dates and overnights
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A lot of times the overnights started at 8:00 PM so sexy time, sleep and then more sexy time in the morning before breakfast.
I always end up without a blanket during overnights and I’m too shy to fight for it so I just freeze. That’s probably what’s keeping me awake
Even today, I still wake up some mornings with nothing left but myself on a raw mattress, all pillows, blankets and sheets on the floor. And when I had a lover sleeping over I would find her on the couch in the morning with the grumpy face and the attitude that comes with it! No, I am not a good sleeping partner, past the cuddling part I turn into an uncontrollable, unconscious tornado!
I wouldn't subject anyone to my snoring and paying someone to endure it is kind of sadistic lol.
I fully understand why people would rather do the dinner at the end of a date. Dinner dates appeal to me because I am pretty shy so having the dinner first gives me a bit more time to get comfortable.
I fully understand why people would rather do the dinner at the end of a date. Dinner dates appeal to me because I am pretty shy so having the dinner first gives me a bit more time to get comfortable.
I did an overnight once… never again. It was with a lady I knew for quite a while. I visited her many times for a 1 hour rendezvous. We got along well and had a great time. Good conversation. Good connection. Or so I thought… at least for an hour! But as the dinner started to drag on, I soon realized I made a mistake. Conversation was fine at the beginning… but it wore thin after a while. Back at the hotel, the activities were great… for the first hour… then it became a little awkward. It was getting late so we decided to get some sleep. She snores like thunder… I couldn’t sleep. Then she was uncomfortable and couldn’t sleep. Had a little fun but I wasn’t really into it… I wanted to sleep! Anyway… morning couldn’t come fast enough. Never saw her again after that. Just kind of spoiled what we had. So… never again.
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I’ve been wanting to try that with my Twitter posts about Montreal, I think that could be easily done. I just haven’t found the right package and rate yet.
I don’t want it to be too expensive as per usual I’m overthinking it
For overnights, I think the expectation is far different than the reality.
Expectation: I think most clients are going to expect some marathon all night love making F-fest session like you are on a runaway freight train car to China, interspersed with refractory periods of recovery and nap time. Waking up to a BBBJ is amazing. Basically sex on demand as many time as you can get it up in the night. Nudge the SP out of their sleep.
Reality: A hot vigorous session before dinner, a nice meal together, another lighter session before cuddles, pillow talk and sleep, morning sex, shower together, breakfast.
Never done an overnight with an SP, only really have tried only one extended dinner date ever. I go back and forth on whether I would want to eat dinner at first or in between. I would want to maximize time in room but, I also get the empty stomach thing. My dinner date I ended up just having a salad and getting the entree to go.
I really would like to make a dinner for an SP though in a nice Airbnb with a kitchen sometime. I think the only hesitation to do that is what foods does the SP like, allergies, etc.
Dinner in the room, apartment or suite could be very nice. I think instead of an overnight, I would be more apt to do a long weekend or 4 days away with an SP to a tropical island. Like travel day 1, two full beach and sun days 2 and 3 in Aruba(pick a destination), travel back day 4.
There are some reddit threads on the subject of overnights and opinions vary. Some of the "SPs" wrote don't wake me to or expect a punch in the face to I will go all night long provided the tip is appropriate.
One last thing on the subject of dinner. The Netflix special You are What You Eat that followed the Stanford study of 23 pairs of identical twins for 8 weeks on Carnivore and Omnivore diets has a interesting part on sexual response before the diet and at end of 8 weeks. I like finding studies on diet and sex enjoyment.
Her limit was 60 mins.
Some people think “I enjoy dates with my clients, I could see them for longer” but then don’t realize they have an inner timer and after the time is up, it starts showing.
I have never had someone asked me if we would have sex for the 16 hours they’d book me. I think everyone understands that we will sleep.
If someone asked, I would simply decline their request or charge them a lot more which would have them take their request back.
I don't mean 16 hours straight but, I think there are some clients who would think it would be ok to wake the SP throughout the night out of their sleep if they wanted to go again. Sleep is way too important to me with regard to stress and cortisol levels, DNA cell repair, autophagy etc. I probably rely way too much on my fitness tracker to check my sleep score. I think I sleep better alone. When I was cat sitting for someone, it was startling when the cat would walk on me in the night.
I've read stories of couples who sleep in separate beds/rooms after sex or even on nights they don't have sex.. Even heard a term for couples that took separate honeymoons after their wedding. Think it was called unimoon. Strange to me but, I guess I can see it. I get a lot out of traveling alone.
Some friends of mine went on a Mediterranean cruise recently and were trying to convince me to come. I didn't like the time constraints in the different ports and don't want to feel tied down to the group itinerary or worry about the ship leaving without me. What is the point of seeing the Acropolis if I only have 30 minutes to enjoy it and snap a picture before moving onto the next thing?
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It’s never happened to me and I’ve never been asked but I guess only a few people actually ask me for overnights and they’re respectful enough to know not to wake someone up in the middle of the night.
My experience with overnights is that my lover is very eager to have sex all night but have eyes bigger than their stomach And after two or three (how do you call em? ah yes ''shot on goal'' lmao) they are satisfied and want to play video games or order food, watch a movie while cuddling, etc... What you want as a service should guide who you choose as a provider. If you want a more sex-driven meeting, meet someone that offer PSE. If you want cuddles, pillow talk as well as sexy times, a more balanced GFE session should satisfy you. Either way, I personnally would ''test'' my connection with a provider before commiting for a long period of time with them. Maybe take a dinner date before an overnight? You will have a better time if you have common interests and the conversation flow. My two cents.
And after two or three (how do you call em? ah yes ''shot on goal'' lmao) they are satisfied and want to play video games or order food, watch a movie while cuddling, etc... What you want as a service should guide who you choose as a provider. If you want a more sex-driven meeting, meet someone that offer PSE. If you want cuddles, pillow talk as well as sexy times, a more balanced GFE session should satisfy you. Either way, I personnally would ''test'' my connection with a provider before commiting for a long period of time with them. Maybe take a dinner date before an overnight? You will have a better time if you have common interests and the conversation flow. My two cents.Great observation. Time to come up with new metaphors besides shots on goal. Begs the question who was the first person to come up with that. In my head I hear a Spanish language soccer announcer yelling GOOOAAALLLLL!My experience with overnights is that my lover is very eager to have sex all night but have eyes bigger than their stomach
I have this crazy idea we should not focus on ejaculation lmao I know I'm crazyyy
SOG makes me think of soggy
SOG makes me think of soggy
Often prior to a ‘date’ i’ll go for a quick workout at the gym in order to tune-up my body (e.g. small weights, walking on a threadmill, stretching exercises & sit-ups to firm up my abs) but it’s mostly for psychological reasons. To convince myself that my body is in the best shape it can be for an enjoyable session. Having sex after a meal has always made me feel like a whale!
On one of my last such dinner dates i was fine with just going out for dinner. So i didn’t hold myself in indulging since I didn’t figure there’d be any intimacy after dinner & my dinner guest was also quite aware of my routine (fun before dinner not after) since we had frequently been out on a dinner date in the past. However she caught me by surprise that night. As we were walking back to my hotel where she had parked her car she told me she had time to come up for a drink before calling it the night. So i said sure, why not. But as soon as we got into the room i didn’t even have time to ask her what i could get her when she bluntly said “Okay now take your pants off & sit down. I’m gonna give you a blowjob before i leave.” I was totally caught off guard and replied “Right now? Just like that?” She answered “Yes, just like that. Now take your pants off & sit down. I’m giving you a blowjob.” I did what she said & told her “You really don’t have to…” But by then she was already kneeling in front of me & she wasn’t even listening to me anymore….Lol. Funny but this small act alone turned this into one of the most memorable dinner dates i ever had! Lol
Do you think if you had to do something more vigorous than a BBBJ, that you would have been ok performing on a full stomach?
Probably but i would have been less than 50% of my peak performance. I know some guys don’t care as much about fucking as i do & are satisfied just lying there on their backs & let the girl do all the work but that’s never been me. I love to be in control & give 110% effort in all my encounters whether it’s with an sp or someone i’ve met in my personal life.
Maybe because it’s summer, maybe because I’ve promoted them well enough but it seems like dinner dates and overnights are more popular during summer.
I’ve had a few in the past few weeks and that made me realize that I need to rearrange my rates so that they’re more alluring and affordable. I really like the “let’s take our time” vibe. I’m more of a woman you want to take your time with and never want to let go.
It might be why people will stay forever in my doorframe after our date. Who knew fixing your shoes would take so long…and they came wearing flip flops
I’ve had a few in the past few weeks and that made me realize that I need to rearrange my rates so that they’re more alluring and affordable. I really like the “let’s take our time” vibe. I’m more of a woman you want to take your time with and never want to let go.
It might be why people will stay forever in my doorframe after our date. Who knew fixing your shoes would take so long…and they came wearing flip flops
They are! I have so many dinner dates and longer bookings this summer. It might be because it's my birthday month, but August is popular too so I am sure summer itself is a reason!
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