Do SPs prefer older clients

[CydoniaNights]

Well like I said I didn't make the post in a very negative way, I don't get bad encounters often... I love to talk and I do talk a lot too, especially between rounds I can get lost in a conversation and forget to go again lol.
I do get a lot of SPs telling me I could get a girlfriend too but I always chalk it up to them being nice and trying to make me feel good about myself lol.

This so much lol, the amount of girls in this bussiness telling me I should have a gf. Honey I know, problem is im here cause I can’t get one. Still it’s flattering none the less. I remember my old regular used to ask me everytime I saw her if I found a gf yet and it was always no, and she would always say « it can’t be, you are such a sweetheart put yourself out there »

Maybe one day soon

 

[Fradi]

I do not think many SP's think, Yeah a 60 yr old, sure glad he is not 25. And yes, SP's tell you what you want to hear.

I don’t believe for a minute that an SP would lie to you and tell you what you want to hear.
There is no amount of $$ that would convince them to do that.
They just love older dudes it is a known fact, just accept it.

 

[EagerBeaver]

This so much lol, the amount of girls in this bussiness telling me I should have a gf.

You can believe whatever it is you want to believe, but all SPs say things like this to clients because they know it's what they want to hear. Most guys like to have their ego stroked, some need it and some crave it, and this is no revelation to most SPs. Please give them some credit for doing their jobs, and doing them well. Do you really expect an SP to say to you, "dude, good luck finding a girlfriend you putz", if she really believed that? I think you do not give proper credit to SPs for simply doing their jobs and recognizing that they are pros.

You call it "lying", I say it's looking at a glass as half full and giving a client a good service. In every job known to mankind good customer service involves making the customer feel important. Is the car salesman who greets you by saying, "you look like a BMW kind of guy" lying, even if there is no such thing as a "BMW kind of guy"? NO, he is making a sale which is his job. An SP's job is to get you to repeat and part of that is building a connection and rapport and helping you feel good about yourself, just in case you don't.

 

[The Nature Boy]

I love to talk and I do talk a lot too, especially between rounds I can get lost in a conversation and forget to go again lol.
I do get a lot of SPs telling me I could get a girlfriend too but I always chalk it up to them being nice and trying to make me feel good about myself lol.

Hi Sam,

You sound like a really sweet bloke mate. Thank you for sharing your stories. Don’t worry too much about the age thing. There are old fuckers who are pricks and younglins like your self who I’m sure many chics in MTL would have a toot to spend time with.

There are some SP’s who tend to prefer elder gents because they are less likely to just jam it in, but you seem like you have that part figured out.

You are a young lad who likes to fuck so by all means go and enjoy luv.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I don’t believe for a minute that an SP would lie to you and tell you what you want to hear.
There is no amount of $$ that would convince them to do that.
They just love older dudes it is a known fact, just accept it.

Love sarcasm.....

 

[Christian32]

Just like you should give yourself a few extra inches on dating sites if you are < 6'0.... you should tell the SP that are you are several years older if you are in reality < 35. That will definitely make them warmer.
Note for my SP: I do not use this strategy.

SP do the opposite: claims that they are younger than their real age. I think it is mainly because of clichés that's how SP want to portrait themselves. SP tend to be way too much old school in my opinion

 

[stewieberry]

They just love older dudes it is a known fact, just accept it.

Well you can easily put that theory to the test! Simply make a dating account on a mainstream site with your pictures(or the pictures of an older men) and filter it so that your account is only seen by women the age of the SPs you're meeting and see if you are getting matches/attention! Chances are it's not happening. But I understand the point of view of SPs. Business wise I'd prefer dealing with older men too! They are more prompt in payment and generally are looking for affection and a sense of love which is easier to provide than a 60min fuck session with horny kids that want you to act like the girl he watches in his porn.

 

[The Nature Boy]

Depends which gent shows up....

 

[CydoniaNights]

You can believe whatever it is you want to believe, but all SPs say things like this to clients because they know it's what they want to hear. Most guys like to have their ego stroked, some need it and some crave it, and this is no revelation to most SPs. Please give them some credit for doing their jobs, and doing them well. Do you really expect an SP to say to you, "dude, good luck finding a girlfriend you putz", if she really believed that? I think you do not give proper credit to SPs for simply doing their jobs and recognizing that they are pros.

You call it "lying", I say it's looking at a glass as half full and giving a client a good service. In every job known to mankind good customer service involves making the customer feel important. Is the car salesman who greets you by saying, "you look like a BMW kind of guy" lying, even if there is no such thing as a "BMW kind of guy"? NO, he is making a sale which is his job. An SP's job is to get you to repeat and part of that is building a connection and rapport and helping you feel good about yourself, just in case you don't.

I don’t deny that the girls will try to stroke your ego from time to time, but you make it sound like literally nothing they say is genuine, every possible compliment that comes my way is just her trying to not hurt my feelings or get me to see her again. I don’t believe that and if it really is true, if every girl I have seen just thinks im a complete scumbag with no redeeming attributes worth complimenting well good on them for making me believe otherwise.

You have a really unhealthy mindset if you actually believe that, to think someone can not give you a genuine compliment just cause you paid them to spend time with you. Id like to think of myself a bit more highly than that. You should too.

 

[Fradi]

Well you can easily put that theory to the test! Simply make a dating account on a mainstream site with your pictures(or the pictures of an older men) and filter it so that your account is only seen by women the age of the SPs you're meeting and see if you are getting matches/attention! Chances are it's not happening.

It is quite obvious you don’t get sarcasm.
Look at STN post lol.

 

[chowzilla]

Yes they do.

However what the older guys do well, younger guys can do as well, as in being respectful, knowledgeable, kind, not cheap etc...Except for the older look.
I've had some very good mileage in general being like this, despite being on the younger side.

A very very very well known indy actually refused me because I was too young. I've tried twice. still no. this was 4 years ago, should i try again lol.... she can count my grey hairs if she wants.

 

[minutemenX]

In the plaice I I lived for some time they used to say, if you don’t like the current weather wait for a couple of hours and it will change. SPs see all kind of different clients within a week and often within one day. So, changing from old to young and then to some middle age dude is probably not a big deal. It like opening an umbrella if it is raining a bit, goes on autopilot. You guys are too self-centered. You just another ATM machine that gives money when your dick is manipulated in a certain way. No SP can last long if she would start getting emotional with a client

 

[EagerBeaver]

I don’t deny that the girls will try to stroke your ego from time to time, but you make it sound like literally nothing they say is genuine, every possible compliment that comes my way is just her trying to not hurt my feelings or get me to see her again.

You are putting words in my mouth dude, I am just commenting on some random statements made by you that have only been made to thousands of other clients and if I had a dollar for every review I read those kinds of things posted in, I would be rich as fucking hell. Reviewers on MERB have egos and eat that shit up. The point I am trying to make is you are banking every statement that comes out of an SP's mouth as gospel rather than customer service and you need to distinguish one from the other. There is nothing unhealthy at all about my mindset, I accept reality for what it is and can handle the truth and do not need to delude myself by believing that facile compliments are anything more than someone being nice, making conversation and trying to do what she is paid to do, make her client feel good about himself.

Your probably too young to remember this movie but I cite Jack as my authority on this issue. There are those who can handle the truth, and those who don't want to:

 

[CydoniaNights]

You are putting words in my mouth dude, I am just commenting on some random statements made by you that have only been made to thousands of other clients. The point I am trying to make is you are banking every statement that comes out of an SP's mouth as gospel rather than customer service and you need to distinguish one from the other. There is nothing unhealthy at all about my mindset, I accept reality for what it is and can handle the truth and do not need to delude myself by believing that facile compliments are anything more than someone being nice, making conversation and trying to get what she is paid to do.

Your probably too young to remember this movie but I cite Jack is my authority. There are those who can handle the truth, and those who don't want to:

Lets just agree to disagree.

And for the record, assuming I haven’t watched an old movie just cause i’m young is very childish of you.

 

[EagerBeaver]

And for the record, assuming I haven’t watched an old movie just cause i’m young is very childish of you.

It's not childish, it's logical. That movie is out of circulation. It's not on Netflix. Most younger generation know what's on Netflix, and not a lot more. And I used the word "probably", try to read my post and not react in a snotty fashion. I realize that you think you know it all, but maybe you will learn that you don't.

 

[Fradi]

You guys are too self-centered. You just another ATM machine that gives money when your dick is manipulated in certain way. No SP can last long if she would start getting emotional with a client

I think the first par was true that they can handle any age if they want to.
While It is a money arrangement for sure, I don’t believe it is as cold as you make it out to be.
SP have feelings just like any other woman and preferences. They would much rather be with someone who is kind and treats them with respect young or old.
Sure part of it is an act but that is what most want, it is the hard reality at home that most are escaping after all.
I guess if you feel like all you are being used for is an ATM then you should look for something different or a different escort because the one you are seeing is a really bad actress, take your pick.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Sure part of it is an act but that is what most want, it is the hard reality at home that most are escaping after all.

Bingo! and it's insulting to the SP to think she is not trying to do her job and act as any professional SP should.

 

[CoolSin000]

So, I'm in my mid 20s and SPs sometimes appear a bit surprised when they see me. One time we hadn't even entered my Airbnb before she told me ''You're really young'' in an uncomfortable tone to which I laughed a bit played it cool.
I guess it makes sense for them to ''prefer'' older clients as they would usually have more money... When I feel that vibe coming from the girl I usually start talking about what I do for a living and about my business and it seems to put them at ease. But as a whole I prefer not to talk about it to everyone I see...

So what's the deal, are most johns in the older age bracket?

I also get a lot of ''so why do you see escorts?'' to which I always answer because I like to have sex lol. Is that a question they usually ask you? Is it perhaps their usual conversation starter?

I feel sometimes its the reason why we don't click.
It sounds like I have a lot of bad experiences in this post but I really don't, I'm just trying to confirm my feelings.

Hi SamAttak, great topic by the way.

It's very hard to pin-point the actual number of SP that prefer clients that are mature vs younger clients. However, there is an element of truth that, most mature clients then to have more life experiences; which mature clients may have the experience in courting girls/ladies using a variety of resources or their wits.

Furthermore, it is a rarity to see a young and established gentleman like you. So, if an SP was taken back by you when you have set up an appointment with them. Don't be offend. Just take it as a compliment, and enjoy your time with her.

P.S. If an SP were to ask you, "why you need to see an escort(s)?" Instead of saying, "I like sex" - maybe try to say this way, "Cause I won't have the opportunity to meet a beautiful lady like you in the real world" (btw you have to be natural when you say this line).

Well like I said I didn't make the post in a very negative way, I don't get bad encounters often... I love to talk and I do talk a lot too, especially between rounds I can get lost in a conversation and forget to go again lol.
I do get a lot of SPs telling me I could get a girlfriend too but I always chalk it up to them being nice and trying to make me feel good about myself lol.

Whenever you have a chance, maybe try reading, "The art of Seduction" from Robert Greene or try learning a few PUA techniques for talking with the ladies.

Cheers, and enjoy the industry!

 

[Anwar]

I'm your age, so I get this asked a lot.I tell them the truth - I want no-strings-attached sex and I don't want to risk inadvertently leading a girl on. It's disrespectful towards the girl when hooking up at a club, and it's totally not worth the time and effort to look for NSA encounters in adult dating sites/apps. When I book a 1hr session with an SP, there's zero ambiguity as to what I want from the encounter. In my experience, most SPs do not really care about your age, though they may be curious about why you're in this, as long as you act like a gentleman and do not have unrealistic expectations about the encounter as virgins growing up on porn are wont to do.

 

[EagerBeaver]

And they can have a No Blacks policy, but that would be an automatic disregard and Do Not See as far as I am concerned.

I automatically cross off any SP that has any racial restrictions as well. It tells me she is not worth meeting.

I did see a 180 pound weight restriction once posted by a lady who said she had some lumbar disc issues and "cannot take a pounding" due to fragile condition of her back. I sent her an email and told her "hey I am 175 pounds and pass your weight restriction." Never did end up seeing her.