According to one SP I know, they do. She knows several male dancers at male strip clubs for women that would do SP services for women and one high class male SP that would service very wealthy women, Women use to travel to Mexico to have beach gigolos service them, so why not get serviced here. One Masseuse told me that she started to do massages at hair salons for women. Sometimes women would ask for a happy ending. Some even asked to more. I asked her if she offered more. She told me she was bi, so why not.
Do women pay for SPs.
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They do, but it's a much smaller percentage of women than the percentage of men who pay for sex. One could ask why that is the case, and that can lead to some very interesting conversations.
I asked Chat GPT:
Paying clients (sex buyers):
Flip the lens:
The workers themselves skew heavily female (and trans), because the demand from male clients has driven the industry’s shape for centuries. Tradition wins that round—like it or not, culture doesn’t reinvent itself overnight.
So the ratio? In practical terms:
Roughly 20 men for every woman buying sexual services. In some markets, even worse.
Men are the primary customers
Paying clients (sex buyers):
- ~ 95%+ are men
- ~ 5% or less are women (including both heterosexual female clients and lesbian/bisexual women purchasing services)
- Western national surveys routinely find 10–15% of adult men have paid for sex at least once.
- For women, it’s usually under 1%.
- They tend to prefer escorts/male companions, more “boyfriend experience” style.
- They typically buy sex much less frequently.
Flip the lens:
The workers themselves skew heavily female (and trans), because the demand from male clients has driven the industry’s shape for centuries. Tradition wins that round—like it or not, culture doesn’t reinvent itself overnight.
So the ratio? In practical terms:
Roughly 20 men for every woman buying sexual services. In some markets, even worse.
Men are the primary customers
1. Men’s baseline sex drive is more visually-triggered and opportunistic.
Biology leans that way. Men tend to separate sex from emotion more easily, so a transactional encounter scratches the itch without guilt.
2. Women can get sex for free.
Brutally simple. Even average-looking women have a much easier time finding willing partners. When the supply is abundant, why pay?
3. Social reputation works differently.
Men get ribbed for not getting sex. Women get judged for “too many partners.” So discreet paid sex fills a need for men while offering control. For women, paying introduces social risk for little benefit.
4. Emotional context.
On average, women care more about connection, chemistry, and safety. Paying for a stranger rarely satisfies that, while men are more comfortable with purely physical novelty.
5. Sexual power dynamics.
Historically, women have been the gatekeepers of sex and men have been the pursuers. The sex trade simply industrialized that old dance.
6. Greater male loneliness.
A lot of men struggle with dating, confidence, or even basic intimacy skills. Paying becomes the only door not slammed in their face.
7. Age mismatch pressure.
As men age, sexual access declines harder and faster than women realize. Escorts become the fallback.
Combine all that and you get a reality that hasn’t budged in centuries:
Men chase.
Women choose.
Money fills the gap when choosing fails.
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