Do you care if people know when you are out with an SP?

[envelopes]

I saw an SP recently and she told me a story of how she traveled with a client when she was new (and got taken advantage of lol) and was 18 years old. She went on vacation with a client and everywhere they went, she said people thought she was his daughter.

That reminded of several other stories I heard that were similar.

I have also gone out for a public social date with an SP who was a model type bombshell and it was very obvious. It made me self conscious and very nervous that I would run into colleagues and I regretted it a bit

SPs and clients, when you go out and public and it's a bit obvious it is an SP/client encounter, are you unbothered?

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

I saw an SP recently and she told me a story of how she traveled with a client when she was new (and got taken advantage of lol) and was 18 years old. She went on vacation with a client and everywhere they went, she said people thought she was his daughter.

That reminded of several other stories I heard that were similar.

I have also gone out for a public social date with an SP who was a model type bombshell and it was very obvious. It made me self conscious and very nervous that I would run into colleagues and I regretted it a bit

SPs and clients, when you go out and public and it's a bit obvious it is an SP/client encounter, are you unbothered?

I’m unbothered. I like it and I like to see the surprise or the smile of some people when they see us. I’m a really affectionate person in public. Unless I know that you may have an issue with people seeing us together I don’t really care.

 

[Julia Sky]

Doesn't bother me personally! It's a bit of a turn on, even. I guess it depends on context, though; if I crossed path with someone I know personally from real life, I might be a little shy. Most people in my life know about my job, but that doesn't mean I want them to have a mental image of me with a client lol. I would also be anxious about them being clumsy and going "heyyyy (real name)!"

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Personally, I don't mind if people are aware that I am with a service provider because I believe in not judging others based on their profession or appearance. However, some service providers may feel self-conscious and uneasy when seen with an older man or someone who appears to be out of their league, as it may be obvious that he is a client and she is a service provider. This situation can make both parties uncomfortable, leading them to choose low-key restaurants for their meetings. Being labeled as a service provider can create feelings of anxiety and discomfort for some individuals in this profession. Similarly, clients, especially those who are married or may run into acquaintances, may feel uneasy about being recognized. On the flip side, some service providers are unfazed by public perception, as they understand that it comes with the territory and have grown accustomed to it. It is important not to let external judgments affect the encounter and to focus on having a seamless and enjoyable experience. Just go with the flow and ensure a flawless encounter without worrying about others' opinions.

 

[neverbored]

Doesn't bother me personally! It's a bit of a turn on, even. I guess it depends on context, though; if I crossed path with someone I know personally from real life, I might be a little shy. Most people in my life know about my job, but that doesn't mean I want them to have a mental image of me with a client lol. I would also be anxious about them being clumsy and going "heyyyy (real name)!"

Ever get recognized or run into them ? You don't exactly go unnoticed lol

Do clients frequently ask to behave in a specific way when out on dates? I'm wondering often guys actually prefer to flaunt that you might be ... vs asking specifically to act like a civilian. Does it become a game?

 

[LC18]

I wouldn’t care because people in my personal know that I date men that are always 10 years older than me or more.

I think they’d be surprised if they saw me out with someone my age.

I also usually don’t draw attention on me or us. I dress according to the place we’re going and I behave.

The only time I was on a dinner date and got stared at was when my date asked me to be very touchy at the table. He wanted us to DFK, feel each other and more. Then at one point he asked the waiter: Is this the worse you’ve since since you started working here?

He said no.

All that to say, people don’t really care unless their own dinner/conversation isn’t exciting or unless you’re giving a show.

 

[Julia Sky]

Ever get recognized or run into them ? You don't exactly go unnoticed lol

Do clients frequently ask to behave in a specific way when out on dates? I'm wondering often guys actually prefer to flaunt that you might be ... vs asking specifically to act like a civilian. Does it become a game?

I never ran into a friend or family member while with a client, but I've ran into clients on a few occasions while I was with friends. It was never an issue except that one time the client yelled "Julia!!!"

I've also been recognized by an onlyfans subscriber twice haha

Guys rarely ask me to behave a certain way in public, maybe they already expect me not to be weird or too obvious. I also think that the type of client who books social time in public is the type who isnt too anxious about being seen with an escort

 

[Thor Jr]

No, i have mentioned it in a couple of threads, i cant think of anyone who doesn't know that i spend time with SPs of all calibers. Even my mom knows, but she doesn't remember much these days anyway. I actually have friends who live through my adventures and travels.

I can recall my mom calling me when i was visiting with Aby and Axelle, i excused myself while Axelle was next to me, i answered and asked my mom if everything was okay, she said yes, was just calling to say hi, i told her that i was with 2 ladies and would call her back later. Axelle was surprised, but also found it sweet that i would answer a call from my mom.

For me, this is part of life, why would i treat SPs any different then if i were on a date or out with friends.

 

[Thor Jr]

Guys rarely ask me to behave a certain way in public, maybe they already expect me not to be weird or too obvious. I also think that the type of client who books social time in public is the type who isnt too anxious about being seen with an escort

The thing is to not treat them like an escort, but as just being out with a friend and to not care what people think. KMA,P.

 

[Sylar]

I don't mind being seen with an SP in public by strangers. I agree with Julia that it is a bit of a turn on. In fact, I even recently suggested to an SP to go to a fancy lounge/bar or a fancy restaurant to make out a little bit to see how people around us react. A beach or pool would be an interesting alternative as well. However, I don't think it would be obvious that we are Client/SP as most people would simply guess I am with a younger girlfriend. I guess I will have to wait a few more years.

As for business partners, colleagues and friends - That's something I'd like to avoid.