This may sound a bit delusional but I have not had any SP say something has hurt my feelings. I think I have been lucky with the girls I have met. On the flip side, some of the nice things that I have heard (which I take at face value) have truly made my day and stays with me for a long time. I think SP's due to the large number of personality types, ethnicity's and career backgrounds they meet, are some of the folks who understand the human condition and human behavior really well, and are able to make you feel comfortable and be yourself.