Do you guys lose sexual interest easily?
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Yes, that is true, but there is a higher calling or level of being fucked up and looking for a girlfriend through repeat visits with an SP is a very high level, possibly the highest of them all.
I am also getting bored of banging good looking chicks.
To quote Andrey dice clay.. " Anybody can bang a good looking chick..ever fuck a fat piece of shit...its like taking a ride at wet and wild " LOLLLL
I best encounter i had recently was with a real fat girl i found on 123. Cost 80 lol
She was wider than she was tall, but she was young and got some good dfk. Im pretty sure i did a review
I was hard all sesssion and blew a load.
I need something different to keep me going. i wanna try a duo next with her friend who is also round.
I also want to try an old gilf mid 60's... fat with saggy tits. Ive been wanting to try that for a while. But scared to try 40plus without seeing pics first.
Also i want to get a real nice rimming...they have a girl at satin dreamz but they are a daytime agency and i can only recieve at night.
To quote Andrey dice clay.. " Anybody can bang a good looking chick..ever fuck a fat piece of shit...its like taking a ride at wet and wild " LOLLLL
I best encounter i had recently was with a real fat girl i found on 123. Cost 80 lol
She was wider than she was tall, but she was young and got some good dfk. Im pretty sure i did a review
I was hard all sesssion and blew a load.
I need something different to keep me going. i wanna try a duo next with her friend who is also round.
I also want to try an old gilf mid 60's... fat with saggy tits. Ive been wanting to try that for a while. But scared to try 40plus without seeing pics first.
Also i want to get a real nice rimming...they have a girl at satin dreamz but they are a daytime agency and i can only recieve at night.
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Lily from Montreal
Hum,i hate to disagree wuth with Alyssa , but why would being not being monogamous is a bad thing? Au contraire...why not have your cake and eat it? What I like in the hobby is having (lots) of friend and lovers because , yes I have favorites, thoses are not only friend but lovers ,and the love of my life , who lucky for me , knows that me loving others doesn't mean he will ever lose me...and to be a lover it does need more than one meeting...the more we meet the more it is intimate and yes, great...
That is part of the problem. Women do not like shy men. Got to go out there with confidence. Get out of the SP scene. My two cents. To make it easier try going to tity bars and approach strippers and strike a convo with them. Try to make it natural and smooth. It will help you gain confidence when approaching women outside.
And about creep it all depends on your approach. You got to have swagg. The way you approach her and what you say and how you say it will determine on whether she labels you as a creep or not. But if you are shy and approach her she will immediately see and sense your hesitation. You will make her feel very awkward and nervous therefore she will label you as a creep. She will turn you away before you even say a word.
where can I get lessons on how to approach women ?
should i do like andrew dice clay
go up to a girl at the grocery store and tell her
"Hey baby has anyone ever told you those tomatoes look like your tits " lol
Maybe if you have a friend who is successful with women. You two can go on recruiting and see how he does it. One thing I tried is to practice on strippers. The fact money is involves makes it easier then the whole cold call approach but better then nothing. Go to a tity bar and approach a stripper randomly. Strike up a convo with her. Maybe this will help you loosen up and ease up the awkwardness when approaching strangers. Try different ice breakers. When I got nothing that comes to my mind I will just walk up to a woman on the streets and say something like this "Heyy! How are you? Remember me from so and so club..." Worked like a charm. Went to lunch with this cute African chick. But sometimes the best way to do it is to take the plunge. You will makes mistakes but you will learn from them. But remember the most important thing is to go for it. No hesitation. Be confident. Otherwise women will turn you away immediately whether you look like a hunk or not.
Coming back to the original question, the answer is yes and no. And it's comparable to acting in a play where your sexual persona enters into an open contract with a partner willing to forego the usual mating rituals and get to the point. So the span of intimacy can vary a lot between both, sometimes a hit, sometimes an iceberg or worse, a mud pit. I have clear and vivid memories of the SPs with which there was great rapport and very few memories of where it was the pits. The latter probably get erased faster and for the better. I had a recent "encounter" with an SP with which there was instant rapport and ended up in an unusual "sharing of intimacy". Either it was remarquable theater or, as I believe, it was a "here and now" moment of two individual discovering their common sexual and sensual grounds, enjoying and feeling free to put words to it. In such cases, I dont lose interest. Even if there might not be a second time. Another case in point, I still have fantasies of Marilyn, from Private Lies. Some will remember.
Moi, Je peut perdre un interet quand, la SP apres quelques rencontres, me prends pour aquis, si elle se met a me parler, de ses problemes, sa vie, j'aime avoir une relation particuliere avec une sp comme une amie, mais pas pour entendre les problemes, je vais la voir pour passer un bon moments intime et sensuel. Oui on peut jaser pas trop car la ca deviens un turn-off.
Par contre j'aime bien changer un peu car la nouveaute m'attire, j'aime le trill de rencontre une nouvelle fille, j'ai ete chanceux je fais toujours de belles rencontres, et j'ai toujours eu une bonne chimie avec elles. j'ai 3 regulieres (1 plus regulieres que les 2 autres) ca me fait un beau trio!
Pour moi quand il y a de la bonne chimie entre moi et une Fille (SP) c'est 90% de l'affaire, avoir du sexe sans chimie, no repeat for me!
Par contre j'aime bien changer un peu car la nouveaute m'attire, j'aime le trill de rencontre une nouvelle fille, j'ai ete chanceux je fais toujours de belles rencontres, et j'ai toujours eu une bonne chimie avec elles. j'ai 3 regulieres (1 plus regulieres que les 2 autres) ca me fait un beau trio!
Pour moi quand il y a de la bonne chimie entre moi et une Fille (SP) c'est 90% de l'affaire, avoir du sexe sans chimie, no repeat for me!
In my case the rule of the three F applies. What is FFF?
Find them
F**k them
Forget them
When I hobby - and I'm propably atypical because it is only each three or four months - I want to see new escorts. Variety isn't the spice of life?
It's only when I date non-pro that I'm not annoyed or bored after the first encounter. To be honest I also did some repeat (with Naomie of MSC, for instance) but now I'm more interested in « new faces ».
Find them
F**k them
Forget them
When I hobby - and I'm propably atypical because it is only each three or four months - I want to see new escorts. Variety isn't the spice of life?
It's only when I date non-pro that I'm not annoyed or bored after the first encounter. To be honest I also did some repeat (with Naomie of MSC, for instance) but now I'm more interested in « new faces ».
I've only done a quick scan of this thread, so forgive me if my comments are repetitive. There's no doubt that part of a woman's allure is her mystery and newness to the customer. It's quite interesting to see some here claiming it's a short term fantasy and that's it. Then hear customers and providers alike extolling the virtues of the communication aspect of the encounter. Obviously for some their seems to be some confusion. No you're not dating escorts, nor having a relationship with them in any real sense. However there's usually some form of non-sexual communication going on either before, during or after the act. I can tell you that I've seen many an escort who seemed physically attractive only to make herself completely unappealing by opening her mouth. This is the way with all women.
It's certainly conceiveable that an escort's "allure" couldn quickly fade as her mystery departs. Or that the newness of the physical portion of the contact gets less interesting. The physical portion of the encounter is highly charged with pheromones from the male's perspective and thus the initial "high" can no doubt plateau out quickly as the body becomes more accustomed to exposure. Thus after a few encounters the male may begin to lose interest. Over a period of time this customization will begin to wane, but can be reacquired with subsequent exposure. Thus the feeling of getting "quickly bored" with each unique individual.
It's certainly conceiveable that an escort's "allure" couldn quickly fade as her mystery departs. Or that the newness of the physical portion of the contact gets less interesting. The physical portion of the encounter is highly charged with pheromones from the male's perspective and thus the initial "high" can no doubt plateau out quickly as the body becomes more accustomed to exposure. Thus after a few encounters the male may begin to lose interest. Over a period of time this customization will begin to wane, but can be reacquired with subsequent exposure. Thus the feeling of getting "quickly bored" with each unique individual.
Do I lose sexual interest easily ?
Yeah but only when I look at the "American politics" thread... too many nutcase who needs a ton of guns to feel lik a man :lol:
Other than that...women are simply too gorgeous to lose interest for me !
Yeah but only when I look at the "American politics" thread... too many nutcase who needs a ton of guns to feel lik a man :lol:
Other than that...women are simply too gorgeous to lose interest for me !
Once again you prove your immaturity in the face of all of your claims otherwise. Hence, you're no longer worth my time to respond to. In case you're wondering, you've been put on ignore along with Alyssa Rose. I'd put #11 on there as well, but then I'd miss his frequent threats to ban me.
Wimbledon,
I understand your thoughts and tend to agree. However the situation has a silver lining. It makes it quite a bit easier to "sift through" all the possibilities and be able to concentrate on the really interesting ladies.
I understand your thoughts and tend to agree. However the situation has a silver lining. It makes it quite a bit easier to "sift through" all the possibilities and be able to concentrate on the really interesting ladies.
What I usually do is that if there is a SP with the looks and service I really like... I will keep her but will have many others. That way I do not see the same girl too often since I got many girls to choose from. That keeps me from loosing my interest. Seeing a girl too often turns into a routine so you loose interest. As for wanting to see new girls... let us be realistic it is not like there is a new SP entering the scene each week. Not what I have observed from the agencies advertised on Merb. Not like I see new independents entering the market. Even strippers I always see the same girls at the clubs maybe I see a new girl every now and then. So I use the same principal for stripclubs I change clubs a lot and go to many clubs so I maintain variety.
If you combine man77777's 3/3/3 rules and Protagoras's 3 Fs rules (as limited by the 3/3/3 rules), you have the beginnings of a solid foundation for maintaining good mental health while hobbying. These are good rules for a younger hobbyist like ManApart, but for someone who is older and more socially indentured to an established protocol, it could be difficult to follow.
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I have the same problem in real life. The longer I am with somebody I am dating, the less interested in sex I become. I really like the thrill of the chase - first time she kisses back, first time her top comes off, the feeling of accomplishment after your first sex together, lol. After a few times together I slowly lose interest.
I guess it would be nice to meet somebody cool, fall in love deeply, stay with her, live happily ever after, fully sexually satisfied... So far it hasn't happened for me. Of course getting into hobbying doesn't help. These young SPs they screw like pros, maybe because they are. They must be watching a lot of porn and share. A few women I dated in the last five years didn't come close in terms of sexual expression, or maybe I just got too spoiled with SPs. On many levels I do regret getting into hobbying but at the same time it made me realize that I am not a long-term commitment type of person and I am better off not disappointing somebody like I have in the past.
I guess it would be nice to meet somebody cool, fall in love deeply, stay with her, live happily ever after, fully sexually satisfied... So far it hasn't happened for me. Of course getting into hobbying doesn't help. These young SPs they screw like pros, maybe because they are. They must be watching a lot of porn and share. A few women I dated in the last five years didn't come close in terms of sexual expression, or maybe I just got too spoiled with SPs. On many levels I do regret getting into hobbying but at the same time it made me realize that I am not a long-term commitment type of person and I am better off not disappointing somebody like I have in the past.
Most of hobbyists who are married or in long term relationships will tell you the sex is boring and the SO is there to service other needs, whether they are emotional, or friendship, or they are needed as a parent or guardian for common children. If you are a hobbyist before getting married, things will get boring quickly once the honeymoon is over. Then what you have to look forward to is a possible raking in a divorce, like what Brian Cashman just experienced:
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/yankees_cashman_gets_wept_by_ex_yJvDkZNcoEkNt993AE0ptN
Do you think Cashman can possibly run up a bill of $1 million a year in hookers even in New York City? Even Spitzer only spent about $100,000 per year in NYC.
The point is the young hobbyist can learn to protect his income by being a single man and enjoying the fruits of SPs and girlfriends. It is utterly illogical for someone who is already a young hobbyist to be thinking about sharing income with someone who has become a boring sexual partner after 6 months. Completely illogical.
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/yankees_cashman_gets_wept_by_ex_yJvDkZNcoEkNt993AE0ptN
Do you think Cashman can possibly run up a bill of $1 million a year in hookers even in New York City? Even Spitzer only spent about $100,000 per year in NYC.
The point is the young hobbyist can learn to protect his income by being a single man and enjoying the fruits of SPs and girlfriends. It is utterly illogical for someone who is already a young hobbyist to be thinking about sharing income with someone who has become a boring sexual partner after 6 months. Completely illogical.
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