When i first started seeing sps, i went out of my way to look my best for an encounter. I treated every encounter as a 'date', just like i'd be going out with someone on a real date. I even once purchased a suit in order to see a long-anticipated high-end sp. I don't think i ever wore that suit again! 
A few years later, i met a fellow john for a drink at the hotel i was staying at about an hour before an sp was supposed to show up to see me. After showering & dressing up, i met him at the lobby bar & the first thing he told me when he saw me was "do you always dress up when you see an escort?"
I told him that i did, and put a lot of importance in my personal appearance & so far my routine had never failed me since 99% of my encounters had always been very good to great. I asked him how he dressed when he saw someone, and he pointed to his jeans and t-shirt and said "just like you see now."
I then began to stop over-dressing. Thinking about it, i was probably better dressed than half the ladies i'd see at the time. So i began to wear jeans and a shirt for some of my encounters. Now i often wear polo or golf shirts. If it's very warm outside, i may wear shorts.
In other words, i still make an effort to look as good as i can, but won't over dress. I figure that if i want an sp to look her best, that i should also make an effort.
What are your thoughts about this? Do you put emphasis on your own personal attire prior to seeing an sp?
A few years later, i met a fellow john for a drink at the hotel i was staying at about an hour before an sp was supposed to show up to see me. After showering & dressing up, i met him at the lobby bar & the first thing he told me when he saw me was "do you always dress up when you see an escort?"
I told him that i did, and put a lot of importance in my personal appearance & so far my routine had never failed me since 99% of my encounters had always been very good to great. I asked him how he dressed when he saw someone, and he pointed to his jeans and t-shirt and said "just like you see now."
I then began to stop over-dressing. Thinking about it, i was probably better dressed than half the ladies i'd see at the time. So i began to wear jeans and a shirt for some of my encounters. Now i often wear polo or golf shirts. If it's very warm outside, i may wear shorts.
In other words, i still make an effort to look as good as i can, but won't over dress. I figure that if i want an sp to look her best, that i should also make an effort.
What are your thoughts about this? Do you put emphasis on your own personal attire prior to seeing an sp?
