Doing SP in 2022. Being in a relationship. And/or why? Tell me! ;)

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Question 1:
Don’t intend to have the modern type of relationship. If I do, then I have learnt nothing the past 12 years.

Question 2:
The rationale changed over the years. The time and cost, financially and emotionally, associated with having a girlfriend was a risk, rather than a reward. More importantly, if everyone else was waking up to sunshine and rainbows every morning next to their significant other, then maybe I am the loser. But that is not the case. In my lifetime, I have witnessed the global destruction of the joint-family, the nuclear-family, relationships, and now friendships. I see a coming world of more isolation, censorship, and gentrification. And I am prepared.

Discovering escorts was a gift from God. It granted me the adventure of a lifetime. I never knew I could be so consistent with an activity. Initially, it was an upgrade from masturbating seven times a day to porn. Then I realized, nowhere else can I get this many hours of intimate practice with so many options. I outsourced my sexlife to agencies and focused on myself. The social skills and confidence gained as a result, have been successfully translated into all other areas of my life, and I am reaping the benefits handsomly. This was a paradigm shift.

Why do I do it? It was destiny.

Question 3:
Some have whiffs, but to what extent nobody knows. I think women can pick it up better than men. They know something is off.

Question 4:
Philosophers, educators, and scientists alike have often said that what a woman wants is beyond man’s comprehension. Pick up any romantic novel from a bookstore, and you can learn more about women than what intellectual nerds and virgins can ever hope to teach you. This is what women read in their free time. It’s a peak behind the curtain, which is the woman’s subconscious. Women from every corner of the world have voted with their hard earned money for Fifty Shades of Grey and Twilight. This is of profound importance.

With the advent of Sugar Daddy and Dom-Sub relationship arrangements emerging the past few years, the possibilities are limitless. It has opened up my eyes. The landscape of human interaction has forever changed. Your competition will be non-existent over the next 10 years with most men addicted to porn. Everytime you see an escort from now on, know that you’re one step closer to becoming a better man. My goal is not to tell you how to live your life, but you bet I’ll smash your cage into smithereen and turn your views upside-down.

Question 5:
Anxiety comes from hopelessness. What you’ve been taught as a child vs. what is, does not match. The disconnect between expectations and reality is causing cognitive dissonance. Time to cut the umbilical cord to the past. You need a new fresh mindset and look at the possibilities ahead. Pat yourself on the back for even having the balls to see escorts. Most men won’t.

I applaud all Escorts for having the courage to stand up and say, “Enough is enough!” You decided to take things into your own hands by striving for a better future. You didn’t look for a handout or an excuse.

For all of us, there will be many downfalls. The odds are against us. “Burn the ships,” said the General. Men, ahead of us, await a glorious death or absolute victory. There is no going back!

Very well said.

 

[hello123]

A fellow member @ciscok1d has PM'd me to elaborate on "How can seeing escorts make you a better man?" I'm sharing my thoughts here should others be interested.

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Yes, that’s right, I paid girls to teach me how to be a better man. And, it has been by far the best investment of my life. Escorting is my way of rebelling against mediocrity. I was taught to make money first and then get girls. I decided to flip the script. In my journey I learned that getting better in bed will make you more money in the long term. It builds confidence just like fighting. Being around beautiful women makes life better. My memories are full of me giving orgasm to absolute stunners.

What is the consequence of escorting? I don’t have any memories of dating ugly girls. I don’t have memories of girls misbehaving with me or creating a scene in public. Escorts have shown me what good behavior looks like. I learned to judge a girl’s level of interest based on the sequence of questions they ask. I learned the female body language and how to seamlessly transition from talking to fucking. If I were to design a course for men who are socially inept, escorting would be a fundamental component.

My moral dilemma was that this is not real. It is only a transaction. There is nothing to be learnt here. If people find out, I will be ostracized for my poor life choices. After realizing how many “good” girls were cheating on their boyfriend with me, I didn’t see the difference between escorting and dating. I also learned that prostitution is not banned in any religion and no Prophet of God ever came to kill a whore or pimp. The world we live in is full of disinformation.

You can read about an orgasm or you can have an orgasm--there is a massive difference. The escort world is my Hyperbolic Time Chamber from DagonBallZ, where I can get one year’s worth of training in one day. It’s where I practice, practice, and practice. I stack hours like dollar bills. It is after 2017 when I flipped the switch and turned this into a lifestyle. I started to have conversations with them. I learned about their personal lives, hopes, dreams, and wishes. It was magical. It felt like a never ending story of Arabian Nights.

I hope you see the value in yourself. The fact that you have the courage to do something this taboo says a lot about you. You’re ready to break social norms and go against the grain. More importantly, you have money. You are not a loser. You are a fucker. An army of masturbaters will never win against an army of fuckers. Try out your pickup lines, scenarios, roleplay, business pitch from work, or whatever. This is liberation for you. Get creative and know the compounding effect of your experience will pay off. And if you die of hobbying as an old 80-year-old man, I hope your rigor mortis face looks like your cum-face. There is no right or wrong, only minor adjustments. Combine the unfiltered imagination of a young boy with your existing life experience, and you will leave people speechless.

I don’t get tempted the same way anymore. I no longer undress girls in my head and fuck them in different positions. I know I can get my dick sucked anytime and put it in a better pussy. As a result, in 2019, I faced extreme boredom and disappointment. Full blown depression. Nothing made sense anymore after unlimited pussy. I am grateful to God that I was blessed with this problem. It allowed me to enter hermit-mode and completely change around my life. And this is just the beginning. I am not writing this to you from the afterlife.

 

[ciscok1d]

A fellow member @ciscok1d has PM'd me to elaborate on "How can seeing escorts make you a better man?" I'm sharing my thoughts here should others be interested.

=======================================================================================
Yes, that’s right, I paid girls to teach me how to be a better man. And, it has been by far the best investment of my life. Escorting is my way of rebelling against mediocrity. I was taught to make money first and then get girls. I decided to flip the script. In my journey I learned that getting better in bed will make you more money in the long term. It builds confidence just like fighting. Being around beautiful women makes life better. My memories are full of me giving orgasm to absolute stunners.

What is the consequence of escorting? I don’t have any memories of dating ugly girls. I don’t have memories of girls misbehaving with me or creating a scene in public. Escorts have shown me what good behavior looks like. I learned to judge a girl’s level of interest based on the sequence of questions they ask. I learned the female body language and how to seamlessly transition from talking to fucking. If I were to design a course for men who are socially inept, escorting would be a fundamental component.

My moral dilemma was that this is not real. It is only a transaction. There is nothing to be learnt here. If people find out, I will be ostracized for my poor life choices. After realizing how many “good” girls were cheating on their boyfriend with me, I didn’t see the difference between escorting and dating. I also learned that prostitution is not banned in any religion and no Prophet of God ever came to kill a whore or pimp. The world we live in is full of disinformation.

You can read about an orgasm or you can have an orgasm--there is a massive difference. The escort world is my Hyperbolic Time Chamber from DagonBallZ, where I can get one year’s worth of training in one day. It’s where I practice, practice, and practice. I stack hours like dollar bills. It is after 2017 when I flipped the switch and turned this into a lifestyle. I started to have conversations with them. I learned about their personal lives, hopes, dreams, and wishes. It was magical. It felt like a never ending story of Arabian Nights.

I hope you see the value in yourself. The fact that you have the courage to do something this taboo says a lot about you. You’re ready to break social norms and go against the grain. More importantly, you have money. You are not a loser. You are a fucker. An army of masturbaters will never win against an army of fuckers. Try out your pickup lines, scenarios, roleplay, business pitch from work, or whatever. This is liberation for you. Get creative and know the compounding effect of your experience will pay off. And if you die of hobbying as an old 80-year-old man, I hope your rigor mortis face looks like your cum-face. There is no right or wrong, only minor adjustments. Combine the unfiltered imagination of a young boy with your existing life experience, and you will leave people speechless.

I don’t get tempted the same way anymore. I no longer undress girls in my head and fuck them in different positions. I know I can get my dick sucked anytime and put it in a better pussy. As a result, in 2019, I faced extreme boredom and disappointment. Full blown depression. Nothing made sense anymore after unlimited pussy. I am grateful to God that I was blessed with this problem. It allowed me to enter hermit-mode and completely change around my life. And this is just the beginning. I am not writing this to you from the afterlife.

Interesting points. I agree there are pros to seeing escorts. However, the transactional nature of it makes it so that you are ridding of all the BS that comes with dating regular women and only keeping the best parts. Here's a simple analogy. Like ordering a meal at a fine restaurant. You rid yourself the mess of sourcing the best ingredients, preparing, cooking, cleaning, etc. Is the experience of the one who ONLY eats the meal superior to the person who goes through entire process of preparation and eating?

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy taking the shortcut of seeing an escort instead of chasing women. But, it's just a very lovely illusion. I suppose you can derive anything out of the experience to enhance yourself as a person.

 

[TheJames101]

you are ridding of all the BS that comes with dating regular women and only keeping the best parts.

No you're not. Though I suppose it might be true if you're unable to maintain a romantic human relationship.

 

[hello123]

@ciscok1d you are correct with your assessments. Hobbying is a means to an end. If you want to get healthier, you need a few components: eat healthy, get good sleep, workout, and take supplements (i.e. vitamins, protein powder, and etc.). Stand-alone, no one component will get you fit. Similarly, hobbying is a supplement. It is also transient, meaning you will not be doing it forever because you won't enjoy it the same way over time.

I really liked the analogy you shared. Who is superior, a Michelin-Star chef or a random consumer? Another words, who is superior: the one who courts or the one who pays? I struggled with this for a long time. No answer I give you will suffice.

I firmly believe the world would be a better place if more men knew how to give woman orgasms. In the year 2022, given where we sit societally, this is the best option. There is >30% of men from the age of 18-35 who hasn't touched a woman in over a year. They will never have a relationship. No theories, philosophies, or ideologies can help these disenfranchised men. They are invisible to everyone. No one cares about their loneliness or sorrows. This is unprecedented. No time in history did people experience this level of sexual oppression. And when this many men are frustrated, it is only a matter of time before they turn to fanaticism of various kinds.

We're moving towards a touch-less society. Relationships and friendships are finished for most people. The only place they exist are in the tele and vision programming.

 

[masmasak]

@ciscok1d you are correct with your assessments. Hobbying is a means to an end. If you want to get healthier, you need a few components: eat healthy, get good sleep, workout, and take supplements (i.e. vitamins, protein powder, and etc.). Stand-alone, no one component will get you fit. Similarly, hobbying is a supplement. It is also transient, meaning you will not be doing it forever because you won't enjoy it the same way over time.

I really liked the analogy you shared. Who is superior, a Michelin-Star chef or a random consumer? Another words, who is superior: the one who courts or the one who pays? I struggled with this for a long time. No answer I give you will suffice.

I firmly believe the world would be a better place if more men knew how to give woman orgasms. In the year 2022, given where we sit societally, this is the best option. There is >30% of men from the age of 18-35 who hasn't touched a woman in over a year. They will never have a relationship. No theories, philosophies, or ideologies can help these disenfranchised men. They are invisible to everyone. No one cares about their loneliness or sorrows. This is unprecedented. No time in history did people experience this level of sexual oppression. And when this many men are frustrated, it is only a matter of time before they turn to fanaticism of various kinds.

We're moving towards a touch-less society. Relationships and friendships are finished for most people. The only place they exist are in the tele and vision programming.

``Fahrenheit 451``touch-less ecstasy!

 

[masmasak]

``Fahrenheit 451``touch-less ecstasy!

@ciscok1d you are correct with your assessments. Hobbying is a means to an end. If you want to get healthier, you need a few components: eat healthy, get good sleep, workout, and take supplements (i.e. vitamins, protein powder, and etc.). Stand-alone, no one component will get you fit. Similarly, hobbying is a supplement. It is also transient, meaning you will not be doing it forever because you won't enjoy it the same way over time.

I really liked the analogy you shared. Who is superior, a Michelin-Star chef or a random consumer? Another words, who is superior: the one who courts or the one who pays? I struggled with this for a long time. No answer I give you will suffice.

I firmly believe the world would be a better place if more men knew how to give woman orgasms. In the year 2022, given where we sit societally, this is the best option. There is >30% of men from the age of 18-35 who hasn't touched a woman in over a year. They will never have a relationship. No theories, philosophies, or ideologies can help these disenfranchised men. They are invisible to everyone. No one cares about their loneliness or sorrows. This is unprecedented. No time in history did people experience this level of sexual oppression. And when this many men are frustrated, it is only a matter of time before they turn to fanaticism of various kinds.

We're moving towards a touch-less society. Relationships and friendships are finished for most people. The only place they exist are in the tele and vision programming.

The era of Zombie relationship by courtesy of ``face book ,twitter,...``!décaffeinated virtuel existance,voilà!