I have turned away at the door on several occasions and NO, I never gave the SP any compensation. I try to be careful before going to see someone who advertises. An obvious question like, are your pictures genuine ? If the answer is yes, it's me 100% and I show up and it's not even close, why would I give her anything ? When I make arrangements to see someone and I'm going to be late, I call or text when I' 5 mins before the allotted time, I give the girl the opportunity to book someone else and put me at a later time. If she says no, 20 mins later is ok then when I settle for the date, I will add something to the amount for the inconvenience I caused.To reward someone with $20. for deliberately deceiving me would be stupid on my part.
As to Amelie.courtesan and the post "he's just not the type of guy to pay for sex". years ago I met a SW in Boston and bought her a drink. We sat and discussed what she was doing and I had never been with a prostitute in my life, I said the same to her. She asked me if I was married, if I had a home, kids etc and then asked me how often I got laid a week, a month a year and then asked me to consider what all of my lifestyle cost and then divide that by the number of times my wife puts out and I will realize what sex is costing me at home.I did the mental math she was right, sex was actually costing me a fortune, so we do pay for it in one way or another. SP's fulfill a need and they earn an income for what they do, I respect that and enjoy my time with the ones I have seen.